Do you get judged because

[Sawke]

of your clothes? It was free comic book day and I was looking through the stacks when this guy looked at me and said "hey a member from my chemical romance just made a comic would you like it?" what a dick. Just because I have converse,dyed hair,and a dead bunny on my shirt (from a comic) does not mean I like "my chemical romance" or that want to read a comic made by them! seriously i ended getting something totally different and he was suprised that i got fucking Archie! just because all those asshole Mychem fans decide to wear converse and look alike shouldn't mean that i can't! I'm never going back there that guy wouldn't even let my friends little sister get the action comic he kept directing her to fucking scooby doo.

[SirLebowski]

If you don't want judged by what you wear I suggest you either go nude or be a little less of a pussy about being judged.

[Rowan-Tea]

lol nothing like thats ever happened to me, Though sometimes when I walk down the road old people look at me as if Im about to mug them, I dont even look like a chav :/

[Cosmonautical]

At 6/17/07 09:45 AM, SirLebowski wrote: If you don't want judged by what you wear I suggest you either go nude or be a little less of a pussy about being judged.

I agree. The guy was just trying to be helpful. So what if he used stereotypes? They're more likely to work than just offering random comics to anyone.

[Gagsy]

Pointless rants are always fun to read.

[pandaeater123]

Well most people who would wear that would like that stuff.
The guys probably mistaken. Shit happens to me all the time.

JUST CUZ IM FAT DOESNT MEAN I WANT YOUR FOOD BITCH!

[TakeMyXbox]

Judge my ass, im fucking heartless

and i could give a fuck anyway

[Anko]

Always, seeing as I'm a Chinese kid who wears "ghetto" clothes.

[Sawke]

At 6/17/07 09:51 AM, MickTheChampion wrote: Maybe you should've just taken the fucking comic rather than crying to us?

why would i take....the comic if i didn't want it? clearly you don't get judged because it's frowned upon to treat retards differently clearly your "special".

[jimothyjim00]

Sounds like he was just doing his job.

[He-Who-Never-Was]

At 6/17/07 09:55 AM, Sawke wrote: why would i take....the comic if i didn't want it? clearly you don't get judged because it's frowned upon to treat retards differently clearly your "special".

Why didn't you just tell him that you did not want the comic? Must have been hard.

Oh yeah, you should have gotten the comic for your sister, instead of moaning and bitching and complaining.

[gibleto]

wear a shirt with huge letters IM AN ASS WHOLE printed all over it and go into the store and ask him if he wants to borrow it

[He-Who-Never-Wa]

At 6/17/07 09:57 AM, He-Who-Never-Was wrote: Oh yeah, you should have gotten the comic for your sister, instead of moaning and bitching and complaining.

*Friends sister, didn't feel like going back to check if i was correct, ive went into other topics.

[Cosmonautical]

At 6/17/07 09:52 AM, TakeMyXbox wrote: Judge my ass, im fucking heartless

and i could give a fuck anyway

Okay. I think you have a fixation in the phallic psychosexual stage - judging by your attitude. That, or you get bullied and picked on by your peers, and in order to escape that here, you're trying to create a new persona.

And I'd say that the 'hard-ass' approach you seem to be showing is just sublimation for your sexual repression.

Are you happy now?

[Enoll]

People are always going to judge you buy the way you dress, this is
a fact of life everyone has to come to terms with at one point or another.
All you can do it have fun and suprise people by contradicting thier assumptions.

I undestand this issue completely. I've had people run away from me beacuse of the
way I dress sometimes. I'm a nice guy, really..
:(

[RampantBunnyLove]

What? Like you never judge people?
Grow up, everyone does it.

[Sawke]

I don't think people really get how fucking annoying it is to not be able to wear black more than three times a week without some assholes coming up to you and asking if you're a goth.It's not only rude but it's stupid.If i see a girl wearing a miniskirt I don't go "hey are you a hooker?" wtf.

[Gagsy]

At 6/17/07 10:08 AM, Sawke wrote: I don't think people really get how fucking annoying it is to not be able to wear black more than three times a week without some assholes coming up to you and asking if you're a goth.It's not only rude but it's stupid.If i see a girl wearing a miniskirt I don't go "hey are you a hooker?" wtf.

Maybe you just look like a depressing fuck all the time to go with the goth image.

