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At 2/1/06 04:18 AM, fli wrote: (Sepheroth... I may pass by LA-- by Placita Olivera for a few useless trinkets. Just to let you know.)

Let me know when and I'd be glad to meet up with you bro, we can go get some pollo or something, lol.

At 2/1/06 04:09 AM, EnragedSephiroth wrote: Oh, and some feedback would be greatly appreciated. I feel like I've tried everything to get through to her. But she's relentlessly locked up in her anime/yaoi-writing-obsessed world and letting a perfectly-good girl go to waste.

If you hadn't of just had the conversation you did, I'd recommend exactly that.

I've found the only way to get through to peope is be brutally honest...especially with friends and family. Friends and family will gladly let you enable them, in a lot of situations. I'm glad you said what you said, even if it didn't seem to have any immediate result.
It's the people that are closest to us that we listen to the most. Sometimes, though, it's the truth from those close-friends that hurts the most. All you can do is give her sound advice, and not contribute to her problem by enabling her.

I don't know. That's what worked for me. Maybe it won't work for everyone...but I think you did a good job attempting to get through to her, either way.

At 2/1/06 04:18 AM, fli wrote: Somebody sigify Damein's words... please.
His sweetest words needs to be preserved because they are little and far between.

Hey, now. I'm ultra-sweet, all the time.

Just not...you know...on newgrounds. Or around anybody else, for that matter.

You go to hell.

At 2/1/06 04:27 AM, Samuel_HALL wrote: I don't know. That's what worked for me. Maybe it won't work for everyone...but I think you did a good job attempting to get through to her, either way.

Thanks Sam. I don't know why but apparently she's not motivated to succeed. She's sort of a microcosm of the nation's failing education system. For some reason, economic success won't motivate her, lucrative jobs with lucrative pay so that she can buy all the anime she wants won't motivate her, nothing will motivate her, I'm hoping this made at least a small impact on her.
She tries to put up a tough front and act like she doesn't care, but she's not a monster, I know she cares. And she can't fool me anymore with carelesness because of the statement she made about her mom, she's human deep down inside and she won't admit it. She's scared of something happening if she changes but... I have no idea what the hell it is she's afraid of.

At 2/1/06 03:37 AM, Samuel_HALL wrote: Did that sound really condescending? I meant that as a compliment, you know.

No, I totally agree. Before I was like, "meh, fli is ok, I guss." But in that picture... I'd look twice at that guy walking down the street, and then see him with his boyfriend, and die a little inside because I can't get a man like that. (lolj/k)

And Damien, now that I've gotten to know you, I think you're an extreme sweetheart. It's just you word things like a dolt sometimes, but all men do. :D But yeah, I can tell now when you're being a schmuck, it's just a show. I know you're a good man. *hugs*

I still think he's an asshole, and that it's not a show. *shrug*

I want a cat.

I finally met my other roommate a day or two ago. She seems cat-friendly.

hmm.

At 2/1/06 04:21 PM, red_skunk wrote:
I finally met my other roommate a day or two ago. She seems cat-friendly.

hmm.

She probably has a vagina too. Go for it man, I believe in you.

You guys are acting like two repressed mormons now. Aren't there any female co-workers you can grope Bakshi? Or is that why they put you in the tool section? Away from the snatch?

At 2/1/06 12:04 AM, fli wrote: I'm trying to use contacts now because I glasses do make me feel older. I have them, but my eyes feel like they got sand in them.

I think it's the glasses combined with the haircut.

No offense, but in that picture, you DO look like a forty-seven year old chinese man.

Other people have been showing off their work out gear so I figured I would jump on the bandwagon. The place is a mess. I know

On the top is my dumbell, set at 120 pounds. In the corner is my very cool shoe.

On the bottom is my curl bar. The tool responcible for my infamous sleevless shirt flexing picture. Set at 350. above it there are old college books that were outdated by the time I tried to bring them back so I was fucking screwed

I have those same dumbbells in the bottom picture. My grandfather gave them to us. Once I picked them up. They went from the car to the corner of a room in our house.

Yeah. Great work out.

At 2/1/06 04:21 PM, red_skunk wrote: I want a cat.

I finally met my other roommate a day or two ago. She seems cat-friendly.

hmm.

I hope you mean pussy friendly. OMG WEBCASTS!!!

At 2/1/06 04:30 PM, red_skunk wrote: You guys are acting like two repressed mormons now.

Isn't the Mormon the only one who has semi-regular hetrosexual sex?=O

At 2/1/06 05:26 PM, BeFell wrote:

At 2/1/06 04:21 PM, red_skunk wrote:

At 2/1/06 04:30 PM, red_skunk wrote: You guys are acting like two repressed mormons now.

Isn't the Mormon the only one who has semi-regular hetrosexual sex?=O

They got kicked out of Illinois.

You know you suck when you get kicked out of Illinios.

And then go to a place called Salt Lake.

At 2/1/06 05:10 PM, stafffighter wrote: On the bottom is my curl bar. The tool responcible for my infamous sleevless shirt flexing picture. Set at 350.

Curl bar at 350?

Dude. Seriously. Settle down.

At 2/1/06 05:26 PM, BeFell wrote: Isn't the Mormon the only one who has semi-regular hetrosexual sex?=O

You were just that desperate. Any of us could mail order a bride too.

