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At 4/3/06 01:07 PM, FIak wrote:

At 4/3/06 01:05 PM, Pizza_Rolls wrote: And yes,I did use a condom.

Sue those motherfuckers. :O

NO!!! KILL HER!!!!

At 4/3/06 01:14 PM, Not_A_Chance wrote:

At 4/3/06 12:56 PM, Pizza_Rolls wrote: Holy shit.I don't know what to do...My girlfriend is pregnant.We weren't even serious..I don't want to have my kid into this world with a 'broken'family.She refuses to ge an abortion...

How far along is it? Alot depends on that, if your able 2 tell if its a boy or a girl then shit, abortions the only answer.

Have you ever talked about this with her before - kids generaly?
How long have you been together & how old is she?

As for the 'it's her body' , half of you's in there to remember, and since more than half the responsibility for a child lies with the man, more than half the say should aswell.

And the BBS Academy Award for most sexist remark goes to *drumroll* NOT_A_CHANCE!!! Congratulations!

It's a 50/50 thing man... Equal rights eh?

ok firstly id like to say poor poor you but the situatioan can be solved firstly talk to her and tell her how you feel about her having your baby tell her that you dont want to be a dad if that will not work then if that will not make her abort then tell her you will not help raise this child this will mena that you will have to pay child support but its about £20 a month(thats what my dad does) (dont know what it is in dollers) and finaly if you do refuse to help raise the child then the child WILL hate you.

thats all i can do to help (i hope it helped)

.nannal

At 4/3/06 12:56 PM, Pizza_Rolls wrote: Holy shit.I don't know what to do...My girlfriend is pregnant.We weren't even serious..I don't want to have my kid into this world with a 'broken'family.She refuses to ge an abortion...

O_o*

I don't know what to tell you, buddy. That's some serious shit. I hope you get it worked out. Damn. I really hope it turns out okay. <3

At 4/3/06 01:13 PM, Pizza_Rolls wrote: I would like a child somday but I can't have a kid!!I'm still a kid myself...I'm going to be a combat pilot...I got raining as an Army Ranger!

Tough. You're having one, Mr Macho Army Man. You've got responsibilities to the child now. Get used to it. You will have them for a few years to come now.

I'ma Sniper for god sake!I don't wn my kid to have a killer fo a father..!

Don't be pathetic.

yes,it did pop

God fucking damnit...

Serves you right for not being secure enough. Use 2 methods at the same time, eg: condoms andpills.

Keep it together, man, for Christ's sake. You can't wallow in self pity; "Oh woe is me I'm gonna be a Daddy... I think I'll chuck myself off a bridge..." Yeah, you are gonna be a Dad. No getting away from it, your girlfriend has made that clear. You wanna play like a big boy having sex and all, you've got to act like a big boy, and grow up very fast and grow up now. You'll have a kid to support in 9 months after all.

You've got responsibilites to your girl AND your unborn child.

Good luck to you, kiddo.

its called pulling out dude.

option 1: you can be like a fucking coward and run away.

option 2: you can give it up for adoption

option 3: you can try to convince her to have an abortion because you both are not ready

option 4: you can start learning how to change dipers..aka, be the father.

At 4/3/06 01:18 PM, Stoneboy wrote:

At 4/3/06 01:14 PM, Not_A_Chance wrote:

At 4/3/06 12:56 PM, Pizza_Rolls wrote: Holy shit.I don't know what to do...My girlfriend is pregnant.We weren't even serious..I don't want to have my kid into this world with a 'broken'family.She refuses to ge an abortion...

How far along is it? Alot depends on that, if your able 2 tell if its a boy or a girl then shit, abortions the only answer.

Have you ever talked about this with her before - kids generaly?
How long have you been together & how old is she?

As for the 'it's her body' , half of you's in there to remember, and since more than half the responsibility for a child lies with the man, more than half the say should aswell.

And the BBS Academy Award for most sexist remark goes to *drumroll* NOT_A_CHANCE!!! Congratulations!

It's a 50/50 thing man... Equal rights eh?

Knew that'd be a bit contraversail but it is true.

There's greater responsibility on the mans part, in the eyes of the Law and in society.
A decent man has to do more than 50% and Men are expected 2.

I don't buy this clinical 50/50 crap, it's male instincts to do more and that extends onto our society to expect more.

I wish it was 50/50 though

nice spam there , buddy , all the idiots bought it! lol!

How many months? May be it's just a delay on the Menstruation (don't know how to spell it english)

Or maybe she was cheating with someone else

At 4/3/06 01:23 PM, -Zeke- wrote:

At 4/3/06 01:13 PM, Pizza_Rolls wrote:

:. Use 2 methods at the same time, eg: condoms andpills.

if his girlfriends on pills i realy dont think he will bother with a condom

for the benafit of lost little children sex with a condom is like chewing gum with the wrapper on

At 4/3/06 01:13 PM, Pizza_Rolls wrote: I would like a child somday but I can't have a kid!!I'm still a kid myself...I'm going to be a combat pilot...I got raining as an Army Ranger!I'ma Sniper for god sake!I don't wn my kid to have a killer fo a father..!I'm going to camp Bullis in 3 weeks for my USAF Basic!!God DAMNIT!!This kid is ruining my life and it isn't evenborn yet

yes,it did pop

God fucking damnit...

maybe you should have thought of that before you had sex. should have known condoms break.
well is she wants to keep it, and wants you too be the father, then looks like you your going to have too give up your army dreams. its your own fault for not thinking about this stuff before you had sex.

