I Want my Girl Back

[UnknownFear]

Alas, I have come to Newgrounds for help. I have dated my girlfriend for over 4 years now. Last week, she cheated on me with my friend. We are good friends and we still love eachother, but she wants space and such. Now, the question I have to ask you is, my girl madeout with my BEST friend at a dance. What I don't get it, why my friend did not say "You know what, you have your boyfriend" or even my girl to say that, but they didnt. They are now dating and my friend asked her out. The onne question I am dieing to know is, one of them could have said no. They didnt. I am not going to hate my es girlfriend because we have talked it through and we can still hangout and talk, but the guy. I want you to tell me if it is right to kick his ass for what he did. Should I, or should I not?

[Xragon]

She cheated on you, and you want her back... dude get some fucking respect for yourself.

[UnknownFear]

At 1/5/07 09:24 AM, Xragon wrote: She cheated on you, and you want her back... dude get some fucking respect for yourself.

I made the mistake of breaking up wit her the next day.

[jdog925]

At 1/5/07 09:22 AM, UnknownFear wrote: Alas, I have come to Newgrounds for help. I have dated my girlfriend for over 4 years now. Last week, she cheated on me with my friend.

Screw them both, call her a whore and punch him in the face.

[Xragon]

At 1/5/07 09:24 AM, UnknownFear wrote:

At 1/5/07 09:24 AM, Xragon wrote: She cheated on you, and you want her back... dude get some fucking respect for yourself.

I made the mistake of breaking up wit her the next day.

You should have broke up with her, she betrayed you... in this case, you're better than that.

[UnknownFear]

At 1/5/07 09:24 AM, jdog925 wrote: Screw them both, call her a whore and punch him in the face.

I plan on punching the guy in the face.

[Denta]

DUDE, are you an emotional sadomachoshist?!

[Rawrsome]

Have a conversation with your friend. If that doesnt work, kick his ass up and down some stairs.

[Randominator]

pff females are trouble.

they drain your wallet and your soul :P

[kidray76]

Age: 16
If you've been dating since 12, kudos for you.

On a serious note, just let her go and move on. The grass isn't always greenier on the otherside. Besides, if she did that in public, no telling what she might do in private.

So in the words of Jay -Z: Fuck it, let it burn. Red, green pill. You live and you learn.

[Robinson]

She cheated on you with your friend?Wow talk about a bitch.I dont know how much times i've seen friends turn into eneimies over a chick.Try getting a new girlfriend to get your ex jealous.

[positively-negative]

Well I would say metal pipe or similar beating instrument + friend's balls. It might not help get your girl back but it will stop him from doing anything in a hurry and it will make you feel better. Take the stance that if you can't have her, no-one can.

[WilliWowza]

They're both idiots, don't just hate on your friend.

[ShitOnAStick]

Age: 16
Gender: Male

They aren't controlled by logic, they are controlled by hormones at this age. It's hard for someone to stop and NOT think for themselves and logically step back and say, yo, this aint right. But it's always about the moment, it feeling right, and being selfish.
But the motto goes man. Bro's before Ho's. I would have shown him no mercy, personally. That is a low blow.

[wickedswami]

just put some glue and a sticker on the cigarette-burn hole ur friend made and blow her up.. (like, with a pump, not with explosives)

[Danger1234]

Fuck her friend, and fuck his mom.

There, now you feel better.

[Turd-Of-The-Week]

You came to newgrounds for LOVE help? the best you'll get his "rape her"
Your first mistake.So all I can tell ya is......RAPE HER!

[RanmaYagami]

Any 'friend' who would go ahead and make out with a girl he knows to be your girfriend isn't a friend at all. What you do, you do, but personally I'd tell them to stay the hell away from me for a good while 'till I got over it.

I've already had to do it once :(

[Danger1234]

At 1/5/07 09:52 AM, Turd-Of-The-Week wrote: You came to newgrounds for LOVE help? the best you'll get his "rape her"
Your first mistake.So all I can tell ya is......RAPE HER!

NOOOOOO Turd. Well, you'll be missed.

[HaroFreak]

At 1/5/07 09:24 AM, Xragon wrote: She cheated on you, and you want her back... dude get some fucking respect for yourself.

Exactly, if there's a reason to make her cheat on the topic starter, chances are that it'll happen again like the vicious cycle that it is.

[Warrickneff]

Be the bigger man in the situation and let it go.

If you should be angy at anyone it is should be your girlfriend. As hard as this situation is, try to forget any history you have with her and to take every thing she says with a grain of salt. She cheated on you, and if your four year relationship means so little to her, then she may have been deceiving you.

The guy? Hate him all you want for being a dick, but I wouldn't do anything about it. If you fight him you're not gonna get the girl back, people are gonna look down on you for not controlling yourself after a failed relationship.

i had this happen to a very close friend and they kept hurting themselves every time they tried to go back. I would honestly suggest breaking it off 100% with the girl.

[PirateKirby]

You should be considering the oppisite line of thinking. The dude is your BEST FRIEND!! Dont let some stupid slut ruin it for you. You should consider either ignoring the girl forever or telling her she's a slut and then ignoring her forever.

[PurpleHaze]

I know that feeling, you get all pissed at them at first, and when they leave you and move on, your wanting them back.

I hate love, it makes you feel like shit after you break up.

[Lucy]

You could kick his ass, but that might make the girl feel more for him. If she still loves you then what the fuck is she doing with another boy as soon as that? Either she's lying or she has issues with being alone and figuring herself out. You say you still love her, it might be better to leave her to her own now. Don't mean to be harsh, but it'll be you that gets hurt. Cheating on someone after 4years and then dating someone else not long after is not what I'd call love.

Although, maybe he's a bit of a rebound for her and she does love you. Hell, even I can't figure girls out anymore and I bloody am one.

[Danger1234]

Lucy, your pretty fine. Want to go out?

[Denton]

At 1/5/07 09:28 AM, UnknownFear wrote:

At 1/5/07 09:24 AM, jdog925 wrote: Screw them both, call her a whore and punch him in the face.

I plan on punching the guy in the face.

You do that! Show yourself what man you really are!

[placeboelectra]

You are the biggest fucking queerbait dickless fuckfaced bastard on Newgrounds,your bitch cheated on you with YOUR friend and you are complaining because you broke up with her and now you want her back? Grow a backbone you idiot and some balls while you are at it,you dont kiss this girls ass after she cheated on you,you fucking punch her in the face and cum on it one last time before taking pictures. By the way I fucked her too,she wasnt all that good and it smells rotten down there.

[LittleMissVixen]

You really should just tell him off for it. And her too. That's a really shitty thing to do for someone you've been going out with for 4 years. After that long, you should be capable of telling the other person you want space, and not resorting to making out with a friend. I'm not saying go beat everyone up or anything, but you have a right to be angry, so express it.
Hell, I'd be pissed off.
And move on, a girl like that who cheated once is more likely to do it again than another girl who hasn't. Would you really want that?

[Snype]

At 1/5/07 09:24 AM, UnknownFear wrote

I made the mistake of breaking up wit her the next day.

Hey, thats a damn good thing. Imagine if she was your wife and you had children and she did the same thing. Would you still love her then? I doubt it. I would feel betrayed and disgusted. Now go kick his ass!

[FeargusMcDuff]

At 1/5/07 09:28 AM, UnknownFear wrote: I plan on punching the guy in the face.

Please, please do. He deserves more than that but if you can do it hard enough it will be well worth it.