Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years long distance with me in England and him in America. It has been tough at times with not being able to hold each other being the biggest problem. But we make each other so happy even when this far apart that it works for us. We have met once 2 months ago and it was the best 2 weeks of my life for sure. Should be meeting again soon hopefully.
As long as you have a desire to make it work on both sides and promise to make the distance close so you can be together for good then a long distance relationship can work for sure. Meeting in person is a great thing to do to make sure you like each other's company and can share a bed and sleep together etc. When you know you can trust each other at that level and just enjoy being beside them then you know it can work. It might take some time to close in the distance, but you know it will be worth it when it happens.
At 6/17/15 10:51 PM, GiovDMustache wrote:
At 6/17/15 10:41 PM, Seasons wrote:
Anybody ever made one of these work?
i once had a good 1000K long distance relationship and it worked out for more than 3 years but then he cheated. if you're a good guy and she's a good woman, no doubt it'll work out.
^ this, really sorry to hear he cheated on you though, I really don't understand such people it is horrible...
Now if we sadly need to bring up this topic of cheating which multiple people in the thread have done. People cheating on people comes from one single mindset. "I deserve sex." Is basically what they are saying. No one "deserves sex." No one is obligated to fuck you. If that is someone's mindset then honestly your partner who you feel isn't "giving you the sex you deserve" is too good for you for willing to be with someone who thinks like that and trust such a person with being the only one they allow their body to be used by. Such people should stay out of romance and let those who actually care about being with a single person do it without there being this stigma fear of cheating.
How much I loathe needing to talk about that in a thread about long distance.....but sadly long distance is tainted by such a view of "people in long distance cheat" which isn't any fucking different to people in close distance relationships. Assholes will cheat because they are assholes that don't deserve their partner. Proper humans will not.