What is wrong with gay marriage?
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I think that are two reasons that people are against gay marriage: (1) The more obvious of the two is the moral standerdes of traditional marriages would be comprimised (not to mention the religious views)
(2) The lessobvious reason is that if same sex marriges were recognized on a federal level, then the goverment and bussinesses that employed the gay population would be obliged to give them the same financal benifits and advantages of a traditional marriage. And the majority of the tax payers (at least I think) do not wish to pay out of their own pockets for something that that do not approve of anyway.
Man I got to learn how to spell.
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There is nothing really wrong with gay marrige. They deserve the same rights as we have because they are human too. Why shouldn't they be able to enter that "holy" and legal bond together. They could possibly raise their adopted kids better than some straight couples. They could teach equallity and not to judge others on their colour or sexual orientation. I would like to see two kids and their social understanding of things. One kid raised by a gay couple. And the other raised by your common redneck/hick/hilbily. Then we will see what comes of that. Well those are my thoughts on that. They are people and they deserve to be treated just the same.
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Nothing, unless you accept that homosexuals aren't who they say they are.
All the arguments, even the most wackjob ones, have a coherence to them. If you accept the premise that homosexuals are heterosexuals who have chosen to engage in gay or lesbian relationships, then the buzzwords of "lifestyle choice" are consistent.
Problem is, I've never known anyone who went off and decided to become involved in a homosexual relationship by subordinating their heterosexuality. Fuck, I saw a gay couple bitch at each other about the fucking appetizers at their party one night. I somehow don't think John Q. Hetero would actually want this domestic hassle if all they were wanting to do was shag.
Trouble is, alot of people don't think the 'choice' theory is bunkum. That's why they bring up statements like "The next thing you know, we'll be marrying men and turtles" with total seriousness.
And I wonder if the Pope is still telling Catholic politicians what to do....
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At 7/23/04 02:18 PM, The_Raven47 wrote: I think that are two reasons that people are against gay marriage:
Dont forget, the religious reasons too... God speaks out against homosexuals yadayadayada.
And dont post that picture at the bottom of all your posts. It's picture spamming, and is against the rules.
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At 7/22/04 11:55 PM, ACDC492 wrote:At 7/11/04 06:00 PM, supermanismyhero wrote: the bible forbids it and that's good enough for me as i am a godly person so i say let gays do w/e they want just as long as it isnt with christian churchesFuck the bibble. You need to stop living your life after a fucking book dude. Bibble don't mean shit it was written like thousands of years ago. You need to stop going back and checking if the bibble thinks it's ok. It's in the constitution. 14th amendmant go pick that up. Therefor the goverment is by law subjected to force your little churches to marry gay's.
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You didn't help your cause any by saying "F" the bible. You can't even spell it.
You did nothing but prove that homosexuality is a sin, and that you don't even care about anything but lust.
The real reason people are against gay marriage is because it is wrong. It is a sin, and most of us believe in right and wrong and in a higher power.
Your rhetoric won’t save you now. Satan.
After you die you think you’ll be nothing anyways so why should we even help you. Seeing how if there is no right or wrong we don’t have to do a thing to help you.
And constitutionally your not able to marry so…leave it be how it is
You are all lucky we even let you be gay to begin with!
STOP ASKING FOR MORE!!!!
Being gay doesn’t bother us till you do this crap and show how sinful you are.
If you dont belive in god then it cant be wrong for us to just off you.(silly beliefs)
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^LOL, funniest thing i've read all day, seriously.
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Ones argument that the Bible was thousands of years old and implied that doesn't matter much... What about when and if our own constitution is still around in that much time? Will it even be anything like what we recognize today?
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At 7/27/04 11:00 PM, Spookshow wrote: Ones argument that the Bible was thousands of years old and implied that doesn't matter much... What about when and if our own constitution is still around in that much time? Will it even be anything like what we recognize today?
The Constitution is a marvelous thing... it is very elastic with time, modes of thinking, etc. And unlike the Bible and many other religious doctrine, there is a provision that says that people are able to 1.) modify the Constitution if needed, and 2.) or abolish it altogether and form a new government or have anarchy.
I doubt that Constitution looks anything how it did to the Forefathers... they had black slaves then, today we have free blacks who can vote and hold in governmental positions... back then, and etc.
