I have a question, for those of you who can answer it:

Is it cheesy or lame to ask a girl if we're dating over the phone (text), if we have a long-distance friendship and I haven't seen her for awhile.

You should probably ask her out instead of asking if you two are dating.

Nah. Just break into her home and watch her while she sleeps.

They love that sort of thing.

Send a dick pic first, post results, and we go on from there.

At 4/25/15 03:08 PM, Slint wrote: Send a dick pic first, post results, and we go on from there.

My penis is so immense, it can't fit on petty phone cameras

Asking her out is a better option

If you're cheesy to begin with, then it doesn't really matter what you do, it will be cheesy. I hope you catch my drift here.

At 4/25/15 03:31 PM, Shauna wrote:

At 4/25/15 03:25 PM, Indeks wrote: Asking her out is a better option

Yeah, seriously.

Also, OP, long distance rarely ever works out.

It worked for someone

At 4/25/15 03:32 PM, Indeks wrote: It worked for someone

That's a bit like saying someone won the lottery. Sure, it worked for someone, but that's ignoring all of the people that lost out.

At 4/25/15 03:30 PM, FaroutFrank wrote: If you're cheesy to begin with, then it doesn't really matter what you do, it will be cheesy. I hope you catch my drift here.

It ain't easy being cheesy

At 4/25/15 03:31 PM, Shauna wrote:

At 4/25/15 03:25 PM, Indeks wrote: Asking her out is a better option

Yeah, seriously.

Also, OP, long distance rarely ever works out.

I'll just wait til she comes home then.

I have the summer to hang out anyways.

At 4/25/15 03:34 PM, someaveragechap wrote:

At 4/25/15 03:32 PM, Indeks wrote: It worked for someone

That's a bit like saying someone won the lottery. Sure, it worked for someone, but that's ignoring all of the people that lost out.

Just gotta have alittle faith in people maybe

At 4/25/15 03:37 PM, BanditWoolyBear wrote:

At 4/25/15 03:34 PM, someaveragechap wrote:

At 4/25/15 03:32 PM, Indeks wrote: It worked for someone

That's a bit like saying someone won the lottery. Sure, it worked for someone, but that's ignoring all of the people that lost out.

Just gotta have alittle faith in people maybe

Try...but there are concecvences

At 4/25/15 03:39 PM, Indeks wrote: Try...but there are concecvences

In one more full year, I'm joining her at the same school. That's why I have hope about it.

At 4/25/15 03:37 PM, BanditWoolyBear wrote:
Just gotta have alittle faith in people maybe

I have faith that people will behave in their best 'emotional' interests and be true to themselves unless it would be a massive inconvenience for them.

I also believe that people are short sighted and prone to rash decisions in a highly emotional state.

Take that for what it's worth.

At 4/25/15 03:42 PM, BanditWoolyBear wrote:

At 4/25/15 03:39 PM, Indeks wrote: Try...but there are concecvences

In one more full year, I'm joining her at the same school. That's why I have hope about it.

Then go get her mate GO!

At 4/25/15 03:43 PM, someaveragechap wrote: Take that for what it's worth.

You're right, nothing is guaranteed. However, I literally have no interest in any other girl... At the moment? That feel strange to word it that way but you know what I mean.

At 4/25/15 02:42 PM, BanditWoolyBear wrote: I have a question, for those of you who can answer it:

Is it cheesy or lame to ask a girl if we're dating over the phone (text), if we have a long-distance friendship and I haven't seen her for awhile.

You sound like a really cute guy but most girls wouldn't go for that. At all.

First, asking over text is lame. If a guy asked me out over text, I wouldn't even respond and try to avoid him in real life.
Second, I wouldn't ask her IF you're dating. That's ... I don't know how to describe it. Just don't ask her if you're dating.
Third, it's cute that you're infatuated with her so much that you can't look at other girls, but unless you two have a close, long history where you really know who she is, that sort of thing would creep out a lot of girls. It would creep me out. if a guy told me that, i'd be really polite, say thank you, then walk away.

I'd say no. Don't do it. Look to the girls in your life and build something with them and never ask to date through text.

It depends if she thinks it's cheesy. I don't think it really is, maybe a little but it seems pretty convenient in your case.

At 4/25/15 04:13 PM, GingerGymnast wrote: I'd say no. Don't do it. Look to the girls in your life and build something with them and never ask to date through text.

I worded that really badly, but I get your point(s)

I'm going to see her during the summer anyways, like I said. I guess I was just excited to say something lol.

I think how I meant to say it was, to ask if she wanted to make things official or something.

At 4/25/15 04:25 PM, BanditWoolyBear wrote:

I think how I meant to say it was, to ask if she wanted to make things official or something.

I'm curious, how old are you banditbear?

At 4/25/15 04:29 PM, GingerGymnast wrote: I'm curious, how old are you banditbear?

Uh... 20, why

At 4/25/15 04:31 PM, BanditWoolyBear wrote:

At 4/25/15 04:29 PM, GingerGymnast wrote: I'm curious, how old are you banditbear?

Uh... 20, why

Oh i thought you might have been younger.

I don't know if formally asking is "wrong." You can try it. The asking out can't be easy and it's usually the guy who has to make the first step. Do what you feel is right, try to do it with a sense that you're sure of yourself. Girls like a guy who has confidence.
Just don't ask her through text. lol It says all the wrong things if you did.

At 4/25/15 04:39 PM, GingerGymnast wrote: Oh i thought you might have been younger.

Sob

I don't know if formally asking is "wrong." You can try it. The asking out can't be easy and it's usually the guy who has to make the first step.

I will when she's home. I won't be super butthurt if she doesn't want to date, but I want to know fairly soon I guess. Another month

"long-distance friendship"

I dont think it will last for a long time.

At 4/25/15 06:44 PM, DoctorZero wrote: "long-distance friendship"

I dont think it will last for a long time

Ok.

Seems this needs posting in this thread.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1adbvM9AYE

At 4/25/15 07:15 PM, NeonSpider wrote: Seems this needs posting in this thread.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1adbvM9AYE

I needed that.

No, you must accept the connection and understand if the chemistry is truly ethereal, follow your own happiness and perfect it correctly, who knows this could take you on the journey of your life but don't hold this expectation for it can be mentally damaging if not accorded appropriately

At 4/25/15 02:42 PM, BanditWoolyBear wrote: Is it cheesy or lame to ask a girl if we're dating over the phone (text), if we have a long-distance friendship and I haven't seen her for awhile.

It isn't cheesy or lame, but it feels off.
Like you're doubting the relationship or something.

Long distance can complicate things.

But you probably knew that already.

Yes. Yes it is.