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[Azakair]

Long distance relationship

U.S - Spain

distance making life harder.

both 15, i have poor family (aka flights aren't much of a possibility)
she's a new level of shy i've never seen before and is rare when she speaks in voice but at least i can hear her laugh (the closer we get, the more she is shy.. it's terrible)

Basicly i'm asking if anyone has some tips for this sort of thing.

i'm drawing a lot blanks and it's difficult to think about this.
I realize this probably isn't the place to say this but i just kinda ended up here so i just might be surprised.

[Azakair]

At 5/11/15 01:11 AM, Cordyceps wrote: if you can't afford a flight why not take a boat

from what i've found they seem to be even more expensive

[RandyRandom]

Where did you guys meet?

[Galneda]

ffs, you're 15. Get your embarrassing mistakes out of the way with someone more local. The only way you're going to learn is if you're going to try, and you're getting nowhere fast with a long distance relationship at your age.

You are wasting your time. You are. Trust me.

[Radaketor]

At 5/11/15 01:10 AM, Azakair wrote: Long distance relationship

Oh god.

U.S - Spain

distance making life harder.

both 15, i have poor family (aka flights aren't much of a possibility)

So i'm gonna assume she and her family are moderately well financially? If you turn 18 before she does then have her pay you a ticket to where she's at and spend a week or two, see how shit turns out, if she turns 18 before you do then have her come pay you a visit.
On the meantime, Skype will have to do for both of you.

she's a new level of shy i've never seen before and is rare when she speaks in voice but at least i can hear her laugh (the closer we get, the more she is shy.. it's terrible)

Here's a tip, take it a bit slow with her, don't go rushing into shit or you might freak her out.

Basicly i'm asking if anyone has some tips for this sort of thing.

Trust, you both need to have a lot of trust in eachother if you want this to work out and judging by how she acts i think you also need to take it slow.

[Goreguese]

Tips for you:

#1. Grow up.
#2. Get a Job.
#3. Go to Spain.
#4. You have found her, now go and get her.

[unreliablyinformed]

I'm sorry, it's just really hard to take this thread seriously.

Can't you find a girl closer to home? Why is this girl that's too shy to even talk properly worth waiting for? Is she super hot?

I've been in this situation before. It doesn't always end badly, just most of the time. It helps if at least one of you is old enough/rich enough to actually go and meet the other person.

[Bones]

Find ways to money...aghmmm drugs