Girl problems.

[Simkisss]

I have no idea why i am asking the newgrounds community to help me out with a genuine problem, but here it goes.

There's this girl.. And my best friend. My best friend is somewhat of a ladies man, and is with someone who I regard as a very nice, great looking girl, who, along with being his girlfriend has also become a very good friend to me. Now about myself. Being 100% honest, I am not good looking, probably a nice person, (but how much does that account for) And am generally not very experienced with the whole opposite sex.
A couple of weeks back, I was introduced to one of her (my best friends girlfriend) friends, another very good looking person, and later on was told she thought i was 'hot'. Of course i told my friend and he says that he thinks they may just be screwing me around. I've been camping with this girl, swimming and whatnot, and all the time she has been hinting at me, and there has been some mild groping, nothing too heavy :p.

Aaaanyways, this girl has a boyfriend, a much older one, and from what i hear she is somewhat of a slut, but not to alot of people, just shes had quite a few boyfriends who she has slept with alot. She has been seeing this one guy for about 8 months. So, talking to the person who introduced me to her, (my best friends girlfriend) She has been saying to just hold on, and she thinks we will be together, and saying things like this girl talks about me an awful lot. My best friend knows all this, and still, thinks they are screwing around with me..

To the very small amount of people that understood all that, what should i do?

[yetieater]

If you hold on, what do you have to lose? You stand to lose nothing, and there's nothing but gain. You're putting your own time into both developing a relationship with her and having some fun.

[Chemotherapy]

Rape her
(haven't even read the story)

[PatVicous]

rape her your friends just jeolus

[Simkisss]

At 7/19/06 09:56 AM, yetieater wrote: If you hold on, what do you have to lose? You stand to lose nothing, and there's nothing but gain. You're putting your own time into both developing a relationship with her and having some fun.

Yes, i undertstand what you mean, but the problem is i'm very conscious of how i come across, and she's very experienced in all that shit, and i'm... well.. embarassed really..

[yetieater]

Be yourself, don't end up putting on some facade that you can't hold. Just enjoy yourself right now, I supposed. Talk to her and find out where your footing is, if you're anywhere at all.

[Raped]

Yes, i undertstand what you mean, but the problem is i'm very conscious of how i come across, and she's very experienced in all that shit, and i'm... well.. embarassed really..

If you are really that desperate and inexperienced watch some porn.

[Simkisss]

Ok, thanks alot yeti.. I still welcome any suggestions but i feel as though i've talked it out to the extent it can be, i suppose it's just fate.

[JediKiller1]

If your good at running i'd say go for it.

[Simkisss]

At 7/19/06 10:08 AM, T3H_M4573RS wrote:

Yes, i undertstand what you mean, but the problem is i'm very conscious of how i come across, and she's very experienced in all that shit, and i'm... well.. embarassed really..

If you are really that desperate and inexperienced watch some porn.

I know how to do it all, i just haven't done it, hence inexperienced..

[gumOnShoe]

The only thing I would suggest, is don't get involved with someone who is going to be sleeping around with everyone she "cares" about. If she is flirting with you after being with someone for 8 months, what is she going to do behind your back if you two end up togeather?

[Some-Stupid-Idiot]

Just be yourself and if she doesn't like that then don't worry about that.

[Halicarnassus]

You have no chance.

No, I didn't read most of your post, but from what I extrapolated, you have a snowballs chance in hell.

[Sugary-Cupcakes]

Just tell her that you've heard some things and you were wondering if she like you at all

pussy

[Raped]

At 7/19/06 10:10 AM, AltyMcAltAlt wrote:

At 7/19/06 10:08 AM, T3H_M4573RS wrote:

Yes, i undertstand what you mean, but the problem is i'm very conscious of how i come across, and she's very experienced in all that shit, and i'm... well.. embarassed really..

If you are really that desperate and inexperienced watch some porn.

I know how to do it all, i just haven't done it, hence inexperienced..

Okay then don't be that scared just wait it out, Your nerves will calm so you will be able to go out with the girl sometime just be yourself until she drops her boy friend and starts hitting on you agian.

Then you can do whatever you want then to her just be smooth and calm.

[Retard-1990]

Just ask her out if ya screw up who gives a damn she aint gonna be hurt but the bad thing is if her older boyfriend fnds out ur F ed

[KyleTheMadcap]

Hmm...
I would say stay away from her if at all possible. Even if she's not screwing around with you, she probabily just looking for sex, from the way you describe her.

Now if that's what you want, then by all means, have sex with her, I can't stop you there... But if you're looking for a serious relationship, sshe dosn't look like the best candiate.

And I don't think she's screwing with you... The chances of her saying "Wow... That guy's kinda cute" or whatever, then have one of her friends leak that, is way more likley then her and her friends wanting to fuck around with you. You say that you don't think you're attractive, and I can't comment on that for 2 reasons (I've never seen you, and you're a guy), but I'm willing to bet that a lot more chicks then you think think you're good looking.

I don't know if it's what you want to hear, but I think you should keep looking.
Don't worry, if one girl thinks you're good looking, she's probabily not the only one, and there's someone out there for everyone. You might meet her tommorow, you might meet her next year, in 10 years, in 20, whatever. But you'll find someone, even when it's looking bad.