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At 10/5/04 03:34 PM, Frozen_Fox wrote:

At 10/4/04 10:54 AM, TigerDemon wrote: Well here it is folks the list:
DATEING TIPS AND RULES:

wow.....those are gonna come in handy.........wonder why this sort of thread hasnt been done before:\

anyways. this isnt actually about me but my mate. He is gay and really likes a guy were both friends with and wants to ask him out etc. even though the guy aint gay as far as I know. If he does ask him out then theres gonna be hell casue its gonna spread round school like wildfire that my mate is gay and he aint gonna want that so i was wondering if you could come up with some reasons I could tell my mate NOT to ask the guy out.....not exactly your traditional questionfor this sort of thing but I dont wanna end up seeing my mate get hurt by the dickheads at my school

My school has one of the largest homosexual populations around. I have simmilar situations floating around my dorm lately. I think the best idea is that you tell your gay friend that the straight man he has a man crush on is probabaly not going to take it well, and by hitting on him, he will inevitably "out" himself.

There are lots of factors around "comming out", and coping with homosexuality is definately one of the most difficult things a young person can face and have to cope with. I cant tell him when its appropriate to "come out", but there will be hardship involved. Im assumeing he's still young.. like 16, and there are lots of factors surrounding his potential coming out. I honestly recomend he wait until graduation to expose this sexual prefrence, because it will be easier when he's older, and his peers will be less ignorant to it then. I know thats rough advice, but i realy recomend your gay friend withold his sexual frustration and only open up to those who have already come out.

Furthermore, ive been to few gay youth groups, and i would recomend he find one in his area.

At 10/5/04 03:47 PM, Frozen_Fox wrote:

but for some reason i get the feeling eventually you will end up with a load of N00bs asking questions like " whats the best way I can get this girl at my school to have sex with me even though we aint going out."

Haha well maybe we can help them to better understand relationships and how they work LOL

At 10/5/04 04:06 PM, ArtistJ wrote:

At 10/5/04 03:34 PM, Frozen_Fox wrote:

Furthermore, ive been to few gay youth groups, and i would recomend he find one in his area.

thanks artist J. Ill se if ramming that into his head will make him think straight.

Btw if you lot dont mind I might hover round here and if theres anyone who needs advice and I think I can help Ill chip in with my 2 cents. I might not be to good with things to do with gay mates but Im better at giving more regular advice. :P

I don't know if you've seen my topic; my bf broke up today. :(
I really loved him. :(

At 10/5/04 04:22 PM, Angel-of-Sephiroth wrote: I don't know if you've seen my topic; my bf broke up today. :(
I really loved him. :(

I am very sad to hear this. I know that breaking up with some one you care about can really hurt. The best thing you can do right now is try not to do anything that reminds you of him like looking at his pic for hours or listening to "your song" ect. Also DONT try to say it dont hurt because it will. All you can do right now is try to deal the best you can and in time you will heal. If you are up to it try to go out with your friends to take your mind off things for a time. I wish you can help more but only time can really help. However if you need to talk We at the relationship club are hear to listen.

Lacie I sent you a very important email and need you to respond ASAP so please let me know when you get it.
Tiger

At 10/5/04 08:08 PM, TigerDemon wrote: Lacie I sent you a very important email and need you to respond ASAP so please let me know when you get it.
Tiger

Oh sorry i have not checked it all day i will do so in a few sorry i didnt check in here earlier. ^_^

At 10/5/04 08:48 PM, Lacie wrote:

Oh sorry i have not checked it all day i will do so in a few sorry i didnt check in here earlier. ^_^

No big and Thank you for all your help thus far.

At 10/5/04 08:56 PM, TigerDemon wrote:

At 10/5/04 08:48 PM, Lacie wrote:

Oh sorry i have not checked it all day i will do so in a few sorry i didnt check in here earlier. ^_^

No big and Thank you for all your help thus far.

Yes no problem no need to thank me i am glad to help ^_^

So tiger you never got back to me on that whole situation be sure to e-mail me and let me know how things are going ^_^

I sent you an email and have some news i am going to be working from like 1 till late at night so I wont be on in the aftenoons can you watch the crew at that time? also hot sig.

At 10/6/04 09:01 AM, TigerDemon wrote: I sent you an email and have some news i am going to be working from like 1 till late at night so I wont be on in the aftenoons can you watch the crew at that time? also hot sig.

