How do I get over someone?

[gibleto]

I have a problem with this girl. It's a long story, but the beef of it is I have strong feelings for her, but I'm not so sure about her having the same feelings towards me.

I can't ask her, because she is mad at me, and mad at the world right now, and plus she lives in a different state.

I want to hook up with her at one point in my life, hopefully when she moves down to the same state I live in, and she isn't super pissed, but until then, (About 6 months from now) how do I get over her?

This girl is making me depressed at times, and confused at others. Over the last two weeks, there hasn't been a day where I feel very sad/lonely. I am sick of it. I just want to forget about her until she moves, but I REALLY have a problem about that.

Basically, it is ruining my social life. People want to talk to me less, because some how I always revert back to her, and I KNOW I do it, but that doesn't matter.

Any suggestions?

[Supachai]

Ask her. If she's living in another state and isn't coming down for siz months then you have plenty of timte to take in her answer and move on if it's a bad answer.

[Cooldsunshine]

What's up with all the girl problem thread today? I swear this is the fifth I see...

yeah sorry I didn't read your wall of text. Maybe later.

[djmrules]

Time is the only thing that'll help. I know this stuff first hand. I know it fucking sucks. Just concentrate on other things. I started to pay more attention to my grades in school and Started actually going to school. Your best bet is to just not think about it for as long as you can, But don't let it build up. If it comes down to You going insane or you thinking about all this stuff then take the sane way.

[Lagatag]

Whenever you think about her, hit yourself in the testicles.

[gibleto]

At 1/10/08 09:57 PM, Cooldsunshine wrote:

yeah sorry I didn't read your wall of text. Maybe later.

You don't even know what a wall of text is, do you?

[DentedDementia]

Grab a ladder.

[StarF68]

You basically have two options:
1) You go for it.
2) You back off and wait.

I guess the third option is to remain indecisive, but we both know that that's not going to help either situation at all.

So the key to deciding what to do is to access what can happen realistically. If you go for it, despite the fact that she's mad at you, what do you think will happen? Will it be worth it? Is it worth just knowing what will happen?

Or you can back off and wait, and hope that that'll produce optimal results. Personally I think this would be the way to go, but that's just from where I'm sitting, I obviously don't know the situation as well as you, because you're in it.

The only thing I can tell you for sure is that you have to choose to do something, because remaining in the middle will lose you everything altogether.

Good luck.

[gibleto]

At 1/10/08 09:56 PM, Supachai wrote: Ask her. If she's living in another state and isn't coming down for siz months then you have plenty of timte to take in her answer and move on if it's a bad answer.

It's not like that. I KNOW she likes me to SOME degree, but if I talk to her right now, she will most likely be disgusted.

Let's just say that over the winter break, I REALLY freaked out with the texts.

[MUcrazyFan]

Why'd you make her so angry?

[Bully129]

Only one thing to do my friend:New York. Hooker will clear that right up. 20$ cover charge.

[Orange]

Not even gonna read. The quickest way is ALWAYS to find someone else.

[All-American-Badass]

At 1/10/08 09:57 PM, Cooldsunshine wrote: What's up with all the girl problem thread today? I swear this is the fifth I see...

yeah sorry I didn't read your wall of text. Maybe later.

you should know by now that girl problem threads are common on the BBS
5 of them a day is nothing unusual

[gibleto]

At 1/10/08 10:04 PM, MUcrazyFan wrote: Why'd you make her so angry?

Something happened, I freaked out about it, but I didn't know why. I started messaging her, asking why she was avoiding me, even though she wasn't, got all paranoid, and wrote a really shitty poem at 2 in the morning calling her a bitch. My friend sent it to her, and she took it in the worst way possible.

[ripoffhitman]

Just ask her, if she says no, then you won't always think about her.

[StarF68]

At 1/10/08 10:08 PM, gibleto wrote:

At 1/10/08 10:04 PM, MUcrazyFan wrote: Why'd you make her so angry?

Something happened, I freaked out about it, but I didn't know why. I started messaging her, asking why she was avoiding me, even though she wasn't, got all paranoid, and wrote a really shitty poem at 2 in the morning calling her a bitch. My friend sent it to her, and she took it in the worst way possible.

Hell, at the best I'd say try to explain to her that you realize you were being paranoid and whatnot and you're sorry. Wait for all of this to blow over before you do anything, but apologize first and foremost.

[Orange]

Okay I read it, and I still suggest you find someone else

don't be picky

[MUcrazyFan]

At 1/10/08 10:08 PM, gibleto wrote:

At 1/10/08 10:04 PM, MUcrazyFan wrote: Why'd you make her so angry?

Something happened, I freaked out about it, but I didn't know why. I started messaging her, asking why she was avoiding me, even though she wasn't, got all paranoid, and wrote a really shitty poem at 2 in the morning calling her a bitch. My friend sent it to her, and she took it in the worst way possible.

Just tell her one of your siblings got on the computer/or phone and messaged her. My sister does it all the time! She tells random girls that i love them... So yea... do that...

[Phyco13]

you should probably go to yahoo answers for this kind of stuff but i guess newgrounds is ok for this type of question. My answer is party, meet new people, and smoke some weed.

[Yoyodog76]

At 1/10/08 09:57 PM, Cooldsunshine wrote: What's up with all the girl problem thread today? I swear this is the fifth I see...

yeah sorry I didn't read your wall of text. Maybe later.

Except for the part where it wasnt a wall of text.

Jackass

[gibleto]

At 1/10/08 10:11 PM, StarF68 wrote:

At 1/10/08 10:08 PM, gibleto wrote:

At 1/10/08 10:04 PM, MUcrazyFan wrote:

to her, and she took it in the worst way possible.

Hell, at the best I'd say try to explain to her that you realize you were being paranoid and whatnot and you're sorry. Wait for all of this to blow over before you do anything, but apologize first and foremost.

Trying to explain it just made me seem like an obsessive control freak, which obviously made it worse.

[Warrickneff]

If someone has the answer, I'd seriously like to know. INFORM ME DAMMIT.
I've never watched the movie "Eternal Sunshine of the whatever", but I'm willing to bed I'd like the premise right about now.

As for you Gibleto, I don't really know what to suggest. Talking to her and explaining things is the simplest way for her to understand, even if she rejects you because of it.

I definitely understand what you mean about the damn shitty feelings though. My roomies are doing everything they can to help me not be a dick, but it's so hard when I feel like that's how I always get treated.

[Kerma]

At 1/10/08 09:54 PM, gibleto wrote: Any suggestions?

Grab the mind remover thing from MIB and uhhh... erase your memory.

[RedDreadSky]

Don't do it, she might be a fucking attention-whore who lies to everyone about getting raped, costing her dad thousands of dollars in n an investigation, and getting her stepdad (who she accused) fired and almost jailed. Then she tells you that your a pussy for not taking advantage of her when she was drunk, and fucks your best friend.

[DudeGoofyGuy]

Everytime you think of her, stab yourself in the chest with a sharp knife. You won't have a problem within the next week.

[alwayslate]

i think i would just ask her if you got six monthes then if she gets even more angry then u can calm her down for the rest of the six monthes

[Lordfat]

Just cut your dick off.

[Orange]

In all seriousness, you'll be fine though ;)
and it'll hurt less each time (hopefully not too many times more)