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HeinousDude

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You know what?

I wish your family meets Stamper.

Oh the hilarity.


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Congratulations on your standing up to them, but I doubt they're going to change their views just like that.

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that was truly amazing, even though it was your own blood you stuck up for what you believe in. with the courage and words like that you will go far, so thankyou.


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Good for you man, I sure hope your words changed your families beliefs a little. And in my words, 1. If white people are out to get them, what evidence do they have to back that up? And 2. If white people are backstabbers, then why did we ever stop relying on slaves? Too many people live in the past, slaves were he past, they don't notice that's not how it is now, yet they still point out that in white people! What about MLK's speach, didn't he obviously point out that there's no more segregation?!
I'm sorry, I got carried away... anways once again, good job for speaking up.


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At 7/5/06 12:59 AM, HeinousDude wrote: Haha, the other extreme I've seen is black kids wanting white girls because they're white men's trophies. Damn, your family's self-defeating. Good thing you think for yourself.

It's a tough situation. People can break all to easily and retract what they believe in, all to easily. I wasn't going to have that happen. Thinking for yourself is a very good thing, yet at the same time so hard to do.

At 7/5/06 01:01 AM, Clever_Nickname wrote: You are an amazing person. We need more men like you in our world.

There are people that do what I do everyday. But no one really listens. That being said, and doing what I did, it's basically true. It's useless, but necessary to defend what you believe in.

At 7/5/06 01:03 AM, DancingTomato wrote:
At 7/5/06 01:00 AM, KingOfTheKill wrote: Keep your filthy black genes away from me.
I can't tell whether you are being a complete fag or just being sarcastic to strike a nerve in other users.

It was bound to happen. I don't mind it. I already knew it was going to happen.

At 7/5/06 01:04 AM, DirtySyko wrote: That's ironic, because it's basically the same way with my family, just the other way around. Well, not all of them. Most of them have no grudges against other races and don't mind dating outside of your race, but there are a few who think differently. Although, unlike you, I've never confronted any of them about this issue.

I understand. And I can relate, there are times where plenty of topics were brought up, nothing like the one I had mentioned that bothered, but even then, I wanted to speak out on it. So in ways, it's similar. I preach, it's what I do.

At 7/5/06 01:05 AM, corbinator wrote: Personality NOT their skin.

You see of the things I see. I really do believe that the race card is unecessary, and even if it is apparent somehow, use that to motivate you into to doing better.

At 7/5/06 01:05 AM, Jerkapotomus wrote: Also, I think you ought to get a white girlfriend just to see their reaction.

Noticing what they said about Eric, I already know, but if I were to do that out of spite, that would be no good. But I get what you're talking about

At 7/5/06 01:13 AM, DaSadGirl wrote: Also, I'm not much into MLK. More into X. You should really listen to this speech, if you have'nt already.

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I haven't forgot about X. I'll look into that speech later, it may give me more inspiration. Thanks.

At 7/5/06 01:13 AM, Legionnaire-X wrote: I'll say it again, they're fucked in the head.

It's what they believe in. Nothing I can do about it.

At 7/5/06 01:15 AM, Kancho wrote: I fucking agree w/ you man

Why should skin color matter? We all bleed through similar veins. But, it's the things that people believe that keeps the idea of races being united out of reach. And while I know that it may not even be possible in my lifetime, it would be nice to see.

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At 7/5/06 01:23 AM, Mast3rMind wrote:
I haven't forgot about X. I'll look into that speech later, it may give me more inspiration. Thanks.

Make sure you bookmark it, okay. It takes a few minutes, so you'll have to listen to it when you have things set aside. Best speech ever! Might change your views on MLK.

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At 7/5/06 01:01 AM, Clever_Nickname wrote: You are an amazing person. We need more men like you in our world.

I applaud you.

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anyway good job on that it really means alot to me knowing there is still some good in this world

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At 7/5/06 12:53 AM, Gunter45 wrote: Jesus Christ, I hate that. The whole "whitey's out to get me" bullshit is played out and old. If you don't succeed it's your own damn fault and don't blame anybody else for it.

Seems like someone's been emulating Derek Vineyard a bit too much. Boths sides of the argument have validity. Everything has some truth in it.


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Great job taking a stand man. Not only did you demonstrate clarity on racial tolerance, but you also really took a stand for your cousin who just wanted to find some love with the woman he is dating right now.

You showed the true meaning of "family" by not joining in on the insults your cousin and actually standing up for him and you did it with your own beliefs. You would've been a real fucking sellout if you went along with the insults or did nothing.

It's tough finding family approval with your beliefs, especially when the deck is greatly stacked against you. It's usually better to just get them to accept your beliefs rather than changing theirs.

To be blunt, your family could believe in whatever the fuck they want, but if they take actions with their beliefs in the wrong direction (especially to go as far as to belittle one of their own), than that's when something should be done.

And you did something.

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At 7/5/06 01:29 AM, JackRabbitStudios wrote: I WILL FIND YOUR MOTHER'S GRAVE AND FUCK HER CORPSE.

Don't be a hypocrite.


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Sadly, most people cannot see past skin color, they can't see that we are all the same. We are all people. There's racists in every race. Seriously, I hate race labels, because it just adds fuel to the racism fire. We are all the same race.


