DonkeyPorker.. If she is ugly just tell her and she will get pissed off :P Jk.. If I would be you, I would just stop being with him, and if he doesn't miss you, don't miss him! Then you will see is he a good friend or not.. I remember asking this one girl my best friend liked, and when I told him he was just freaking crazy.. He kept calling the girl and so on :/ Or just try to be friends with him.. But getting your friend to be your friend is more important than the girl :) (or just choose yourself, I don't know which one you want more)