At 9/14/12 07:41 PM, RydiaLockheart wrote:
At 9/14/12 05:58 PM, morefngdbs wrote:
Speaking about dollarsAwesome! I thought you didn't want to? Not that it matters though, that's great to hear.
Well I've gone & bought the diamond & tomorrow I'm asking my honey to marry me.
You are right .... I wasn't ever going to do this.
But circumstances changed (isn't that what life is ? ever changing .)
Oh , she has said 'yes' Rydialockheart . (I'm not sure what I would have done with her ring if she said no !?! )
So to protect her, & make sure there is no question of her getting my pension , my property etc when I kick.
Marriage is the one way for sure I know gives her legal standing above my ex wife & against the differences in Provincial law, which recognizes common law relationships & Federal law which doesn't recognize allthe same provisions, particularly where Ferderal Pensions are concerned !
The virus that attacked my heart has left me still weak & according to my heath specialists, I will never get better .... I can possibly improve, but that doesn't mean I will get better.
But if I don't improve through drugs & rest ... My options aren't ended yet, if after 6 months to a year from my collapsing if I get no better than I am now, electric shock could get me out of A fib, or a pacemaker could possibly carry the electrical signal the chamber that no longer works to start pumping again, & if all that fails
then its either a transplant or artificial pump.
So not dead yet, but doing a little planning in case it don't all work out.