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At 12/30/07 04:12 AM, Monocrom wrote:

At 12/30/07 03:33 AM, Demean wrote: Just do it.

Dude! What the fuck??

Don't be an ass! Sanjay is not some attention-whore who makes up fake shit just to get noticed.

If he says he's considering suicide, it's not a damn prank.

Yeah Demean, that was fucked up.

OsAmARaMa,

Seeing that your extremely depressed and have thoughts of suicide makes me want to act and tell you a few things you should do.

One of them is to see a psycyatrist, yes it does cost money but if your depression gets any more severe you must invest some money into this. They'll be able to guide you and see if that medication is working or if you need a different medication or if you need to stop the medication all together.

Another thing you must do is do things that would normally make you happy. Do hobbies, visit your friends, HAVE FUN! Try to not think about negative thoughts and focus more positive. Just think what makes you happy or what are your hobbies and do them.

Also, most importantly, think of the people you'd leave behind if you suicided. Think of all your family and friends and how'd THEY feel if you suicided. You'd just be causing them the same pain thats been caused to you. So it's best to stay strong and of course find help along the way. Friends and Family WILL help you if you need help during these times.

Just think of all your friends and family seeing you dead, crying and mourning and holding the same burden you had. Don't do this to yourself or your family and friends. They need you, We need you, and You need you.

I couldn't possibly imagine what your going through, but I just wanted to say I feel for you and so does the rest of newgrounds even though some deny it.

Newgrounds <3's you

I really can't say anything that hasn't already been said.

First off, at least you know that there is a problem, and now you have to do something about it. You shouldn't consider your mothers death to be the end of everything and I'm sure you know already know that, yet the feelings are still there. It's completely normal to feel saddened and demoralized, with the death of a parent, even years after they've died.

But quitting on life should never even be an option. You're so young and how do you think your family would feel if they lost you now? You have a whole lot ahead of you, and giving up now would mean missing out on what could be a very productive life.

If you ever see this, I beg you to please consider getting counseling. Even if what I say means little to you, at least know that I would feel absolutely saddened down to the deepest core if I found out that you killed yourself. I'm sure you have many friends from this website you can talk to about this as well if for some reason you don't want counseling.

Please take the support that you're getting from this thread, the emails and the PMs that you've gotten as a good sign. Your family, not to mention a whole community of people here, would never want to see you commit such an act and are ready to help in anyway we can.

I can only hope something that we've said has helped you in some way.

I want this to be kept on the front page until I figure out what's going on. This would be awful if something happened to him.

At 12/30/07 03:33 AM, Demean wrote: Just do it.

In the real world, the idiots come out at night...
at Newgrounds, the idiots come out during the day

Can it! Are you a man or a wuss!? Stop it! Become a man! Stop crying!

Don't do it man. Just plain don't do it.

At 12/30/07 01:42 PM, Lorkas wrote: Can it! Are you a man or a wuss!? Stop it! Become a man! Stop crying!

You need a hug or something man.... seriously

Just get, like already mentioned before, something nice and interesting to distract yourself a bit and get happy again... and if you got other family members, like Grandparents, who most people can speak with about practically all, try to talk to them, so they can help you carry your problems...

But suicide is the worst of all solutions, or to be more exact - IT IS NO SOLUTION...

Distracting yourself with something to do or a girlfriend or anything else is often a good idea which works for a long time...

At 12/30/07 02:31 PM, Crynsos wrote: But suicide is the worst of all solutions, or to be more exact - IT IS NO SOLUTION...

Or rather. a permanent solution to temporary problems.

I think that, if he had any intention to kill himself, he would've done it by now. I'm just hoping he didn't.

Judging by the fact that he's a level 34, I'm gonna guess this is serious. Based upon this, I just want to tell you to hang in there and maybe go see a psychiatrist. Maybe you are clinically depressed, or maybe you just need someone that you can talk to about your problems, but either way I think the best thing to do would be to go to a psychiatrist and tell him all the stuff you just posted here. Good luck, and don't do anything stupid

Hey man don't worry about it. Life is hard sometimes but you have to stand up and resist! Go get help, seriously, go see a psychologist and your problems will be solved!

FIGHT.

At 12/30/07 02:38 PM, g0t wrote: I think that, if he had any intention to kill himself, he would've done it by now. I'm just hoping he didn't.

Agreed!

oh noez e-drama!

noooooooooooooooooooooo! dont do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

At 12/28/07 09:52 PM, Noodleboy111 wrote: everybody pitch in and help him feel better with funny pictures

blazem.

