Uhh, disagree. If people are telling you to 'fuck off' when you ask them what they think about abortion then they're not women or men, they are just immature kids.
I can hold a discussion about abortion, but I do feel emotional about it, but not the way you describe. Probably because I believe anyone has the right to do what they personally can live with. What can I live with? I don't know, because I don't have the problem.
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