you have to understand...
it's hard for some people to lighten up when they dont connect the same way as some of us do...
they see this (the BBS) as something to share their feelings with...and the fact that they get to do it with other people is even better...and then a lot of people turn around and make fun of or flame them...that's just as bad as taking things too seriously...
so it's a two way street...if people would be a lil more nice maybe things would even out more...