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At 10/15/06 09:56 PM, Denver-Max wrote:

At 10/15/06 09:44 PM, Ladylor wrote:

what do you have to lose?

UGH.
I HATE WHEN PEOPLE SAY THAT.
In most cases, what you have to lose is a possible friendship. I for one value friendships.

if the girl is mature she can ignore that he asked her out and still be friends i do it sometimes two guys that asked me out were people i saw regularly i told them no but i pretended like it never happend i find awkward situations useless either forget about what happened or talk about it.I like forgetting :D.

I treat boys the same why I want them to treat me. So, I'm as honest as can be, which usually means cruel, as well...

At 10/15/06 10:00 PM, Ladylor wrote:

At 10/15/06 09:44 PM, Ladylor wrote:

if the girl is mature she can ignore that he asked her out and still be friends i do it sometimes ...

Are you trying to say you're mature?
Oh god.
Aha =]

At 10/15/06 07:44 PM, unparalleled wrote: No, it's much better when the girl lies and draws out the whole relationship and right at the end letting it blow up in your face rather than just being upfront and honest at the beginning.

Im not too sure about that.

At 10/15/06 07:16 PM, ZeroAsALimit wrote: If you are not interested in a guy, tell him so.

The last thing I fucking want is to wait for a phone call that doesn't come, just because you don't have the bollocks to tell me that you find me repulsive.

That is all.

Those girls are more repulsive themselves than they think you are.

At 10/15/06 10:00 PM, Ladylor wrote:

At 10/15/06 09:56 PM, Denver-Max wrote:

At 10/15/06 09:44 PM, Ladylor wrote:

what do you have to lose?

UGH.
I HATE WHEN PEOPLE SAY THAT.
In most cases, what you have to lose is a possible friendship. I for one value friendships.

if the girl is mature she can ignore that he asked her out and still be friends i do it sometimes two guys that asked me out were people i saw regularly i told them no but i pretended like it never happend i find awkward situations useless either forget about what happened or talk about it.I like forgetting :D.

Ugg, I wish they were all like you. I asked this girl out that I had talked to every day for 3 1/2 years, then she never talked to me again. And she lives next door.....

At 10/15/06 09:58 PM, ZeroAsALimit wrote:

At 10/15/06 09:54 PM, Ladylor wrote: MOST men are tactless

And that is funny to you?

God, I hope you get raped and die of the AIDS.

Quite clearly neither of us see eye to eye, so I suggest in the interests of keeping this board more civil that we don't talk to one another.

no I'm being civil now YOUR being the bitch.I'm going to give you an example of what i found funny then i'm done you don't even have to reply just read it.This guy in my class liked a girl he saw her for only her looks i know because he never talked to her after two weeks he decides to talk to her then he asks her out after the only times he talked to her were outside and in the hallway he asked her out and she said no.WHAT i find funny about this situation is this all he had to do is this:

1. try to talk to her as often as possible even sit with her in class which he didn't do.

2. make friends with her friends then slide in to her group

3.share things you have in common.

THREE easy main things and NO ONE ever does it at my school they either mumble and whisper and sweat instead of acting mature or they act suave and get lucky by actually getting the girl.This guy btw followed this girl around and his friends started to harrass her but then i stepped in and started laughing and embarrassing the shit out of them.All of that could have been avoided if he made an effort instead of taking advice from his loser friends who they themselves didn't have girlfriends.

At 10/15/06 10:01 PM, Denver-Max wrote:

At 10/15/06 10:00 PM, Ladylor wrote:

At 10/15/06 09:44 PM, Ladylor wrote:

if the girl is mature she can ignore that he asked her out and still be friends i do it sometimes ...

Are you trying to say you're mature?
Oh god.
Aha =]

no I'm saying I'm not a immature little asshole bitch who giggle and laughs everytime a guy that i dumped walks by i pretend like it never happened and continue like were still friends and it worked because the guy was extremely shy and i felt kind of bad so i was as nice as possible and didn't shy away like a idiot but if your definition of mature is ignoring someone just because they asked you out on a date that's your right.

Love is an invention of the human species. I don't see why someone would need someone else and I just can't understand how a human being can be this intimate with another human being. Love is such an abstract concept.

But I'm not too sure you were talking about love here. It would rather seem as if you were talking about social skills and how to get a girlfriend, only to dump her after two or three months.

I enjoy the mini flame war though.

At 10/15/06 10:16 PM, Ladylor wrote:

no I'm saying I'm not a immature little asshole bitch who giggle and laughs everytime a guy that i dumped walks by i pretend like it never happened and continue like were still friends and it worked because the guy was extremely shy and i felt kind of bad so i was as nice as possible and didn't shy away like a idiot but if your definition of mature is ignoring someone just because they asked you out on a date that's your right.

