am i really a failure

[IndianCheese]

OK before I start if you are not going to give any serious or helpful advice then I suggest you leave now.

I was talking to my mom one time (I just got through my freshman year of high school) and she told me that as long as I got high honors for the year (92% overall or above) she would be proud of me and I wouldn't be grounded. So I tried my hardest all year and finally ended up with high honors. In addition, I had been taking guitar lessons, been in the marching band, and was part of the stage crew for our spring musical. In addition, my high school won a Gene Kelly award for best crew and technical execution, the only thing we were nominated for; as I said earlier, I was part of the stage crew. So I went one day without practicing my guitar. Instead, I helped her clean the entire house (sweeping and dusting every room). She cancels my guitar lessons. Then you know what she says to me? "You are the most pathetic child I have ever seen." I was stunned.

Am I really a failure?

[Dobio]

If you have to ask that, then yes, you are a failure.

[Lost-Chances]

At 6/13/06 01:44 PM, Dobio wrote: If you have to ask that, then yes, you are a failure.

Dobio does have a point. To have doubt with yourself, you must accept the worse. So yes, you are a failure for doubting yourself.

[JoS]

At 6/13/06 01:44 PM, Dobio wrote: If you have to ask that, then yes, you are a failure.

Dam you beat me to it.

[ChechenRebel]

I think your mom is a failure for saying something like that...
Why did she say something like that ?
She probably blames you for all misfortunes in her life...
Seiously, that was a cold thing to say...

And as Lost_Chances said, don't doubt yourself, if you keep working hard as you do now you'll get far in life (unlike the lazy bastard as me)

[ButtFuckingChrist]

Your mother is an idiot, you did fine, Don't doubt yourself.

[Dramacydal-X]

At 6/13/06 01:52 PM, ChechenRebel wrote: I think your mom is a failure for saying something like that...
Why did she say something like that ?

Agreed.

[bigexplosions]

At 6/13/06 01:44 PM, IndianCheese wrote: So I went one day without practicing my guitar. Instead, I helped her clean the entire house (sweeping and dusting every room). She cancels my guitar lessons. Then you know what she says to me? "You are the most pathetic child I have ever seen."

Why does she hate you for helping her?

[AustinR]

there's always a bigger falure than you like me

[AlStOrthevilclown]

YES the frog king has spoken.

[jacktherack]

if you have to ask a bunch of random people on the internet you dont even know
the anser is always yes..
you are a failure...

[Truth]

time to rebel

[Stretchysumo]

At 6/13/06 01:57 PM, Dramacydal_X wrote:

At 6/13/06 01:52 PM, ChechenRebel wrote: I think your mom is a failure for saying something like that...
Why did she say something like that ?

Agreed.

Thirded.

[bigexplosions]

Also, if your mother keeps on calling you pathetic and a failure, etc, tell a counselor or someone you know will help you about it.

Woah, deja vu.

[1]

She seems a TAD old fashioned and strict to me.

Oh, and rape her.

[Cybex]

No, thats just what parents do. The better you get, the higher their expectations get and the harder it is to please them. The best thing to do: lower their expectations by doing crap in all areas, and then whenever you do something remotely good, they become proud of you.

[homor]

your moms just a fucking bitch
now i want you to go up to that bitch and slap her and then say "HEY THATS ENOUGH OF YOUR CRAP YOU FUCKING BITCH"

in short: go cartman on her ass

[Wraith-X]

Yes. Go kill yourself.

I am busy with incest and don't have time for this.
(come on sis, suck harder!)

[Crosses]

No, your moms a failure. She's just blaming you for it.

[DeIirium]

Newgrounds is not a good place to ask that , you know everyones gonna call you a failure .

[Matt1010]

Your moms a dumb bitch.

[ChasmyrSS]

At 6/13/06 01:44 PM, IndianCheese wrote: "You are the most pathetic child I have ever seen." I was stunned.

Am I really a failure?

Mabey, mabey not. Pathetic doesn't mean failiure.

[KemCab]

Wow, you actually have a life, unlike many of us here.

[StrawBerryKiwiClock]

At 6/13/06 01:44 PM, Dobio wrote: If you have to ask that, then yes, you are a failure.

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[Joker-Inc]

No offence here, but your mum sounds like a really demeaning cow. Please don't take that the wrong way. But if she's like that, you should probally ask her why. I mean, was she saying it in a joking way or what? If my mum said that to me, without any particular reason, i'd be pissed!

[KemCab]

Remember to keep her standards low.

[eccentricmiked]

just wondering, are you or your mom asian? man, my neighbors would fight all the time cuz the kid would hate his parents having high expectations of him?

or was ur mom just pmsing or something?

[I-Am-The-Sex]

your 14 just starty being all moody and say "WATEVER" to her all the time

dont do it to anyone else just be annoyed in frount of her

your not a failure NO OFFENCE but your mother is a bicth

[doody1]

Odd reason to hate you.....

[fallen-son]

are you asian?
cause asian parents tend to go a little whacko like that. but look at your accomplishments compared to your one fault that wasnt even a fault. if my mom said that to me when i stayed home to help her id smack that bitch and shit on her face. tell your mom that she was dis respectful and explain how you are not pathetic just like you have to us.

also who cares what your mom thinks? it doesnt matter what anyone sais as long as you dont let it get to you.