What the hell do I do???

[gumOnShoe]

Yesterday...

A girl asks me out (I am ashamed to admit it, but I have never had a girlfriend in my life and am now in college). She has only seen me about three times and she wanted to see a movie with me last night. I got out of lunch as quick as I could and saw the movie with out her. I did it as nicely as I could saying I just wanted to friends.

Tommorow...

I am in the same class

background:
NO attraction whatsover. And I doubt I ever will be attracted to her, not that I hater her.

What the fuck should I do, without hurting her feelings or looking like an ass in front of other girls who I would rather be with...

[BlackSapphire]

What the fuck should I do, without hurting her feelings or looking like an ass in front of other girls who I would rather be with...

your fucked

[SkaXic]

be freindly like you said you would.
if she gets pissed of then say"i told you to be friends why arent u beein freindly?"
then you at least got a 50-50 chance of bein kiked in the crotch

[blackbetty86]

Tell her that you're gay, which is a possiblity, seeing how you haven't gotten a girlfriend.

[coldfire1]

Does she know you went to the movie without her?

[DOC167]

just take her to the movie

[FriendlyGiant]

What ever man, Go for it..
If you don't, You'll be known as an Ass hole.

[gumOnShoe]

At 9/1/05 02:53 PM, blackbetty86 wrote: Tell her that you're gay, which is a possiblity, seeing how you haven't gotten a girlfriend.

I'm not gay

and I don't want to illiminate the chances of getting a girlfriend

Girls have always viewed me as being safe... they have even admitted it to me.

[BlackSapphire]

Id give you advice
but naa you work out your own problems

[gumOnShoe]

At 9/1/05 02:53 PM, FriendlyGiant wrote: What ever man, Go for it..
If you don't, You'll be known as an Ass hole.

Did I mention she is ugly as fuck?

[blackbetty86]

At 9/1/05 02:55 PM, DragonSpeaker wrote: Id give you advice
but naa you work out your own problems

No man, please do, we could defenetly use the advice of a 15 year old, I mean, your experience is unvaluable!

[Magmadragonn]

Just fucking go to the movies with her. Whats the worst that could happen: you have a good time with her? And if she trys to make a move and you still don't want to be more than friends just tell her.

[Haz4rD-1]

At 9/1/05 02:55 PM, gumOnShoe wrote:

At 9/1/05 02:53 PM, FriendlyGiant wrote: What ever man, Go for it..
If you don't, You'll be known as an Ass hole.

Did I mention she is ugly as fuck?

no and that changse everything, DUMP HER!!

[coldfire1]

At 9/1/05 02:55 PM, gumOnShoe wrote:

At 9/1/05 02:53 PM, FriendlyGiant wrote: What ever man, Go for it..
If you don't, You'll be known as an Ass hole.

Did I mention she is ugly as fuck?

Oooh. No you didn't. That's a powerful factor on you decision. "She is as ugly as fuck".

[cashuu]

say.
"I am gay"

you'll be out of college and have new friends start afresh then, for now! your gay

[Maus]

Have you suggested going out for coffee in a group? That's an easy way to include a girl without being 'her date' or whatever.

If you want to be 'just friends' that's fine. Just be honest about it. She may really fancy you. Introducing her to your friends might be a fantastic way to interest her in your friends who aren't so quick to judge on looks alone. :)

[SkaXic]

At 9/1/05 02:56 PM, blackbetty86 wrote:

At 9/1/05 02:55 PM, DragonSpeaker wrote:

No man, please do, we could defenetly use the advice of a 15 year old, I mean, your experience is unvaluable!

for all we know you could be a poser!
at least specify your age before saying things like that.

[coldfire1]

At 9/1/05 02:58 PM, Feeltheburn wrote: say.
"I am gay"

you'll be out of college and have new friends start afresh then, for now! your gay

If he said that, she would tell her friends, and they would tell thier friends. Soon enough, everyone would think that he was gay so he would have little to no chance of getting a girlfriend at all. Get it!

[Slightly-Crazy-Dude]

I always thought college was about getting extremely drunk and banging ugly chicks....whats wrong with you man.

[gumOnShoe]

At 9/1/05 02:59 PM, Maus wrote: Have you suggested going out for coffee in a group? That's an easy way to include a girl without being 'her date' or whatever.

If you want to be 'just friends' that's fine. Just be honest about it. She may really fancy you. Introducing her to your friends might be a fantastic way to interest her in your friends who aren't so quick to judge on looks alone. :)

It would be hard to judge on anything else... its that bad

And I really don't even want her to get the feeling that I am interested at all. I mean after three days of never once having a real conversation she asked me out. I feel like if I am nice to her at all she is going to fall head over heals

[Haz4rD-1]

uhh tell her to lose weight then she will be saddened

[HAcoreRD]

she just wants a fuck. deliever or die.

[Indian-Wrestler]

At 9/1/05 02:50 PM, gumOnShoe wrote: Yesterday...

A girl asks me out (I am ashamed to admit it, but I have never had a girlfriend in my life and am now in college).

I though I was a loser for not having a girlfriend until this summer

[Metalix]

At 9/1/05 02:50 PM, gumOnShoe wrote:

(I am ashamed to admit it, but I have never had a girlfriend in my life and am now in college).

Dude... u never had a gf?!

[WickerBasketofDoom]

At 9/1/05 03:01 PM, Slightly_Crazy_Dude wrote: I always thought college was about getting extremely drunk and banging ugly chicks....whats wrong with you man.

He brings up a good point. What is wrong with you?

[Haz4rD-1]

I think you should wait a few days then get back to us on this, you know, tell us how things are goin'

[Der-Ubermensch]

You owe this female absolutely nothing. If you want to be nice about your ditcjing her, then so be it. Bullshit about emotional distress regarding a previous relationship always works. You might want to try that.

[Slightly-Crazy-Dude]

At 9/1/05 03:12 PM, WickerBasketOfDoom wrote:

At 9/1/05 03:01 PM, Slightly_Crazy_Dude wrote: I always thought college was about getting extremely drunk and banging ugly chicks....whats wrong with you man.

He brings up a good point. What is wrong with you?

/me highfives WBOD

[gumOnShoe]

At 9/1/05 03:12 PM, WickerBasketOfDoom wrote:

At 9/1/05 03:01 PM, Slightly_Crazy_Dude wrote: I always thought college was about getting extremely drunk and banging ugly chicks....whats wrong with you man.

He brings up a good point. What is wrong with you?

I'm a nice guy a guess...

I don't do drugs, or alchohal or tobacco

In all regards to girls I am "safe" (I've even been told that by a girl whom I liked)...
And now it figures that one I don't like would end up liking me

[Slightly-Crazy-Dude]

At 9/1/05 03:30 PM, gumOnShoe wrote:
I'm a nice guy a guess...

Nice guys finish last.

I don't do drugs, or alchohal or tobacco

Oh sweet lord, you must have a boring life.

In all regards to girls I am "safe" (I've even been told that by a girl whom I liked)...
And now it figures that one I don't like would end up liking me

You want to be considered a safety net for chicks? Because thats all it really is. Chjicks dig nice guys until they meet a bad guy, then they leave them, such is life.