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At 7/5/06 01:40 AM, Shootem_up wrote: it just adds fuel to the racism fire

what you said is true, but... mffhhh! haha! did you just use a burning gasoline fire as a metaphor for the perpetuation of prejudice? damn, they teach too much fucking symbolism in eighth grade english.


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At 7/5/06 01:40 AM, Shootem_up wrote: Sadly, most people cannot see past skin color, they can't see that we are all the same. We are all people. There's racists in every race. Seriously, I hate race labels, because it just adds fuel to the racism fire. We are all the same race.

No we are not all the same, BUT everyone should learn to respect and accept other races.

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At 7/5/06 01:55 AM, DaSadGirl wrote: No we are not all the same, BUT everyone should learn to respect and accept other races.

Yes, we are all the same.


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My fuck, this sounds very similar to the people who bitch about certian mods on the BBS (or differant forums.) Basically, they're basing all of this on a group who oppresed african- american people some 200 fucking years ago. Yet, your family doesn't know anything about the person they're bitching about. It's like that character Tom on The Boondocks episode where they were making fun of R. Kelly. When R. Kelly's Lawyer mention that his wife was white, and everyone was making accusations of him for that. Your family is being hypocritical for calling you a sellout, when they are being sellouts for going along with the group, and making racist accusations like that. Bravo for sticking to your beliefs, I'm impressed.


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My family is the exact same way,good thing 90% of them live in alabama so i don't have to deal what that bullshit and kudos to you for having the balls of brass to stand up to your family for your own beliefs.

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u said u dont like the word nigga?

the bad one is ending in -er, not nigga, nigga somtimes means a friend or homie, admitedly ive been called "my nigga" by a black friend which seemed strange to me (case u cant guess im white) but nobody gets up in arms about that one

ending in -er as im told is the really bad one


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At 7/5/06 02:02 AM, StoneGuy wrote: u said u dont like the word nigga?

the bad one is ending in -er, not nigga, nigga somtimes means a friend or homie, admitedly ive been called "my nigga" by a black friend which seemed strange to me (case u cant guess im white) but nobody gets up in arms about that one

ending in -er as im told is the really bad one

and yet, black people still hate white people for calling them nigga.


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White members: Ever been to St. Thomas? You get funny looks from everyone just for being white.

There are some people, believe it or not, who are still sore at us for slavery. This might be a reason.

A long line of bad experiences might be another. The world has some real bitches in it, I'll tell you that.

Just say "fuck it" and move on. Even if it is your family, taking an idiot's words to heart could ruin you.


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Racism is a vicious cycle. Parents from one race will teach their kids to distrust people from another race. And when the kids see each other they clash, thus planting the seeds of hate that they will pass on to their kids.

I used to live in a black neighborhood, and when I went out to find kids to play with some welcomed me with open arms. While others would taunt me and sometimes hit me. This treatment and the harassing of my sister (leading her to cut herself, no emo jokes please) made me distrust black people for a while.

I eventually wisened up and noticed how stupid was to hate an entire race/people under the actions of a few individuals. Plus I learned hate is a horrible thing, that corrupts and causes wars and deaths. One could go as far as to call hate a drug.

I hope to speak to kids to treat fellow humans as equals, and not giving up because others were taught to hate. Hopefully I can keep my kids far away from my prejudice father.

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At 7/5/06 01:16 AM, HeinousDude wrote: You know what?

I wish your family meets Stamper.

Oh the hilarity.

so.. didja put it in her last night?

didja huh huh?

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your sig fits that post perfectly

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At 7/5/06 12:45 AM, Mast3rMind wrote: I can't help but wonder if this is what MLK truly wanted for my people.

MLK fought for black men like you. Men who (no disrespect to some members of your family who dislike white people) have the right outlook on racism.

I was quite touched by your post, I hope that your cousins appreciate the good that you do.


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Imagine that in a white family. All the talk aboutnot dating outside your race etc.

That's called racism, and it works both ways.

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I think mainly it's just the generation gap, the way people were brought up, especially if they were part of another race, was to defend themselves from racism, and they probably still hold on to them principles

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Fucking unbelievable. I would expect this type of stuff with other families, but your family like that? That came out of nowhere.

At 7/5/06 12:45 AM, Mast3rMind wrote: I hate the word "nigga". Anyone that knows me, knows very well that I hate that word.

Yeah, it's pretty obvious.

They couldn't answer. So I walked away.

You sure did got them there.

I can't help but wonder if this is what MLK truly wanted for my people.

I highly doubt it, but after reading all that, anything can happen.

Hmm, secrecy.

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Wow, that was the first good post I've read in a long time.

If they bitch anymore, just point out little stuff like: "white people have stopped slavery; if you don't like it here, go back to Africa." What can they say?

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At 7/5/06 12:35 PM, Sanch wrote: One thing that oddens me which is completely off-topic is that there are no black people in the Russian Federation. I'm going there like I do every summer, for the entire summer and I have never seen a black person.

Well, thought there was some small scale immigration to USSR from socialist african countires (to study), Russia lacks blacks for the main reason many other places: No slave trade in the past.

Oh, by the way, about Russia. There's a lot of racist and neo-nazi shit going on in there, really saddening.

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Prove them wrong some more. Only then will they realize how ignorant they really are.


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It really does suck to have racist people in your family...the sad thing is, they haven't got a clue about the fact that they are racists, so if you tell them that they act as such, they feel offended.

You did the right thing, of course.

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