Frankly I don't care. If gays want to marry, it's no skin off mine or anyone elses' nose. Also, marriage has become more of a "state privilage" than a religious one. You don't have to be religious or even believe in God to get married anymore. And state privilages should be allowed to anyone regardless of their orientation. That's what "seperation of church and state" is about.
Also, I don't really believe that being gay is a "sin" or "evil," or anything. I mean, they're not hurting anyone. And of the 7 sins and 10 commandments, being gay isn't even hinted at. And we ALL have participated in the at least some of 7 sins and gone against at least some of the 10 commandments ourselves. So why should we be so harsh on people who are doing something that we feel is wrong, when, according to the bible, we've ALL commited even worse acts?
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Also, it should be common knowledge to most people now, that the Bible indeed has been altered throughout time and through all the hands of the multiple churches whose hands it's fallen into over the years (that's why we even have different versions today). In most cases, it was altered to convey the messages of the church and not "of God" (though the churches often claimed that they did it "by God's hands").
For example, there are messages in the Bible that say "it's OK to sell your daughter into slavery as long as it's for a heafty amount." OK, now there are so many things wrong with this. First is selling your daughter into slavery, and the main thing is "as long as it's for good money." Please! You think that is really God's words? God doesn't care about material goods at all and I doubt that he'd feel that they are worth a human life.
And as far as sexuality goes, there are also parts of the Bible that say it's OK to have sex with your children, too. In fact, a couple of people in the Bible did this exact thing. @_o' And these people include saints and some of the most "holy people," which God favored-----No, the Bible isn't as "pretty" as most people make it out to be. Especially not "holy people." A lot of them did stuff that we today would consider wrong. One guy supposedly even kicked the crap out of angel once....and was then rewarded. @_o'
Mostly though, do you really think that God really cares if gay people get married?
"Moses, you make sure there's no hanky-panky down their. It'll offend me."---God
Why would He care? It's no skin off His nose. I'm sure there are more important things to him than some earth folks being gay.
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Also, as far as "gay people adopting kids," that's a different story entirely. Though I'm unsure of it, the experiences I've seen with it honestly aren't bad at all. In fact, I saw a TV show a while back that discussed this exact topic.
All the kids who were interviewed were fine with their folks being gay. In fact, the kids were good, normal kids, and it made them angry that other people considered them to have grown up in "an unhealthy environment." They loved their parents, and they weren't gay themselves. A lot of them even had girlfriends or boyfriends.
The only trouble they had in their lives, actually came from external sources. Meaning, they were sometimes teased for having gay parents (this says a lot about our society). The only difference between these kids and other kids is that they seem more accepting of differences than other kids. Which I think is a good thing.
After all, for those of you who don't know already, America is at the top of the list for most homophobic countries in existance. How can we tell our kids to "accept differences in people," but then give them so many "exceptions to the rule." If we let gays adopt kids, and stopped America's "homophobic ways," then these kids wouldn't have any trouble in their lives to begin with. It's hard to let these kids live normal lives when all we're telling them is that "your life is wrong!" or "you're parents are going to hell!" and such. I think we cause more damage to these kids than the lifestyles of their parents do.
Mainly, though, I just don't understand how we can have rapists, killers, and sometimes even molesters raise kids in our country (you all must know how many orphans get sent into this sort of environment a year), but we won't allow them to go to good homes "just because they're a gay environment." Doesn't make sense. I'd rather be raised by a gay parent than a killer or a drug addict any day.
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Well, these are all just my oppinions, and no one has to agree with me if they don't want to. Just know that I originally wasn't really for gay people getting married or raising kids. But after years past, I started getting more and more information on it, and honestly, from what I know now, I don't think it's that big of a deal anymore. ^_^