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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-09 03:55:11 Reply

At 1/12/15 01:53 PM, Sensationalism wrote: To summarize, Guy A is better according to my head and Guy B is better according to my heart.

Choosing A keeps everything the same, choosing B changes everything.

I'm in this same boat but sadly in a relationship. Question is, should I stay with my current clingy, jealous, grouchy gf or get with my best friend, who I've been head over heels for since we met, who knows it and feels the same, and who my current girlfriend hates.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-18 09:08:35 Reply

At 1/7/15 10:19 PM, Reformed wrote:
At 1/6/15 01:07 AM, BrenTheMan wrote:
You could also get into polyamory...
I myself do not condone this at all. I find it unfaithful, and very; extremely ignorant. It defeats the purpose of marriage. Whatever you do, do not think of this as an option!

I don't think you know what that word means (not saying it's a realistic option in her situation, though).

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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-18 09:13:44 Reply

At 3/18/15 09:08 AM, Entice wrote:
I don't think you know what that word means (not saying it's a realistic option in her situation, though).

Monogamy - One person relationship
Polyamory - Open relationship with more than two people

Some people prefer being with just one person (such as me) while others prefer being in an open relationship with many.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-18 09:36:12 Reply

help

how do get gf??

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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-27 21:38:05 Reply

At 3/18/15 09:36 AM, Cordyceps wrote: help

how do get gf??

laugh out loud

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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-28 14:16:16 Reply

At 3/18/15 09:36 AM, Cordyceps wrote: help

how do get gf??

Be yourself, look in the right places, could have friends watch for ladies that might get along with you well. Also, put a little effort into showing interest in them. So much I could say, haha.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-04-17 03:21:12 Reply

I've been seeing a guy for about 8 weeks now and up until recently messed around with a few other people, but now I feel like I'm not interested in anyone but him and want exclusivity. How do I bring it up with him? Should I wait for him to ask me?

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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-04-18 00:37:43 Reply

At 4/17/15 03:21 AM, Entice wrote: How do I bring it up with him?

Hang out with and maybe go to the movies or something else that could be considered a "date" kind of deal and ask how he feels about you.

Should I wait for him to ask me?

Should ask first, 6 weeks is enough time I think.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-07-06 01:23:17 Reply

At 1/5/15 04:08 AM, Sensationalism wrote: Alright y'all should help me realise who I like more. I currently like two guys and they both like me. How do I decide which one?!!?

I don't know how old you are, but as long as you're not exclusive with either one, then I think it's okay to explore both for now. I wouldn't say it's cheat IF you are exclusive with neither of them. This is just my opinion, of course. I know a lot of other people would think other wise, but.... a relationship is a big deal and I want the best I can have, if that makes sense.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-07-06 01:28:15 Reply

Sorry.... I should have checked the date on that last post, my apologies guys....... So I'll answer something different as to make amends to my stupidity...

At 4/17/15 03:21 AM, Entice wrote: I've been seeing a guy for about 8 weeks now and up until recently messed around with a few other people, but now I feel like I'm not interested in anyone but him and want exclusivity. How do I bring it up with him? Should I wait for him to ask me?

I don't think there is anything wrong with bringing it up to him. Maybe he feels the same way and thinks the same about it, too. I know the last relationship I was in, it took 3 months before we became exclusive and that wasn't by my choice. I think waiting a while to go exclusive was a good idea anyways...


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-07-06 15:42:56 Reply

At 7/6/15 01:28 AM, Everlasting-Elements wrote: I don't think there is anything wrong with bringing it up to him. Maybe he feels the same way and thinks the same about it, too. I know the last relationship I was in, it took 3 months before we became exclusive and that wasn't by my choice. I think waiting a while to go exclusive was a good idea anyways...

Yeah probably. I'm seeing a different guy now anyways lol so I guess it doesn't matter