Suffering is the term of human existence, there must be some in our life or we are not human. I know that what I say sounds very black-and white, but have you ever found a person who knows a life that had no hardship? I can already answer this for you: no. and there never will be. it is conceited to think of our soles as immortal, for an immortal thing does not know change, our souls are always changing, just like the world around us. There is no evil nor good, no love nor hate, these are all just part of the complex ever-changing, biological dance that the human race is puppeteered through. As we live the life we chose we must accept the knowledge that we chose it and it is what we are living through, we must also accept that were in it until the end, I don't believe in destiny, if I had, I would have never written this. My advice is this: Choose your path, and never let anything else choose it for you.