At 4/3/06 01:32 PM, Shin-Tenshu wrote: maybe you should have thought of that before you had sex. should have known condoms break.
well is she wants to keep it, and wants you too be the father, then looks like you your going to have too give up your army dreams. its your own fault for not thinking about this stuff before you had sex.

Exactly what I said. And Shin-Tenshu is right, you've gotta put your progeny 1st, man, even if your own personal dreams go down the toilet.

It ain't your's.

I just...I don't know..

give up my army dreams

I think i might just tough it up it's bound to happen-but I could still be in the military-but I wouldn't see him/her much..

At 4/3/06 01:32 PM, Shin-Tenshu wrote:

At 4/3/06 01:13 PM, Pizza_Rolls wrote: I would like a child somday but I can't have a kid!!I'm still a kid myself...I'm going to be a combat pilot...I got raining as an Army Ranger!I'ma Sniper for god sake!I don't wn my kid to have a killer fo a father..!I'm going to camp Bullis in 3 weeks for my USAF Basic!!God DAMNIT!!This kid is ruining my life and it isn't evenborn yet

yes,it did pop

God fucking damnit...

maybe you should have thought of that before you had sex. should have known condoms break.
well is she wants to keep it, and wants you too be the father, then looks like you your going to have too give up your army dreams. its your own fault for not thinking about this stuff before you had sex.

Give him a break for having some sex!
If it was long term then yeah, they should have sorted it so she was on the pill aswell, but to give him stick for giving some stick? come on...

Can't voice much of an opinion on the situation w/out the details, but folk are giving him a hard time just for having some sex, and for being a bit on edge having just been told he's going to be a father.
Of course he's going to freak a lil bit - wouldn't you?

oops,
you either leave her or stay together with the kid,
i have no idea what you should do
go to a counselor or something like that to get advice ,

At 4/3/06 01:36 PM, Pizza_Rolls wrote: I just...I don't know..

give up my army dreams

I think i might just tough it up it's bound to happen-but I could still be in the military-but I wouldn't see him/her much..

No can do. That'll make her life shit. She won't see you, and you won't be around for any emotional support when she needs it. Taking care of a child is a full time thing. She'll need a shoulder to cry on; someone to bear the burden.

If I had a nickel for every time I saw one of these topics... the ones that were truly serious alone too...

You did the deed, you pay the consequences, you'll carry this nightmare for the rest of your life now, and it will fuck you over in the afterlife at your judgment. Hope it was worth it.

"Daddy, how was I born?"

"SHADDUP, DADDY ISN'T HERE, DADDY IS SUPPOSE TO BE IN THE ARMY, DO YOU WANT ME TO HIT YOU?"

"No daddy."

"GET DADDY THAT CHEAP BEER OVER THERE."

"Daddy, how was I born?"

"SHADDUP, DADDY ISN'T HERE, DADDY IS SUPPOSE TO BE IN THE ARMY, DO YOU WANT ME TO HIT YOU?"

"No daddy."

"GET DADDY THAT CHEAP BEER OVER THERE."

Lol-but no...I dont know and I just reinlisted for 8 years.Ihad just come home from Germany -I'm on Emergency MediVac.I'm going to Camp Bullis soon...And I have no choice anyway...I could go AWOL and riskgetting arrested but whats the diff of that and staying in the AF?

..next time have a condom, and yes you have to marry her

Thanks for al your help,guys...I'm gonna go see a shrink..Lol i'm insane.Besides this topic is pretty dead...Thanks for all your guys' help.

you and most of the people who repsonded to this thread are idiots. you screwed up and instead of facing the consequences, you want to take an innocent life (abortion)

Take responsibility for your actions. It is what you are trained to do in the military. You have to be responsible in everything you do. Take care of the child as best you can.

I fink you should talk with her. Maybe that would help...
Or run away. But that would be noobish.

At 4/3/06 12:56 PM, Pizza_Rolls wrote: Holy shit.I don't know what to do...My girlfriend is pregnant.We weren't even serious..I don't want to have my kid into this world with a 'broken'family.She refuses to ge an abortion...

Dude, STFU and be man...damn...You are in the military and you sound like a pus...

sorry if that was harsh but be a man for once...obviously being in the military has only tought you to be a coward...

At 4/3/06 02:37 PM, Lorkas wrote: Or run away. But that would be noobish.

No, that's called being a spineless dickhead.

At 4/3/06 01:06 PM, G_F_D wrote: oh man.... ur dead.
get her drunk then try to convince an abortion.

dont ever be sille Gian says always wrap your willy

^^^3 times if you have to..

oh and im gian.

i feel bad for you.

3 times? fuck off.

firstly you should never have sex out of marriage.

secondly condom's are wrong.

thirdly, abortion is wrong.

fourthly, if you used three, they would rub together and break

You're 21, get a job and support them. It's not like you're a little kid and made a mistake. You're an adult and have been for several years, you should know what responsibility is, and how to be it.