Im a virgin,, Im 21, to me it is a big deal, because if you sleep with a lot of people you obviously dont have respect for you body, no respect or hope for love. Ive had my chance to sleep with women, not to sound like a jack ass or anything, but I didn't, why some might ask? cause I beleive in love and all that, religion plays a factor aswell. Personaly im holding out till i get married, no one does that anymore so I am going to cause I think if you can hold out that long, then your relationship with that other person will be so strong, you could get through anything together..I kinda lost my point, I had a good speech worked up, but Ill try to finish strong...It dosent make you any more or less of a person no matter what you do, thats the beauty of life, but whatever you choose you should follow your heart, its worked for me for 21 years....yeah