What is it wit girls???

[Platypus007]

Grr, im REALLY confused, and hav no idea what to do.
Heres the deal: (its a long haul, so prepare urself)

Lets start with the simple stuff. Im nice. Im not poor. Im not a knight in shining armor, but hey, who is? The point is: girls hate me. I hav no idea why. they just seem to steer clear. won't even talk. so last year, i meet this girl. and u know wut. i like her. A lot. and guess wut else?? she talks to me!!! *prances* so anyway, from then till now, we hav been flirting. its almost shameful, and everyone knows. and we're really good friends, u know, i buy her gifts, she buys me gifts, i call her nice names, and vice versa, etc,etc,etc. So anyway, i was plannin on askin her out! sumhow, her friend found out, and decided to find out wut she thot of me. according to her, she doesn't think of me in that kind of way!!! of course, her friend could be lieing, seeing as she hates me wit a passion(if u skipped the first part, then you hav no idea wut is goin on).and everyone is pressuring me to ask her!! i hav no fucking idea wut to do. i don't wanna ruin a good thing, and i don't wanna miss a golden opprotunity! WTF SHUD I DO??!!?!?

SNOOTCH TO THE NOOTCH!!!

[angstdrillhead]

If you're around the same age as her then it is not too bad! um just spend more time with her and she might consider it. It takes time dude and I've been through countless women in my life even underage ones but I've never been in a relationship but that's what I hear!!

[RockAeroZero]

At 11/25/02 01:54 AM, game_master wrote: Grr, im REALLY confused, and hav no idea what to do.
Heres the deal: (its a long haul, so prepare urself)

Lets start with the simple stuff. Im nice. Im not poor. Im not a knight in shining armor, but hey, who is? The point is: girls hate me. I hav no idea why. they just seem to steer clear. won't even talk. so last year, i meet this girl. and u know wut. i like her. A lot. and guess wut else?? she talks to me!!! *prances* so anyway, from then till now, we hav been flirting. its almost shameful, and everyone knows. and we're really good friends, u know, i buy her gifts, she buys me gifts, i call her nice names, and vice versa, etc,etc,etc. So anyway, i was plannin on askin her out! sumhow, her friend found out, and decided to find out wut she thot of me. according to her, she doesn't think of me in that kind of way!!! of course, her friend could be lieing, seeing as she hates me wit a passion(if u skipped the first part, then you hav no idea wut is goin on).and everyone is pressuring me to ask her!! i hav no fucking idea wut to do. i don't wanna ruin a good thing, and i don't wanna miss a golden opprotunity! WTF SHUD I DO??!!?!?

SNOOTCH TO THE NOOTCH!!!

Once a girl kept talking to me and acting interested but when i asked her she said i was her friend ITS DAMN CONFUZING SOMTIMES

[Dark-Knight]

ASK THE BITCH OUT AND IF SHE SAYS NO HER FRIENDS WILL PROBLE GO OUT WITH YOU CAUSE THATS HOW CHICKS ARE !!!

[Platypus007]

At 11/25/02 02:07 AM, Dark_Knight_69 wrote: ASK THE BITCH OUT AND IF SHE SAYS NO HER FRIENDS WILL PROBLE GO OUT WITH YOU CAUSE THATS HOW CHICKS ARE !!!

well....i can only hope that isn't countered by my uncanny ability to unknowingly ward of girls...

[Dark-Knight]

At 11/25/02 02:09 AM, game_master wrote:

At 11/25/02 02:07 AM, Dark_Knight_69 wrote: ASK THE BITCH OUT AND IF SHE SAYS NO HER FRIENDS WILL PROBLE GO OUT WITH YOU CAUSE THATS HOW CHICKS ARE !!!

well....i can only hope that isn't countered by my uncanny ability to unknowingly ward of girls...

I sapose you are right and by what everyone else has said maybe you should find out about her a bit first !

[Platypus007]

At 11/25/02 02:11 AM, Dark_Knight_69 wrote:

At 11/25/02 02:09 AM, game_master wrote:

At 11/25/02 02:07 AM, Dark_Knight_69 wrote: ASK THE BITCH OUT AND IF SHE SAYS NO HER FRIENDS WILL PROBLE GO OUT WITH YOU CAUSE THATS HOW CHICKS ARE !!!

well....i can only hope that isn't countered by my uncanny ability to unknowingly ward of girls...

