A girl i like

[Kharbon]

Well before you all start its not just the old soppy little topic about advice on girls, this is actually quite a depressing matter that i want different opinions on and help from my most trusted friends.

I have had a recent chat with her on MSN and i already know she has a boyfriend and she doesnt love him really and she will leave him (which i dont really want to do as it will hurt him, not that he's a friend), ignoring this fact we both love each other really but heres the problem:

Shes turning emo, she isnt dressing like it (she actually kinda looks like one already), but she says her life is in a bad mess and i promised i would be a shoulder for her to cry on and after every class she wants she can hold me behind for 10 mins for a talk if she needed to, apart from her parents bothering her she has a big problem, a BIG problem that nobody else knows (to my knowledge), She told me she has to take 3 pills a day for Iron,Her lungs and her heart. And if she doesnt take them for so long then these parts of her body will start to fuck up and well.... u know. But i dont wanna see her all fucked up like this and is there ANY way to cheer her up from this? she has other problems that she hasnt told me about and this is all new to me and she hasnt told any of her friends so im the one for her to rely on and i dont know how i can help her.

I dont want her turning all emo and worried i want a good relationship with this girl and she knows ive liked her for a long time now. Thanks.

[HellzYeahCCR]

Besides just being there for her, I dont think theres anything you can do. Stick with her and be there, and things should be ok.

[PenisBomber]

well, to cheer her up you can fuck her =p(lol jk)

[blackbetty86]

Meh, the bitch is full of defects... You should better find another prospect, because that bitch aint got no future.

[Jake]

Ehh, I'm not good with this. :\ Just tell her that everything will be all right, I guess.

[Kharbon]

At 12/25/05 06:02 PM, blackbetty86 wrote: Meh, the bitch is full of defects... You should better find another prospect, because that bitch aint got no future.

Go fuck urself she aint "full of defects" its just unfortunate for her, i really love her as it dont matter whats wrong with her she has a personality that suits me and thats all that matters when it comes to girls with me.

And thanks other ppl for the advice, i know she isnt lying as i am aware for definite she needs more iron, and iron leads to the heart in some ways (blood) and ur lungs too soo....

[blackbetty86]

At 12/25/05 06:04 PM, -Platinum- wrote: Ehh, I'm not good with this. :\ Just tell her that everything will be all right, I guess.

Imagines scenario...

Girl: Hey, I need to talk to you, are free right now?
Boy: Everything will be all right.
Girl: Huh?
Boy: Everything will be all right.
Girl: Ok... bye
Boy: Everything will be all right.
Girl <thinking>: Fag.

[NeoSoviet]

The only advise i can give you is to stick with her, eventually you will see if you are ment to be together or if its just a pity thing. Im sure everything will be alright, but you have to realize something, she has a very serious condicion ( from what i understood ) and she has to pass into an emo stage, its a normal reaction. But the only thing that can make her pass that, is your love ( it may sound gay, but its true ). I hope i helped you.

[Peacekid]

Help her out de-emo.

[smurf88]

Age: 16

You can't expect to have a serious relationship.

[blackbetty86]

Ah!, I just got it!

She isn't really dying nor has a piece of shit for a body.

The thing is that she doesn't want to be with you, that's why she keeps inventing all that stuff... just to scare you away, because she thinks (along with everyone else on this world) that you're ugly, and gay.

[arab-freak]

Why would you even want to have a girlfriend that even considers going emo?

Nevertheless, just keep talking to her. Make it seem that you're not the only thing she has to live for, and remind her of god (if she's willing).

[Morextremist]

A girl, who knows I like her, gets so happy and runs up to tell me she just got a boyfriend.

[Yusuke-Urameshi]

At 12/25/05 06:15 PM, TheVision wrote: Age: 16

You can't expect to have a serious relationship.

dont be stupid anyone can have a serious relationship at any age .......

[strumpy]

At 12/25/05 06:02 PM, blackbetty86 wrote: Meh, the bitch is full of defects... You should better find another prospect, because that bitch aint got no future.

