At 10/28/06 11:23 PM, HeinousDude wrote:
You're getting back with her illogically. I won't feel sorry for you when she lies to you again.
Well fuck you then. You don't understand the scope of the situation.
At 10/28/06 11:25 PM, iamironman wrote:
ok, i have a serious question for you...
ARE YOU GAY
No.
although sum girls are bitches, and flick you're ear at every posable chance they get (although i know thats only a sighn that they like you) most girls are nice, and prity. I for one like girls. with out them the world would be... a less lively place, if you know what i meen.
I agree with you for the most part. However, girls aren't mostly nice and 'prity' as you say, they just project an image of that. There are some sincerely nice and wholesome females, but my interaction with them is few and far between. Most girls are evil and selfish, its in their nature. In fact, studies show that females learn how to manipulate, deceive, and lie at an age much earlier than males do.
At 10/29/06 12:03 AM, Captain-Jack wrote:
At 10/28/06 11:10 PM, cellardoor6 wrote:
shes going to move back to Seattle. So I think this might be a good thing.
Hey dude, well done getting this girl to change her entire life just to satisfy your own selfish interests.
Well screw you Jack, screw you. She told me herself that I am more important to her. She can still pursue her own interests as well. In fact, it was ME who suggested that she go to college and be independent. Before we seperated, she wanted to get married right away and have a kid and take care of him/her while I worked and went to school. So don't indict me Jack, this is what she wanted originally.
I'm not denying the fact that Celeste made a mistake, but you are being a selfish, demanding, controlling prick. You've posted intimate pictures you have taken of her (that she was initially reluctant in allowing you to take) on this site.
Dude. I could have posted much worse pictures of her. She is quite the exhibitionist, I'm sure she would actually get turned on if I told her I posted pictures of her to complete strangers over the internet. Whats worse though, cheating on someone, or showing other people pictures of them?
You've considered using the present imbalance in your relationship to emotionally blackmail her into a threesome. That's practically emotional rape.
I was exaggerating slightly when i said that, I wouldn't actually have tried to get a threesome the first time I saw her in months. Besides, we have (had) an open relationship like that, we had talked to eachother about having threesomes before. She brought up the idea a year ago when we were in Paris, unfortunately neither of us spoke a word of french so our efforts to seduce a French woman failed miserably.
So even if I brought it up she wouldn't have felt exploited.
The fact that she hurt you does not permit you to be a complete asshole to her. You've either forgiven her or you haven't.
I'm giving her an opportunity to atone for what she's done. She hasn't been completely honest obviously therefore I need more proof. She is the one who is begging for me to get back together with her completely. I only gave in recently after ignoring her for a while. If she wants it that bad, as she claims, she can concede a little bit.
If you haven't forgiven her, you have no business exploiting the guilt she feels over this incident in order to throw your weight around. YOU'RE the one who is being evil.
I have forgiven her if she was telling the truth. But I can't verify this and she has to prove it to me. She said she would move back home if I wanted her to, I didn't want this at first, but she lost my trust understandably when she cheated on me. I'm not being the evil one. I have never lied to her. I'm not exploiting her guilt either, I'm just telling her that she if she wants me she has to prove it that its worth it for me, and shes willing to do that.
In any event, it's obvious that the trust has evaporated in your relationship. Without trust, there can be no love. I'd give it another month, tops.
I hate you Jack, don't rain on my parade. I give YOU (another month, tops)! Hah!