I sapose you are right and by what everyone else has said maybe you should find out about her a bit first !

i guess so, but i swear, she has been even friendlier than usual!! im wondering if even she's building up the courage to try an ask me out, and might not hav wanted to tell her friends she liked me....i cud swear tho...meh, we/e, i hav till at -least- december 20th to figure out, thats wen our school dance is, and wen i was originally plannin on askin here out. thx for all ur help ppl, feel free to keep postin

SNOOTCH TO THE NOOTCH!!!

[VisaFreak]

I'm a girl and I can give you some advice.....a girl doesnt want guys just for sex although some do :-( They just dont wanna endulge into a relationship either.......if you love someone find a way to express it in a non-flirtacious matter........you gotta be open...... :-) BTW, I'm a girl and I like you ;-)

[Dark-Knight]

At 11/25/02 02:37 AM, BigDPCTech wrote: I'm a girl and I can give you some advice.....a girl doesnt want guys just for sex although some do :-( They just dont wanna endulge into a relationship either.......if you love someone find a way to express it in a non-flirtacious matter........you gotta be open...... :-) BTW, I'm a girl and I like you ;-)

Well put !!!

[VasIndustries]

At 11/25/02 02:17 AM, game_master wrote:

At 11/25/02 02:11 AM, Dark_Knight_69 wrote:

At 11/25/02 02:09 AM, game_master wrote:

At 11/25/02 02:07 AM, Dark_Knight_69 wrote: ASK THE BITCH OUT AND IF SHE SAYS NO HER FRIENDS WILL PROBLE GO OUT WITH YOU CAUSE THATS HOW CHICKS ARE !!!

well....i can only hope that isn't countered by my uncanny ability to unknowingly ward of girls...

I sapose you are right and by what everyone else has said maybe you should find out about her a bit first !

i guess so, but i swear, she has been even friendlier than usual!! im wondering if even she's building up the courage to try an ask me out, and might not hav wanted to tell her friends she liked me....i cud swear tho...meh, we/e, i hav till at -least- december 20th to figure out, thats wen our school dance is, and wen i was originally plannin on askin here out. thx for all ur help ppl, feel free to keep postin

SNOOTCH TO THE NOOTCH!!!

Yeah, she might be trying to warm to let you know that you should ask her out, although it might be you looking too deeply into it and only seeing what you want. I've done that way too often... It's a lot harder when you are friends with someone that is a potential girlfriend. If it wasn't someone you were too friendly with before hand, I'd say take a shot at it and see what happens, but this is far different. Timing is also important, you setup the dance as the time limiter, but she has a time limit too. She might see her flirting as fruitless and the possibility of you asking her out seem less and less remote as time goes on. My current girlfriend told me that if I didn't ask when I did, she was about to give up entirely.

Just some things to keep in mind. Good luck.

[SkuM001]

God the old shes my friend but i really like her but dont want to ruin our friendship dilema. I dunno. Its always a tough one. I been in this situation twice and the first time i asked her out and we went out for like a week split up and then never saw each other again and the second time i just kept her as a friend but we just gradually grew apart. :S

[Platypus007]

urg! now im scared! *shakes head*.....i don't even know wut to say...ARG. that says it all. ARG.

[wdfcverfgtghm]

At 11/25/02 01:54 AM, game_master wrote: Grr, im REALLY confused, and hav no idea what to do.
Heres the deal: (its a long haul, so prepare urself)

Lets start with the simple stuff. Im nice. Im not poor. Im not a knight in shining armor, but hey, who is? The point is: girls hate me.

I'm a guy and I hate you, so maybe it's your fault not the girls.

[Platypus007]

Maybe your just a fag.

[frogtoe]

What age group of girls are you going for? My opinion is that all girls under 15 years old are too immature to know what love is.

[Kev-Dawg]

Well, I say what you have here is nice from reading it. But the thing is, every time I see a couple groping each other in the halls or even just holding hands, it makes me wanna lug around a shotgun the next day and blow them to pieces. And I think "If they want to be together so bad, they can be buried as one mingled corpse." I always think this way when it comes to anyone being in love. I believe I have some almost Naziistic hatred of those that rely on emotion rather than cold logic.