Back to the minor leagues with this one, right?

[JoS]

You have no future with this girl. I will tell you why. You have made the mistake of becoming her friend and confidedant. All she can see you now is as a friend. Once you become friends with a girl it gets harder to date them, once you have been a shoulder to cry on your screwed.

[SHIT-TASTER]

At 12/25/05 06:52 PM, Yusuke-Urameshi wrote:

At 12/25/05 06:15 PM, TheVision wrote: Age: 16

You can't expect to have a serious relationship.

dont be stupid anyone can have a serious relationship at any age .......

No they can't, and what the fuck do you know?

[Gendo]

At 12/25/05 06:52 PM, Yusuke-Urameshi wrote:

At 12/25/05 06:15 PM, TheVision wrote: Age: 16

You can't expect to have a serious relationship.

dont be stupid anyone can have a serious relationship at any age .......

Punctuate and capitalize often?
TheVision is wrong, but make sure your critical reponse is GRAMMATICALLY CORRECT!!!

[Warrickneff]

At 12/25/05 06:58 PM, Bancer wrote: You have no future with this girl. I will tell you why. You have made the mistake of becoming her friend and confidedant. All she can see you now is as a friend. Once you become friends with a girl it gets harder to date them, once you have been a shoulder to cry on your screwed.

Agreed. I'm like that with a lot of girls who I wouldn't mind dating, but nothing will ever happen cause I'm too much like a brother or a friend.

[JackRabbitStudios]

This girl has to introduce more iron into her diet, she's obviously not eating right and putting these problems on herself. If you're gonna be her shoulder to cry on, than she's gonna go nowhere that'll be helpful, she'll just keep crying to you and go back to step one.

[Anima-Theory]

she sounds like she's is already on th road to the "valley of the emo", little you can do now buddy. Sorry

If she starts thinking her life has all of these "problems" she should get her life in perspective. There isn't anything that you can change around to make it all good.

[TehShroom]

Well, being there for her would be the best thing you could do. But hey, it could be worse, at least she actually has pills she can take for this so that it doesn't get worse.

[Dream-of-Duke]

I am sorry to cool your heart off. But first of all, is that a "she"? I mean, you have to meet "her" first. Even if it is a her, you should know her more (background, heath, parents'attitude...) before making a decision. If she really loves you, and the environment around allows you to step in, do so and be her bf. Nevertheless, I wish that you can get a positive result from this issue.

[Premo2]

At 12/25/05 06:01 PM, Darth_Rooster wrote: well, to cheer her up you can fuck her =p(lol jk)

omg, teh siggy theif!

[Ghost-Ryder]

well if sehe doesnt want anyone to know why did you post it on the internet?

[jacktherack]

if you start seing blood on her wrists youll know its too late

[slaughterMYdaughter]

well look at the bright side...oh wait

[Jim-Bob-Joe]

Ok, I've had this same problem a few times (I'm a slow learner). Just because he's the shoulder to cry on does not disqualify him from a relationship, infact with some girls it has gotten me sex quickly.

My point, cow-sik, is if she's the right one for you, you will have to continue to allow her to cry on you, always help her through her times, and when she becomes emo, walk her through the emo phases, don't try to stop them or tolerate them, walk her, if not carry her through them. If she truly loves you, she will continue to come to you for help, and no people, this will not disqualify him from a real relationship.

As for the physical problems, I don't even know why iron is good for you.

I know my advice seems simple and obvious, but the most obvious and simple answers can be the most logical response to the most complex questions

[MaidenHead]

Next time she gets upset, say something like "Everything will be alright. I'll do whatever it takes to make sure everything's fine". Only say something like that if you mean it, though.

[Darthkillerpawn]

ive had a situation like this happen to me before almost exactly except without the organ problems. you rele cant do anything no matter how hard you try. itll break your heart, and ive tried to change things to make her stop doing emo stuff like cutting her wrists, but in the end it never affected her way of thinking. not trying to put you down dude, but just try to ride it out without worrying about something you have almost no control over. :(