[Cosmonautical]

At 6/17/07 10:08 AM, Sawke wrote: I don't think people really get how fucking annoying it is to not be able to wear black more than three times a week without some assholes coming up to you and asking if you're a goth.

It's a common occurance. Just like being a guy with long hair warrants "Get a haircut!"

I get stereotyped as a goth by ignorant people without ever even wearing anything black/gothic. Just get used to it and accept that some people are stupid.

[Sawke]

At 6/17/07 10:11 AM, Gagsy wrote:

Maybe you just look like a depressing fuck all the time to go with the goth image.

no lol It's just how i look.See these peole don't bother to talk to me,sit near me,hell even learn my name.Because if they spent more than one minute with me they'd see i'm the anti goth.I mean one guy actually drew me HANGING myself.I'm least depressed person in my group...in fact i hate being around depressed people who i can't make feel better.

[Kidiri]

No, because most of my time I spend in school, where I have to weara uniform. So everybody's wearing mostly the same. That's a great advantage of a uniform.

Hint, hint...

[UltraSexyMrBig]

Life is a bitch,ain't it?

[strumpy]

At 6/17/07 09:55 AM, Sawke wrote:

At 6/17/07 09:51 AM, MickTheChampion wrote: Maybe you should've just taken the fucking comic rather than crying to us?

why would i take....the comic if i didn't want it? clearly you don't get judged because it's frowned upon to treat retards differently clearly your "special".

Oh man that was good. XD

[Sawke]

At 6/17/07 10:22 AM, Kidiri wrote:

Hint, hint...

lmao...still i like how i dress and i like not looking like everyone else...it's just really irritating sometimes the consequences.

[Damien]

At 6/17/07 10:01 AM, Enoll wrote: I undestand this issue completely. I've had people run away from me beacuse of the
way I dress sometimes. I'm a nice guy, really..

(

Well boo-hoo.
You know, a female friend of mine has pink hair. It's really nice, and I think it's beautifull (why am I not dating her?...). But everywhere we go, she gets people staring at her, gazing and some even insulting. She couldn't care less, but honestly, why is this? I don't get it.
Indeed, don't base people on their labels. Most of the time, we're all just wimps.
I first talk to people before I call them a trifflin' ho. I myself don't have a label, strange as it may seem, I don't have anything specific, I am completly label less, not alternative, not punk, not skater, not jump, not nerd, nothing.
My clothes are completly contraversy actually. I got restyled once and now Ihave techno outfits and punk stuff. So I'm everything and nothing at the same time. Sweet.
But I still prefer the good ol' metal music.

At 6/17/07 10:08 AM, Sawke wrote: If i see a girl wearing a miniskirt I don't go "hey are you a hooker?" wtf.

This very sentence is indeed very true.
Goths get scolded very easly, but sluts don't. The strange facts of the teenage life.

[Sarai]

I wear black all the time, people don't call me a Goth. It's your attitude with the black, your makeup if any. That kind of thing. I wear black because I look very good in black, I don't wear it to make some 'group' statement.

It's probably an age thing, you hang out with people who judge you on the way you look in the form of social groups. I hang out with people where we are judged just as women... Sexy or not. You are a bit too young for that I guess.

-S

[ZeroAsALimit]

At 6/17/07 10:11 AM, Gagsy wrote: Maybe you just look like a depressing fuck all the time to go with the goth image.

Goths are a rare breed, never seen outside of Cure concerts or the occasional Bauhaus reformation tour.

[Shauna]

I wear so many different styles of clothing that I guess I just confuse people all around now. The only time I've been judged by my clothes was in middle school. Use to be all into that whole ghetto line of clothing. Shady Limited, Sean John, Ecko, etc. Got called a wigger because of that...which is probably true because I acted like one too. The people I hang around now don't judge me based on that. So either it just takes growing up or just naturally ignoring stupid comments like that from people you don't know.

[pepeatumi]

Yes, yes I do. To be honest, I've stopped caring about it. I just wear the clothes in which I feel the most comfortable. If someone doesn't like it, then they can just look the other way.

I don't care what other people wear, and they shouldn't care about what I'm wearing.

[SirFinland]

At 6/17/07 09:42 AM, Sawke wrote: of your clothes?

Oh yes I do. People think that I'm either a murderer or I worship Satan and I do not do those things. People are actually sometimes scared when they see me.