But seriously, when I hear about a dance with couples I wonder how wonderful it would be to lock them in and gas them to death, or waltz in with an AK-47 and mow them down, or throw a molotov cocktail in the midst of them, setting aflame all those expensive and shallow dresses and suits. I've actually given thought to starting my own Holocaust for the grand plan of eliminating all love from the world.

I've had my heart broken and mended too many times to count. I've tried to get to know girls, but as soon as I begin to think of asking them out, I find out they already have a boyfriend. It seems every damn girl in the school has a god damn boyfriend!

Believe me, I've tried to socialize, but every time I talk it's as if I hit the 'brake' button on the conversation; everyone stops and stares, and I feel like a complete asshole. I've been looking since elementary school to become part of a group, and I still have had no luck. It feels like every kid in the world is just waiting for me to slip up so that they can point out my wrongs.

Well, now I'm just ranting at this point. Summary: I hate love, and I hate the people that are in it, at least until I meet someone and I find out such a thing as 'love' exists.

[RedSnapper74]

Give her some blackberry brandy, she won't remember a damn thing.

Then blackmail her with doctored photos.

[RedSnapper74]

Give her some blackberry brandy, she won't remember a damn thing.

Then blackmail her with doctored photos.

[wdfcverfgtghm]

At 11/25/02 08:45 PM, game_master wrote: Maybe your just a fag.

your
adj. The possessive form of you.
Used as a modifier before a noun: your boots; your accomplishments.

you're
Contraction of you are.

Maybe you're just a fag.

[dandandan4]

WTF SHUD I DO??!!?!?

ask her out

[RydiaLockheart]

Even though I'm a member of the female persuasion myself, I don't understand girls. Most of my best friends are guys, because girls have a tendency to be arrogant little bitches.

Anyway, I think the best idea would be to spend more time with her before asking her out. If she says yes, great. If not, move on. Life's too short to worry about shallow girls. Find a deep one--believe it or not, they're out there. :)

[doc-smooth69]

Damn people are you all drunk. Slowly reveal how you emotionally feel about her. You got the gift thing down man. Now spend some time together that is a little more than friends. If you go to the movies, try something romatic, i have no idea what is out. a meal for 2 at Pizza Hut can be still in the friend mode so it won't scare her off. Invite her to dinner at your house, it is a step up as a close friend and near girlfriend. When the timming is right, straight out tell her how you feel. Somewhere public, not a school, maybe a park or mall.
Words that work well, and won't get you shot down or embarassed(...much if it fails)

"(Her name), i have felt we have grown close. You have been a great friend. We have been friends (how much time you have know her). I feel i can share my secrets with you. Please don't laught but I have developed feelings for you. I don't know if it can be said to be love but if you feel the same way about me we can discover if it is love."

Now, if that don't work and she laughs in your face. I can't really help you. But don't use it right away. Keep making subtle progress with more private time together. Walking with her, small talk, get to know her even more. Ask her how her day was. Listen to her problems. Tell her about your own problems. Make that connection stronger so it won't snap and hit you in the face when you tell he how you feel. You have a few weeks till your goal of the dance.

I'm pulling for you man. Tell us how it goes when you have revealed your true feeling. Like someone here has said, tell her at the right time and make it soon. Don't wait too long or you might lose her. I say, let be pull out my calander. Tell her on a 1 10 days before the dance. Then use 5-6 days for it to sink in. Then ask her out to the dance. That is the best i can do. I hope you get the courage to do what you need to do.

[aherdofgoats]

This toPic sucks, MosT of you pEOple on ng just want anime 2 year old sex.

[Violet-AIM]

What are you afraid of? Just ask her out and see what she says. The worst thing she could say is that she's not interested. Nothing bad if that happens, just that it wasn't mean to be. Besides, you guys could still be friends.

[indent]

Hey man, from my personal experience, if chick says "no" it doesn't mean that she doesn't want to. So don't freak out. Sometimes, they would want to go out, or "do it" with you more than anything, but they not only won't offer, they'll refuse it if you will. Don't ask. They're girls. Their logic is very hard to comprehence (I'm talking about "girls" not "fuck-buddies" here)... Your best choice, close your eyes and shoot. Hope that you gonna get lucky.