Right, I'm stopping this here.
This isn't a chat topic, this is one post at a time topic explaining your computer troubles. You did not need to post 6 (SIX!!) times.
DO NOT, under any circumstances, turn this topic in to shit. I am thoroughly pissed off with the both of you.
Right, your solution. Even though I don't even know what it is even more since you've decided to get all chatty.
Want a solution to malware problems? Back up, and format.
Honestly, don't even waste your time with anti-anything these days. The fact is, when you're using software to detect (malicious) software, obviously there can be (and invariably are) issues with that.
The fact is, you don't know what damage this malware is doing to your system, especially with new and more powerful kits on the Internet which can easily turn off any Anti-virus and firewall, and can go by, quite easily in fact, undetected. Just think, if your software firewall can hook on to the kernel to detect traffic flowing from your system, so can any piece of software with malicious intent.
This is the reason I do not use AV or a software firewall, because it's now getting to the stage where it's just pointless.
Get yourself a router, which is an excellent hardware firewall. And because it's hardware independent of your actual PC, it can't be infected as easily, if at all.
Once you've been infected with something like this, you have to ask yourself "Can I trust this system again?" The answer should always be 'no'.