Septimus & Perdix:
"The human situation is a bad situation, because the human situation is all too human."
Here's a quote for people like Cally-
"Some people go to bed with Lucifer, and then they cry, cry, cry when they don't greet the day with God. I know life's a bummer baby, but that's got damned nothing to do with me."
Dave Wyndorf, Monster Magnet- Bummer.
Most men and women have different needs and wants in life. Many women think guys are pricks. Many men think women are weak.
That having been said, women say they want "nice" men, but they really don't. The guys who are absolute pricks do get lots of women, and nice guys finish last. That's why although women will deny this, they don't want the pussy SNAG who will say all the right things, and express shame and sorrow for not only himself, but the whole of the male half of the species. They don't want some guy who will "make love" to them. Some do, but most don't.
They want the guy who will help them illuminate their inner slut and do horrid things to them. They want the guy who will take photos of four of his football buddies lining up like the circus has come to town, just to fill every hole in her body, cover her with cum, and then dump her skanky arse where they found it. Then post the photos on the internet. Just look on the internet. Look at how much amateur porn there is of some really crazy shit.
Women crave that shit, and don't you deny it. Of course, most want to be wined and dined, and lavished with flowers and all that crap before they end up on www.I'macompleteskank.com, but that's the gist of it.
I know guys who work in bars of those over 28's clubs and pick up the women there, and they say the worst women aren't the stupid cheerleaders blowing the football teams. They're the mothers and horny housewives out trauling the circuit for some young buck to fuck them like their bloated, balding husbands won't. They're the ones at Chippendales. It makes me sick that guys would do some of the crazy stuff they do to women, but it makes me sicker than women would not only let them, but crave it.
As Henry Rollins said (I'm seeing him on Saturday *S*) on "Mechanik" on his "Sweatbox" spoken word CD (which I highly recommend):
"Most men are like rats pushing on levers. They're no smarter than dogs. That's where they have the women beat. They all want to get into the clubhouse. Everyone wants to get into the clubhouse. They all want to fuck you. Everyone wants to fuck you, and the ones who get it are the ones who tell the women what they want to hear."
So, I don't know what you SNAGs are on about. Women don't respect that in guys. What, are you trying to champion the cause of women, or get laid? Cause you're not doing either. Women want the guy who says all the right things and turn on the charm(eg. Yes, I will respect you in the morning), but who will then post the pics of them getting an oozing facial on the internet and high five his testosterone pumped buddies the next day before picking up some other wench and fulfilling her slutty needs.
That having been said, I don't really participate in the whole mating game. I've never really been in for casual sex. I know I'm not good at that game, but I don't make pretenses either about how evil such men are. It's a transaction, and everyone knows what they want from it. It's just that some women live in denial of the fact that they want to be used.