Hey if these guys can't figure out what is considered abusive and what is not....fuck 'em. Ban them or delete them. And if you're one of these people, tough shit. Start a new account now, b/c your shit's eventually going to be terminated.
The rules are right around the corner here...the giant Tome of Newgrounds Knowledge. Read them.
Don't worry about what others do, just take care of your own reviews. If you really think you have to tiptoe on eggshells to avoid being banned, you're wrong. You can make angry comments at users all you want, but be sensible and avoid lots of profanity. It doesn't matter that other users may flag your review as abusive, b/c the admins have enough sense to know for sure.
Poor Wade, I'm sure he feels like a big babysitter sometimes.... :(