At 2/1/06 05:26 PM, BeFell wrote:

Isn't the Mormon the only one who has semi-regular hetrosexual sex?=O

Stop being modest. I'm sure if we asked your wife she'd say it's incredibly ordinary

At 2/1/06 05:31 PM, Elfer wrote:

Curl bar at 350?

Dude. Seriously. Settle down.

Why? I mean I am as a woman who once refused to give me her number said "a pretty beefy guy" but I'm hardly hercules.

At 2/1/06 05:46 PM, stafffighter wrote: Why? I mean I am as a woman who once refused to give me her number said "a pretty beefy guy" but I'm hardly hercules.

Hercules visited a barber on occasion.

At 2/1/06 05:52 PM, BeFell wrote:

At 2/1/06 05:46 PM, stafffighter wrote: Why? I mean I am as a woman who once refused to give me her number said "a pretty beefy guy" but I'm hardly hercules.

Hercules visited a barber on occasion.

Dude, Kevin Sorbo had long hair.

At 2/1/06 05:54 PM, stafffighter wrote: Dude, Kevin Sorbo had long hair.

Yes and it was well taken care of with various products and evenly cut.

At 2/1/06 05:57 PM, BeFell wrote:

At 2/1/06 05:54 PM, stafffighter wrote: Dude, Kevin Sorbo had long hair.

Yes and it was well taken care of with various products and evenly cut.

Yeah, I always wondered how he did that in ancient times.

At 2/1/06 03:26 PM, LadyGrace wrote:

At 2/1/06 03:37 AM, Samuel_HALL wrote: Did that sound really condescending? I meant that as a compliment, you know.

No, I totally agree. Before I was like, "meh, fli is ok, I guss." But in that picture... I'd look twice at that guy walking down the street, and then see him with his boyfriend, and die a little inside because I can't get a man like that. (lolj/k)

That's sweet, that really does flatter me... I've been obsessed with not so much looking young... but looking more like my age. But squinting with contacts in my eyes can't make me look younger... especially if I look like a 40-year-old-Chinese-man.

So I will Lazik. Lemme save up some.

But you know...
I've always thought you looked very attractive too.

Yes yes... I know I know. How could I say that?
Let's just say that I have an eye why a guy may want to go out with a certain woman, and I can say that I can understand why your boyfriend hooked up with you.

Queer guy with straight eye. That is all...

At 2/1/06 04:35 PM, Elfer wrote: No offense, but in that picture, you DO look like a forty-seven year old chinese man.

47? Chinese Man!
Glasses are gone, and new haircut.

It's just that... I never had a haircut that I liked enough maintain, cause that's how my hair grows out. It was cool when it was long, but that was alright when I was 19 and 20... but if you're approaching 25... then that's when you start to look like a yuppie.

And Damien, now that I've gotten to know you, I think you're an extreme sweetheart. It's just you word things like a dolt sometimes, but all men do. :D But yeah, I can tell now when you're being a schmuck, it's just a show. I know you're a good man. *hugs*

Actually, Damien...
That was indeed sweet (in your sort of way...) And I guess I do get off being aggressive once in a while.

At 2/1/06 06:01 PM, stafffighter wrote: Yeah, I always wondered how he did that in ancient times.

The Greeks were all about the metrosexual, that's why they lost their empire.

At 2/1/06 06:14 PM, BeFell wrote:

The Greeks were all about the metrosexual, that's why they lost their empire.

That hasen't hurt the catholics yet

At 2/1/06 06:13 PM, fli wrote: 47? Chinese Man!
Glasses are gone, and new haircut.

Yeah, well, it wasn't that either one did it in and of itself, it was the combination of the two. I think one or the other would have been fine, but not together.

It's like ice cream and fiberglass insulation. Good seperately, but when you combine them, not so great.

Sepiroth... I'm getting ready to leave. I'm getting ready. I'll leave tomorrow after my last class at 10:15.

I don't know if I'll swing by, but hey... if I do, I'll email you from my neice's computer. (Dial up, BTW... my god, I forgot that existed...)

We're going to that market near by those tunnels (You remember the ones from Greese, and Blood in and Blood Out? There's a restaurant above stairs called Mariachi's.)

It will be cool to meet up,
but I'm not entirely sure that I'll be there in LA. I got to settle a few things in San Barnadino (family stuff).

You'll know how I look.

Regarding Damien, I know he just loves being called a total asshole, so here it goes:

Demian is the sweetest guy ever! He's so nice, and he cares about people! He's just super. He's the best person in the whole world!

Heh. Chew on that, fucker.

At 2/1/06 06:27 PM, Rydia_Lockheart wrote:

At 2/1/06 05:54 PM, stafffighter wrote: Dude, Kevin Sorbo had long hair.

And I would so do him bareback if I got the chance. </TMI>

Hair isn't everything. :)

Oh yes it is.

And i'd do Kevin Sorbo in the ass any day of the week.

btw, skvnk, congrats on 15k

At 2/1/06 08:15 PM, Quanze13 wrote: btw, skvnk, congrats on 15k

Congrats on sticking around for a decent amount of time and still being an obscure poster. =]

I dunno, the only post milestones I really look at are the 10k intervals. I want a lot of congratulations from you fuckers when I hit 20k. At this rate... Year and a half, eh? Make it two, play it safe. I wonder.