Oral Sex is Sex

[MoralLibertarian]

Looks like the the Bush Administration is not doing their job with abstinence teaching.

CHICAGO (Reuters) - One in five U.S. teenagers say they have engaged in oral sex, an activity that some adolescents view as not sex at all and certainly less risky than intercourse, a report released Monday said.

It should be taught up front that any activity with the word "sex" in it is sex. Oral sex is sex. If you are abstaining, then you cannot have oral sex or else you will have broken your abstinence vow. I thought it might be necessary to clear that up. :)

[SkyCube]

Well if your a Christian, you shouldn't really be doing oral sex at all, married or not. It's considered sodomy I think.

[MoralLibertarian]

At 4/4/05 01:56 PM, SkyCube wrote: Well if your a Christian, you shouldn't really be doing oral sex at all, married or not. It's considered sodomy I think.

I have not read that. Where in the Bible is it?

[pr0de]

One shouldn't cleanse another or something like that..

[SkyCube]

At 4/4/05 02:01 PM, Rooster349 wrote:

At 4/4/05 01:56 PM, SkyCube wrote: Well if your a Christian, you shouldn't really be doing oral sex at all, married or not. It's considered sodomy I think.

I have not read that. Where in the Bible is it?

I dunno, I'm not a Christian. But I though Sodomy was any kind of non penis-in-vagina sex?

[Catsofthebase]

Call oral sex whatever you want, wont change how many people participate in it. lol

[LazyDrunk]

At 4/4/05 02:04 PM, unowned wrote: One shouldn't cleanse another or something like that..

What do you mean? In the Bible it says this?

I dunno if that's a reference to sodomy though...

[Ted-Easton]

Main Entry: ab·sti·nence
Pronunciation: 'ab-st&-n&n(t)s
Function: noun
1 : voluntary forbearance especially from sexual intercourse

sex
Pronunciation Key (sks)
n.
Sexual intercourse.

oral sex
n.
Sexual activity involving oral stimulation of one's partner's sex organs.

By these definitions, isn't oral sex technnically not sex?
I can understand how it could be seen as such, but isn't sex acutal intercourse?
It's a matter of opinion, but that's what we discuss.

[LazyDrunk]

At 4/4/05 03:05 PM, Ted_Easton wrote:
By these definitions, is not oral sex technnically not sex?

That depends on the definition of "is".

[MoralLibertarian]

At 4/4/05 03:17 PM, -LazyDrunk- wrote:

At 4/4/05 03:05 PM, Ted_Easton wrote:
By these definitions, is not oral sex technnically not sex?

That depends on the definition of "is".

Kids should be taught that oral sex is sex in high school; a point that's not getting across by the so called abstinence programs. The secular point of abstinence is to prevent diseases and not get pregnant, and you can get diseases from oral sex.

[Freakapotimus]

At 4/4/05 04:01 PM, Rooster349 wrote: and you can get diseases from oral sex.

A lot of kids don't realize that, so they think oral is OK and nothing can happen. We need to have better sex ed and cover EVERYTHING.

[1Shot-Paddy]

wtf is wrong with sex?

[MoralLibertarian]

At 4/4/05 04:13 PM, 1Shot-Paddy wrote: wtf is wrong with sex?

Nothing if you're in a legal marriage and only have sex with your spouse. Although I know some Catholics who would disagree with me.

[subpar]

They aren't scaring the kids enough.

They should tell little kids that unprotected sex is 100% lethal. Yeah, it's not exactly "true," whatever the hell that's supposed to mean, but by the time they figure that out, they'll be old enough to have sex anyway. Bam.

[MoralLibertarian]

At 4/4/05 04:20 PM, subpar wrote: They aren't scaring the kids enough.

They should tell little kids that unprotected sex is 100% lethal. Yeah, it's not exactly "true," whatever the hell that's supposed to mean, but by the time they figure that out, they'll be old enough to have sex anyway. Bam.

You can't lie to kids, because then you lose credibility and kids don't believe you.

[LadyGrace]

Oral sex is NOT sex. That is why lesbians can't technically "lose their virginity" to one another. I understand that teaching younger kids to abstain from oral sex is a good thing seeing as how they can get several diseases in their mouth (i.e. gonorrhea, herpes, etc). However, the definition of oral sex is not sex. It's actually a good way to reach a higher level of intimacy in a monogamous relationship.

