Wade's probably so busy actually running the site that using the BBS feels more like work. Tom was the same way for a while, but has actually been posting quite a bit lately. Mostly stuff about updates, marketing, content, and suggested features.
And don't forget that Tom and Wade aren't dumb kids anymore. They probably look at us users making dick jokes and shake their heads in disappointment. Jokes about wieners just aren't as funny to them anymore. I know it's hard to believe, but all of the evidence suggests that our glorious leaders don't like talking about penises as much as they did when they built the site.
But that's OK. @BrenTheMan chills with us BBS folks. It's his turn to be the cool admin who keeps us in the loop and converses with us common folk about willies and dongs.