But yet it holds basic concepts...
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see gay marriage is ok. Why? because gays are people too. The only thing that makes it wrong is Religon and the majority of people that think its bad. First of all is the bible has no facts, proof, evidence that its a bad thing for a man not to marrie a man or a women to marrie another women and that they did countless crusades to "convert" civilions to it. Could you imagine being tortured just because you were too lusty, proud, lazy, or greedy. The bible is old age talk.
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At 7/27/04 02:15 PM, PalmClease wrote:
You did nothing but prove that homosexuality is a sin, and that you don't even care about anything but lust.
Uh... I'm sure all heterosexuals only care about love, and only having sex just because they need to carry on the human population. Anybody who has sex is sinful. Period. The bible says that, why do you think Jesus was the only one born without the 'original sin'? His mom didn't screw. That tells me everyone who ever has sex is sinful. Its all a sin so why not man on man?
The real reason people are against gay marriage is because it is wrong. It is a sin, and most of us believe in right and wrong and in a higher power.
It is wrong to you. Why? I don't know, but you are very hypocritical in how you say it. Have you ever had sex? If so then you are sinful.
Your rhetoric won’t save you now. Satan.
Uh huh, right back at ya...
After you die you think you’ll be nothing anyways so why should we even help you. Seeing how if there is no right or wrong we don’t have to do a thing to help you.
Who is this 'we'? What the hell are you talking about when you say 'help'? Government is based on laws, not men (the US anyway). The laws say no discrimination and equal rights for everyone. It doesn't matter what anyone else says, they aren't the law.
And constitutionally your not able to marry so…leave it be how it is
You seem to have forgotten Massachusetts. We proudly marry gay couples. Just come here and get marries. Constitutionally Gays will not be allowed to marry if an amendment is passed. It hasn't happened yet so they are still allowed to marry.
You are all lucky we even let you be gay to begin with!
What? Are you so blinded by your fictionalized bible that you cannot read the Constitution? He isn't lucky we let him do anything, he has the same rights to think what he wants and do what he wants.
STOP ASKING FOR MORE!!!!
He isn't asking for more, gays are just demanding the same. Its called equality.
Being gay doesn’t bother us till you do this crap and show how sinful you are.
Yes is does, otherwise you would have no problem with gay marriage.
If you dont belive in god then it cant be wrong for us to just off you.(silly beliefs)
Yep, with each thing you said you steadily lost credibilty, and I think this just put you off the scale in terms of any respectability whatsoever. You have just proven yourself to be a close-minded bigot who's only interpretation has so blinded him from the reality that is the United States Constitution you don't think its wrong to kill someone just because you hate how they are. Do you hate Black people too?
Freedom of speech = you are wrong.
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People are always going to have seperate ideas. It is time that the different sides stopped attacking each other. So you're different, so what? X person believes in the bible and homosexuality is wrong. Who is the person attacking them to do so? Y person thinks being gay is ok. Who is the person attacking someone elses beliefs to do so? Basically:
If you are gay or support homosexuals, you're probably going to get you're way. Lay off the religious zealots. I deal with people attacking me all the time with little or no argument. Get over it. Struggling and oppresion sp* is part of life. Do what you can but please don't use personal attacks. At the same time, don't flaunt it.
If you are against homosexuals, stand by your beliefs, shut up and deal with it. After all according to your religion aren't they all going to burn in hell anyways? If it disgusts you so, don't look. As long as they refrain from abnormal PDA, and you do so too, what's the problem?
Just trying to help people be a tad more civil. :)
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What is wrong with gay marriage???
To answer such a question we need to ask ourselves- What is wrong with being gay?.
We all have different point of views when it comes to this subject. I think being gay is more like a sickness, as is being mentally handicapped. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying gay people is stupid or anything, I'm saying that this is not a matter of who you love or fall in love with, this is a matter of where you want to stick your "willie" in. Just plain sick, end of the argument.
Same goes for lesbians, unless they are really hot and sexy!
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I'm more of a libertarian than a democrat or republican, so I'm curious what you folks think of the libertarian solution to the gay marriage conundrum. The libertarians propose that it is not the role of the government to recognize and reward (i.e. tax benefits) marriage, be it heterosexual or homosexual. I feel like this is a logical solution to the problem that might please both sides.