[DaRKNeZz1]

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Sex is 100% lethal.....

Shit no it isn't, it is actualy quite good for the body and mind. Clinically proven depressed people who had sex or an orgasm once a week dropped by 30 % in depression and started to produce more endorphins. As long as you use protection and know how to use a condom properley you're pretty much ok. There is a 4% chance that the condom will break, but only under extreme circumstances will it. Why the hell would you want to scare childeren? Why would you say it could kill them? Having sex can never kill you, not enless if you are very fragile and having un-usualy rough sex, than maybe you will get hurt but not dead. Who ever the fuck suggested to say Sex is 100% lethal, you're a fucking moron and need to get the fuck out of newgrounds.

If you think sex is bad, than shoot yourself becuase you were born by sex. If you are afraid of sex, I would have to say you are most likely a lonely bastard that has to give his credit card number to girls for them to sleep with you.

[Elfer]

On the other hand, it's a bad idea to assume that one isn't as bad as the other, or that you can only participate in one and still preserve your "virginity"

[Freakapotimus]

Some girls are having anal sex because they think they are still virgins, because they haven't had vaginal penetration.

[JoS]

Well there is no hyman in your ass, so I wonder if it counts, since you still have the hymen in tact? I wish more people in Peterborough had oral sex, maybe our teenage pregnancy rate would go down. Its a town of 75 000 and I sat on a bus with 3 teenage moms with strolelrs (one was early 20's and had a kid who was walkign plus teh kid in the strolelr). Honestly, I see mro eof them here than in Hamilton (pop 500 000).

[BAWLS]

At 4/4/05 04:25 PM, Rooster349 wrote: You can't lie to kids, because then you lose credibility and kids don't believe you.

Bingo. That's why we have to be completely accurate while teaching about the dangers of drugs and sex. Stretching the truth, even just a little, would give kids an excuse to shrug off everything you teach them.

So no more "tears can give you aids" bullshit. =)

[Ted-Easton]

We need to teach kids that oral sex is not sex, because it isn't, but also teach them that it is risky to engage in. There is no point in altering definitions to frighten them, we should be properly educating them.

[telezoa]

oral sex does maintain the risks but if your a 15 year old virgin saving yourself for marriage you gonna make a few consessions during the course of seriouse relationship.

[MoralLibertarian]

At 4/4/05 05:02 PM, Freakapotimus wrote: Some girls are having anal sex because they think they are still virgins, because they haven't had vaginal penetration.

Reading that in combination with your signature gave me a good laugh.

[Colten311]

I mean it is redundant that they say anal and oral sex isn't actually sex. Uh............. it is I think some guy just said once, being a prick, oral doesn't count as innercourse. I think it might on certain terms.
Thanks for readin'

[Elfer]

At 4/4/05 05:23 PM, Ted_Easton wrote: We need to teach kids that oral sex is not sex, because it isn't, but also teach them that it is risky to engage in. There is no point in altering definitions to frighten them, we should be properly educating them.

It may not technically be intercourse, but it's still a sexual activity.

[fli]

At 4/4/05 02:01 PM, Rooster349 wrote:

At 4/4/05 01:56 PM, SkyCube wrote: Well if your a Christian, you shouldn't really be doing oral sex at all, married or not. It's considered sodomy I think.

I have not read that. Where in the Bible is it?

Yeah-- The part where God destroyes those two towns and makes a nice lady unto salt.

[Elfer]

At 4/4/05 07:02 PM, Tal-con wrote: I can't believe people even think this is up for debate, of course oral sex is sex. If you say oral/anal sex isn't sex, then someone who was sexually assaulted through sodomy can't claim rape because "It's not really sex", which is total bullshit.

I don't know if it works this way in the states, but "rape" isn't actually a crime.

It's aggravated sexual assault.

[MoralLibertarian]

At 4/4/05 07:02 PM, Tal-con wrote:

At 4/4/05 04:40 PM, LadyGrace wrote: Oral sex is NOT sex.

I can't believe people even think this is up for debate, of course oral sex is sex. If you say oral/anal sex isn't sex, then someone who was sexually assaulted through sodomy can't claim rape because "It's not really sex", which is total bullshit.

Nice!

[Maus]

LOL.

Oral sex is sex. Why would it be called that if it wasn't? If it isn't sex, I haven't been laid in a decade. :\