You misunderstood him. By mature he meant "pretend like it never happened and continue like were still friends."

Duh ... so what's going on exactly ? Is it a fight between sexes to decide which side is the bitchy one ? Or it's more like a pseudo-emo debate about people being fucked because they thought they were on the right track and got ignored ? Can we get a quick resume for those like I who missed the first half ? :)

At 10/15/06 09:54 PM, Ladylor wrote: would you like me to descibe them in puppets?

Yes pls :D

Sorry i'm feeling figitty this night.

At 10/15/06 09:26 PM, ShitOnAStick wrote: It isn't natural? I think I've seen more men lead on chicks, and realizing way later in it either they dont want them anymore, or tell them their intentions finally when it's too late.

Oh god yes, my friend Chicken alone is TERRIBLE when it comes to girls. That boy changes his mind every 5 seconds and leads the girls on the whole time. He's just a SEXY sexy guy...and he knows how to use it to his advantage.

But I dunno....it might be more common amongst girls, but I'm not friends with many girls...I just know in general...they don't want to make the guys feel bad, they don't have the heart to reject them straight off, so try and be 'friends'.

Not realising of course that makes it all the more confusing/hurtful ^

Sorry for double-post, figured I should slot that in.

At 10/15/06 07:18 PM, Kirk-Cocaine wrote:

At 10/15/06 07:16 PM, ZeroAsALimit wrote: The last thing I fucking want is to wait for a phone call that doesn't come, just because you don't have the bollocks to tell me that you find me repulsive.

Maybe she doesn't have credit.

That's what I always tell myself.

lol, teenage angst.

but i'm afraid she did have credit and she simply did not want to talk to you. maybe you are going for girls that are out of your league.

/werd

Fuck ZAAL, your a pussy.

Harden the fuck up!

At 10/15/06 10:12 PM, Ladylor wrote: 1. try to talk to her as often as possible even sit with her in class which he didn't do.

I did this.

2. make friends with her friends then slide in to her group

And this.

3.share things you have in common.

And this.

Your method really works. I got turned down.

:O

At 10/16/06 09:01 AM, blanblan wrote:

At 10/15/06 10:12 PM, Ladylor wrote: 1. try to talk to her as often as possible even sit with her in class which he didn't do.

I did this.

2. make friends with her friends then slide in to her group

And this.

3.share things you have in common.

And this.

Your method really works. I got turned down.

Cause the method is TOO KEEN. Man, if I'm only slightly interested in a guy and he just makes all the moves and is all in my face talking constantly, it's like...where's the chase? It's all too easy. Just look really hot and act out of her league ;)

At 10/16/06 09:04 AM, BobbyJenkins wrote: Cause the method is TOO KEEN. Man, if I'm only slightly interested in a guy and he just makes all the moves and is all in my face talking constantly, it's like...where's the chase? It's all too easy. Just look really hot and act out of her league ;)

Yeah.

The only upside to her method is that I made tons of new friends. :D

The error most people are making in here is applying a standard to a type of situation that can and will change drastically depending on the people, the place, the time, etc.

There is no single "method."

There's just way too many factors when it comes to two people interacting (especially those of the opposite sex) to establish any sort of standard.

At 10/16/06 09:42 AM, Zerok wrote: There's just way too many factors when it comes to two people interacting (especially those of the opposite sex) to establish any sort of standard.

And with same sex, you just have to look at the length of their fingernails and shove your hand down their pants.

Maybe she didn't call you because you spent too much time posting on Newgrounds while you could have been at a party with her.

At 10/16/06 09:01 AM, blanblan wrote:

Your method really works. I got turned down.

O

at least you TRIED some people don't put in any effort.

At 10/15/06 07:17 PM, HylianLuigi wrote: Got the cold shoulder, huh? It happens to all of us.

HA HA!

*leaves*

At 10/16/06 06:33 PM, Ladylor wrote:

Your method really works. I got turned down.

O

at least you TRIED some people don't put in any effort.

Actually I do the same thing you recomend, not just because you said to, but out of habit for some reason, I don't think it's because I am Ugly , atleast I am told i'm not, maybe my personality is just to random F:?

At 10/16/06 06:51 PM, HoboPorn wrote:

don't think it's because I am Ugly , atleast I am told i'm not,

you aren't and I'm not just being nice but i wouldn't tell you you're ugly I'd say you're average.But your not soo ya lol.