I look in here about 2-3 times a day so no problem.

Oh thanks yes the sig is hot I love it ^_^

At 10/6/04 09:01 AM, TigerDemon wrote: I sent you an email and have some news i am going to be working from like 1 till late at night so I wont be on in the aftenoons can you watch the crew at that time? also hot sig.

Lacie I hope you see this please respond asap I need to know if you would take care of this crew in the afternoon.

never mind you responded befor I posted
lol thanks'

At 10/6/04 01:51 PM, TigerDemon wrote: never mind you responded befor I posted
lol thanks'

LOL ok no problem.

If you dont mind me asking what kind of work is it that you do?

At 10/6/04 01:55 PM, Lacie wrote: LOL ok no problem.

If you dont mind me asking what kind of work is it that you do?

I teach people Jeet Kun Do. Also did you get my email?

At 10/6/04 01:58 PM, TigerDemon wrote:

At 10/6/04 01:55 PM, Lacie wrote: LOL ok no problem.

If you dont mind me asking what kind of work is it that you do?

I teach people Jeet Kun Do. Also did you get my email?

Thats cool.

I did but i have not had time to check any of my e-mail i will today ^_^

kool thanks Lacie .oh and do you have any ideas for this crew such as the list of tips we put up? I mean there has got to be some more stuff we can put out for people. Let me know if ya do.

At 10/7/04 10:14 AM, TigerDemon wrote: kool thanks Lacie .oh and do you have any ideas for this crew such as the list of tips we put up? I mean there has got to be some more stuff we can put out for people. Let me know if ya do.

Right now i am trying to think of how to get more members here who might have problems or maybe just need to talk things out.

At 10/7/04 11:09 AM, Lacie wrote:

:: Right now i am trying to think of how to get more members here who might have problems or maybe just need to talk things out.

Good Idea, If you come up with any thing let me know. Also I got your email and sent a response.

At 10/7/04 11:12 AM, TigerDemon wrote: Good Idea, If you come up with any thing let me know. Also I got your email and sent a response.

The only thing i see is that when people ask for advice in the general forums, i let them know of this club.

At 10/7/04 12:35 PM, Lacie wrote: The only thing i see is that when people ask for advice in the general forums, i let them know of this club.

Good idea if you are willing to do so I thank you. I will also check the general forums from time to time so that you dont do all the work.

At 10/7/04 12:37 PM, TigerDemon wrote:

At 10/7/04 12:35 PM, Lacie wrote: The only thing i see is that when people ask for advice in the general forums, i let them know of this club.

Good idea if you are willing to do so I thank you. I will also check the general forums from time to time so that you dont do all the work.

No problem.

Did you get my e-mail i hope it helped.

Yes got the email and sent you one back. so TAG your it.^_^

Do you know good tips to speak to a girl when you go out?

At 10/7/04 01:39 PM, D34M0N wrote: Do you know good tips to speak to a girl when you go out?

I will have a list of tips for you by tomarrow.

At 10/7/04 01:39 PM, D34M0N wrote: Do you know good tips to speak to a girl when you go out?

For one just be yourself.

i hate when guys put on an act to impress, I want to know the reall guy not his act.

Talking about movies music, and what eachother likes and dislikes are, is a great start for words.

Hope this will help you out.

At 10/7/04 01:43 PM, Lacie wrote:

At 10/7/04 01:39 PM, D34M0N wrote:

For one just be yourself.

i hate when guys put on an act to impress, I want to know the reall guy not his act.

Talking about movies music, and what eachother likes and dislikes are, is a great start for words.

Hope this will help you out.

Good Start Lacie I will add more to these tips tomarrow. Also I left a message for you on the female user BBS and I will send you an email shortly.

At 10/7/04 01:43 PM, TigerDemon wrote: I will have a list of tips for you by tomarrow.

Thanx.

At 10/7/04 01:43 PM, Lacie wrote: Hope this will help you out.

Thanx for the tips.

At 10/7/04 05:22 PM, D34M0N wrote:

At 10/7/04 01:43 PM, TigerDemon wrote: I will have a list of tips for you by tomarrow.

Thanx.

At 10/7/04 01:43 PM, Lacie wrote: Hope this will help you out.

Thanx for the tips.

No problem at all we are here to help and come by anytime ^_^