okay. heres a little idea about this stuff:
1. no leaders, no ranks no shit like that. this is a lounge where anybody and everybody is free to frequent. leaders wont really do shit because theres no need for it.
2. no "members" you aren't a member, you're a poster. just be clicking on the clubs and crews link you've automatically "joined" i mean. we're all equal here. we dont need people deciding who can post or not. thats just not cool.
3. no bickering. this is a place to chill. if you want to keep it open, dont fuck it up. if there's a problem. dont bring it up in here, use Email or a messenger service.
4. when people do post spam. ignore it. they probably wont come back anyway and it'll just land you a ban from a mod.
these are just simple things i've found work in the other forums. so if its not broke, why fix it?