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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-01-09 15:23:29 Reply

At 1/9/15 03:03 AM, Sensationalism wrote: Neither of them want me with someone else.

Then maybe I'd see if I started to gravitate towards one of them a bit more than the other.

I'm kind of thinking my heart wants one thing and my head says to do the other.

If neither of them want you, then you should stop with both of them. You want to be with somebody that wants to be with you.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-01-11 00:16:06 Reply

At 1/9/15 03:23 PM, DoctorStrongbad wrote:
At 1/9/15 03:03 AM, Sensationalism wrote: Neither of them want me with someone else.

Then maybe I'd see if I started to gravitate towards one of them a bit more than the other.

I'm kind of thinking my heart wants one thing and my head says to do the other.
If neither of them want you, then you should stop with both of them. You want to be with somebody that wants to be with you.

yOU READ THAT WRONG, BROSEF.
They both want me, exclusively. To themselves. They don't really want me to be with someone else.
I don't know which to pick. It sucks.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-01-11 10:52:18 Reply

At 1/11/15 12:16 AM, Sensationalism wrote: They both want me, exclusively. To themselves. They don't really want me to be with someone else.
I don't know which to pick. It sucks.

Try making a pro and cons list. That helps me when I have a hard decision.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-01-12 13:53:26 Reply

At 1/11/15 10:52 AM, DoctorStrongbad wrote: Try making a pro and cons list. That helps me when I have a hard decision.

Pros and cons aren't helping me decide :(

To summarize, Guy A is better according to my head and Guy B is better according to my heart.

Choosing A keeps everything the same, choosing B changes everything.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-09 03:55:11 Reply

At 1/12/15 01:53 PM, Sensationalism wrote: To summarize, Guy A is better according to my head and Guy B is better according to my heart.

Choosing A keeps everything the same, choosing B changes everything.

I'm in this same boat but sadly in a relationship. Question is, should I stay with my current clingy, jealous, grouchy gf or get with my best friend, who I've been head over heels for since we met, who knows it and feels the same, and who my current girlfriend hates.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-18 09:08:35 Reply

At 1/7/15 10:19 PM, Reformed wrote:
At 1/6/15 01:07 AM, BrenTheMan wrote:
You could also get into polyamory...
I myself do not condone this at all. I find it unfaithful, and very; extremely ignorant. It defeats the purpose of marriage. Whatever you do, do not think of this as an option!

I don't think you know what that word means (not saying it's a realistic option in her situation, though).

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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-18 09:13:44 Reply

At 3/18/15 09:08 AM, Entice wrote:
I don't think you know what that word means (not saying it's a realistic option in her situation, though).

Monogamy - One person relationship
Polyamory - Open relationship with more than two people

Some people prefer being with just one person (such as me) while others prefer being in an open relationship with many.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-18 09:36:12 Reply

help

how do get gf??

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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-27 21:38:05 Reply

At 3/18/15 09:36 AM, Cordyceps wrote: help

how do get gf??

laugh out loud

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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-03-28 14:16:16 Reply

At 3/18/15 09:36 AM, Cordyceps wrote: help

how do get gf??

Be yourself, look in the right places, could have friends watch for ladies that might get along with you well. Also, put a little effort into showing interest in them. So much I could say, haha.


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-04-15 00:52:54 Reply

meeting people in real life or online?

i am social enough to meet people in places but the good thing about online is
that you can back out any time without seeing the person
and test the waters and actually read about a person without having to ask.

being a woman i find it.... kind of weird to be introducing myself to men and other girls.
i think its forward. and i know its getting more common for females to do the approach

what can make it easier? real life speaking


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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-04-17 03:21:12 Reply

I've been seeing a guy for about 8 weeks now and up until recently messed around with a few other people, but now I feel like I'm not interested in anyone but him and want exclusivity. How do I bring it up with him? Should I wait for him to ask me?

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Response to Relationship Crew 2015-04-18 00:37:43 Reply

At 4/17/15 03:21 AM, Entice wrote: How do I bring it up with him?

Hang out with and maybe go to the movies or something else that could be considered a "date" kind of deal and ask how he feels about you.

Should I wait for him to ask me?

Should ask first, 6 weeks is enough time I think.


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