Sanjay come post. I hope he isn't working at the 7 11 in the sky .

Sounds like you need a vacation.

Don't commit suicide.
Theres so much to live for, plus think of how you mother would feel knowing you killed your self.

Wow - normally I like to be a jerk and post "HAHA LETS ALL GO DIG UP YOUR MOM AND MAKE HER WRITE STUFF WITH HER DEAD HANDS"

but

I actually feel sad for you. I'm sorry.

At 12/28/07 09:34 PM, OsAmARaMa wrote: Stuff.

Osama, this is how I have felt except because of my brain tumor and my grandmother passing away. The main reason I have been at Newgrounds so much in the last 18 months is because all my friendships ended; I myself have rarely hung out with anyone over that time period, for I also feel I am just being ignored.

It's sad, because no one here knows who I am, and no one here actually considers me a friend, though I wish they did. I really would give a lot to be someone who could actually meet with and hang out with other Newgrounds members, for you guys are the only thing that really makes me feel comfortable anymore.

At 12/30/07 04:12 AM, Monocrom wrote:

At 12/30/07 03:33 AM, Demean wrote: Just do it.

Dude! What the fuck??

Don't be an ass! Sanjay is not some attention-whore who makes up fake shit just to get noticed.

If he says he's considering suicide, it's not a damn prank.

jesus I dont give a fuck, people who come here writing semi suicide posts are banned immediatly. That a bitch mod does this only makes it more pathetic.
Go seek prof help or "just do it" dont go bitch about it on a public forum mostly visited by 16 yo boys.
This utter crap and I have nothing good to say to the whore, nor to all the people (with lots of posts) who take this horsecrapp serious.

www.doubleyourdating.com

Well, why don't you cry about it somemore?

Well,I am no one to give advice.Thinking deeply about it,no one is one to give advice,but let's get into the subject.

I'm not a grown man (I'm only 16) but I understand some of your feelings,because My mother died too,and I rarely talk to my father,like you.Think about what is giving you so much depression.Maybe you expect too much from yourself,or you don't feel aprreciated.Maybe you are being incomformist and that's why you can't enjoy yourself.

I also would suggest,like some people said,getting a hobbie,something that keeps you entertained and relaxed,or go to a professional psychologist.He/she will be likely to be more useful than my advice.

In any case,try to take it easy.

Thanks.

before you die gimme yur account password! just kidding DONT KILL YOUR SELF!!!!

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Just try to relax, treat yourself to something you want, and get off the antidepressants. Those things just increase thoughts of suicide, which is somewhat counterproductive if you think about it. Just have some fun with your friends and stop thinking about your problems.

It's been tested several times: Smiling actually has a psychosomatic response in the brain. If you smile, you start to cheer up almost instantly. So get to smiling, rent a comedy movie, and invite some friends over.

Kill yourself.

Wow, you do sound like you are in a bad way. Sorry pal its pretty rough, feeling like that. I have been through quite a bit of what you describe and I am not entirely out of it. However, if you feel like listening to some advice, here goes:
1. I am one of the older people on NG and I have been through this kind of thing more than once. Last time I was in it, my heart said life was not worth living and I couldn't imagine it ever getting any better, but my head said "wait a minute- I remember this feeling, I've been here before, more than once!" Then I realised that however long it takes, it can pass.
2. So, you let the brain take over and keep your life in order- routine clean and healthy things to do; You accept that you can't MAKE yourself happy and go and do some things you always meant to do- that way you don't look back on a wasted piece of life.
3. For me, that meant going out and doing Karate - I met the person who became my secretary and helped me to get published, my life's ambition!
4. I also decided that if I couldn't help myself, I would help others, so I went to give blood. There is actually a blood donors crew here. It feels great when you know you have done something most people haven't got the courage to do.
5. Ask yourself what your mum would feel if she could 'look down' and tell you- you will know it in your heart- It wouldn't involve crying and moping and spoiling your life, would it.
6. Don't feel guilty about laughing about the good times with your mum. People's memories of their loved ones are the only sense in which they truly live on, other than the blood in their family.
7. Smile even when you don't feel happy. People will soon give up on you if you don't.
8. Seek out funny things, go look at Funny Cartoons here on Newgrounds.
9. The only wayt to counter the loss of the older generations is to appreciate the younger generations- spend some time with children and make them happy.

Best Wishes,
Ice

Man...I love you.