At 4/10/15 01:08 AM, SuperBastard wrote:
At 4/10/15 12:52 AM, Bit wrote:
At 4/10/15 12:37 AM, 24901miles wrote:
At 4/10/15 12:25 AM, Zhon wrote:
I'll be honest though... I'm lazy as hell. If we were all intellectual and shit I'd feel compelled to actually try to be smart. But the idiots that surround me make me look smart, so right now I don't have to try.
It's too easy to foist the blame onto other people. You could try surrounding yourself with smarter people. You could also try using a different motivational tool than relative social intellect.
That's what I did.
Making yourself feel like an idiot actually does wonders for motivation to better yourself. It sounds counter-intuitive, but it's really not.
If all of your friends are idiots, you already think that you're hot shit. If you're hot shit, why put any effort into anything?
To add, you as one with potential for intellectual prowess should make the attempt to realize your potential. By becoming complacent with your position you are confining yourself to a twisted ideal of perfection which you cannot revise through discovery. That is to say, you are not free to fail. Perhaps you do not wish to, but without failure you'll never get the chance to bask in the afterglow of success.
A good example of this comes from a rather unlikely place.
In Dragon Ball, Goku's goal is to win the Tenkaichi tournament, a tournament which crowns the greatest martial artist under heaven. Goku's master sees that, although he is young, Goku has a good chance of winning the tournament on his first attempt. So he dons a disguise and enters the tournament himself, knowing that will defeat his students.
Later, he is discovered and confronted by one of the competitors. They want to know why he would purposefully stop his students from winning. He reveals to them that winning the tournament would make them complacent. If Goku believed himself to be the best martial artist in the world, he would have no goal to work towards. Knowing that there's always a stronger opponent gives him a reason to hone his skills.
And the same holds true to all pursuits. What impetus for betterment is there if there is no more to learn, no greater challenge to overcome, and no rival to surpass? Such is a boring, stagnant condition.