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At 11/27/04 10:54 AM, OCTOTOKE wrote: Same goes for lesbians, unless they are really hot and sexy!
Boys Don't Cry
I bring this movie to my mind , the lesbians girl looks more like a boy.
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At 11/27/04 11:04 AM, Dullurd wrote: I'm curious what you folks think of the libertarian solution to the gay marriage conundrum.
It's a reasonable idea, and it would certainly shut everyone up.
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At 11/27/04 11:04 AM, Dullurd wrote: The libertarians propose that it is not the role of the government to recognize and reward (i.e. tax benefits) marriage, be it heterosexual or homosexual. I feel like this is a logical solution to the problem that might please both sides.
So your solution to the problem is that both get nothing? I don't see how that would please both sides.
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Well, I don't think that's an objective way of looking at it. If by "get nothing" you mean "the government doesn't give them money simply because they're married" then yes, that's true. However, I would reply that both sides do "get" other, more important things. Namely, I think that the supporters of gay marriage would be happy because the laws (and Constitution) of the United States would abide by possibly the most important precept of the American philosophy: not to discriminate against any citizen based on race, religion, sexuality, etc. On the other side, I think the opponents of gay marriage would be happy because the government would in no way be endorsing homosexuality/homosexual marriage.
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At 11/28/04 08:51 AM, Dullurd wrote: On the other side, I think the opponents of gay marriage would be happy because the government would in no way be endorsing homosexuality/homosexual marriage.
But at the same time their benifits are being taking away as well.
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Government support of marriage is a form of social engineering anyway.
I'm certain that a lot of people wouldn't like to have their privileges revoked, but there are benefits to a lack of government intervention in one's private life.
Some couples who do not exploit loopholes and such may find themselves paying less tax than if the government had recognised their marriage.
Many of the things that people marry for, such as visitation rights at a hospital, can be agreed upon privately with the use of a solicitor's services.
There would be less influence by the government on people's lifestyles, and marriage would become more a matter of preference than of economic or practical neccessity.
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At 7/2/04 12:30 AM, Camarohusky wrote: And by the way, I think beer is gross. I can't drink it without coming close to vommiting, so does that mean that beer drinkers shouldn't marry? I think so.
Beer is awesome. Beer is way better than gay marriage, which is also cool.
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RIGHT ON!!! There is no logical reason why it is so wrong! It is not!It just needs to be called something different, nothing too wild, maybe just 'gay marriage'. It would stil have all the legal benefits and stuff. If you just call it marriage then what's to stop the bestiality people geting in, where do you draw the line?
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That is true, but there should be some sort of similar bond for gays, so they can enjoy the same benefits.
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RED SKUNK IS A FUCKING HOMOPHOBE!!!!!
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At 11/29/04 03:52 AM, Narg wrote: RED SKUNK IS A FUCKING HOMOPHOBE!!!!!
And you're an idiot. Chill.
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At 11/29/04 03:52 AM, Narg wrote: RED SKUNK IS A FUCKING HOMOPHOBE!!!!!
Damn straight he is...
I asked him yesterday, "Skunkypoo, can I put my pen0r in your mouth?" And he said, "Hell no!"
What a homophobe...
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Sexual orientation is something you can't help, so why can't gay people have what straight people have?
Also, Jesus himself never said anything against homosexuality. Just people in the Bible did, and that isn't necessarily true. 'nuff said.
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I got two words for PalmClease: Fucking Fascist.
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At 11/29/04 04:01 PM, MaplinSowel wrote: Sexual orientation is something you can't help, so why can't gay people have what straight people have?
I love proving your blanket statement wrong: Guess what, little brother? I could 'help' my sexual orientation. I chose it, and pursued it vigorously.
Stop speaking for ALL homosexuals. You're no better than the stereotyping homophobes.
I swear by my life - and my love of it - that I will never live my life for the sake of another man, or ask another man to live his for mine.
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Tom/Wade really need to implement something on here to prevent people from replying to a thread until they've viewed every page at least once.
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who gives a fuck i dont care what you young wipersnapers do its all good


