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Just found out at least over a month ago my gf started cheating on me, and we'd have made a year in December.

I'm just laying in my bed crying
Someone please say something nice I have nothing in my fucking life.......

At 9/10/14 06:23 AM, Bustyourchop wrote: Just found out at least over a month ago my gf started cheating on me, and we'd have made a year in December.

I'm just laying in my bed crying
Someone please say something nice I have nothing in my fucking life.......

Well, you WOULD have nothing in your life if the only thing that gave it meaning and worth is based on who you're dating.

Seriously, it bothers me when women are referred to as "Oh, she's that one dude's girlfriend/wife" as if what DEFINES HER, and her skills and experiences and her worth as a person...is who she's fucking.

Do you see how obnoxious that can get?

It's moreso awful that your trust was betrayed... (no fault of yours)

It's terrible that you were done dirty like that...but all you can do is move on.

"One must let go of what was in order to achieve what can be."

Seek out your friends and surround yourself in good company. The sooner you let her slide right off, like water off a duck's back, that'll be a whole heft of weight off of you that you have no sense in carrying around. You have the comfortable advantage of not being at fault at all...that's all on her bitch-ass.

Don't give her the satisfaction by being vulnerable. She doesn't earn that kind of power over you anymore.

At 9/10/14 06:33 AM, Phobotech wrote: Don't give her the satisfaction by being vulnerable. She doesn't earn that kind of power over you anymore.

Never again will I let a girl convince me that it's better to have someone than to be an island.

I didn't lose anything I just need to suck it up

At 9/10/14 06:46 AM, WahyahRanger wrote:

At 9/10/14 06:41 AM, Bustyourchop wrote: Never again will I let a girl convince me that it's better to have someone than to be an island.

Dude join the single losers club.

You're in like company.

There-there.

I need simon and garfunkel T.T

At 9/10/14 06:34 AM, WahyahRanger wrote: "What a bitch"

"You deserve better"

"Dude, forget her let's just get high, dude."
How I think OP's friends would react based on his posts.

Well, since we're just venting I'd like to state that I cant stand this one chick in my house just eating all the food up and crying about everything. There's a time to man up, and there's a time to bitch out, I guess, this is hers. Fuck this dumbass bitch. Look inside, and find out who you are, and what that means to you. Identity crisis, or are you fucking scared?
Stupid human bitch...Fuck...

At 9/10/14 06:23 AM, Bustyourchop wrote: Just found out at least over a month ago my gf started cheating on me, and we'd have made a year in December.

I'm just laying in my bed crying
Someone please say something nice I have nothing in my fucking life.......

That's what you get for having a girlfriend. They're just expensive as hell and don't reliably give anything in return. It's basically the same as with cars, except that cars actually have functional uses.

Some advice for you: Next time get a whore, they're more cost-efficient than girlfriends.

You guys are awesome

At 9/10/14 05:16 PM, Bustyourchop wrote: You guys are awesome

It's happened to most of us. You ain't the first, nor the last. As long as you learn from it without being bitter, you're golden.

I need simon and garfunkel T.T

how's this?

This actually reminded me of some really wise words. The whole video is worth checking out (as is anything uploaded by vSauce), but what I'm referring to 6:40-7:26 (or something around that)

If she cheated on you then she'll just cheat on the next guy.....and the next guy......and the next guy......why? because she won't make exceptions "oh its love! i follow my heart! im a free spirit" neh

loyalty is royalty my friend. if sheaint loyal then she aint worth yer time.

that said

[hugs OP]

thingsll get better mate <3

I need simon and garfunkel T.T

Best I can do for ya... Here's a lighter to wave around and some old underwear to cry into.

Bridge Over Troubled Water (2012)

It will get better. Get some rest, tomorrow will be better.

At 9/10/14 06:23 AM, Bustyourchop wrote: Someone please say something nice I have nothing in my fucking life.......

You have everything you've always had. The only thing you don't have is a mean, disrespectful, untrustworthy person in your life. Sounds to me like it's only going to get better from here.

At 9/10/14 09:35 AM, NewgroundsMike wrote: That's what you get for having a girlfriend. They're just expensive as hell and don't reliably give anything in return. It's basically the same as with cars, except that cars actually have functional uses.

Some advice for you: Next time get a whore, they're more cost-efficient than girlfriends.

Have you been hanging out with the wrong women, or are you an awful guy?
Hey OP, here's the guy to not turn into.

You have put too much trust in humans.

At 9/10/14 09:02 PM, Sensationalism wrote: Have you been hanging out with the wrong women, or are you an awful guy?
Hey OP, here's the guy to not turn into.

I'm an awful guy and I enjoy it. Deal with it.

At 9/11/14 08:53 AM, NewgroundsMike wrote:

At 9/10/14 09:02 PM, Sensationalism wrote: Have you been hanging out with the wrong women, or are you an awful guy?
Hey OP, here's the guy to not turn into.

I'm an awful guy and I enjoy it. Deal with it.

Mike, I enjoy your honesty.

At 9/11/14 08:54 AM, SolXeroEraser wrote:

At 9/11/14 08:53 AM, NewgroundsMike wrote:

At 9/10/14 09:02 PM, Sensationalism wrote: Have you been hanging out with the wrong women, or are you an awful guy?
Hey OP, here's the guy to not turn into.

I'm an awful guy and I enjoy it. Deal with it.

Mike, I enjoy your honesty.

My honesty is all I have left.

At 9/11/14 08:53 AM, NewgroundsMike wrote:
I'm an awful guy and I enjoy it. Deal with it.

If you believe we have any obligation to accept your idiotic views and suggestions you're seriously fooling yourself. We don't actually have to deal with your shit. "Deal with it."

OP it's logical you should feel super down, man. But in a few years you'll back on it and see how little this 9-months-relationship mattered in your life. I think most people have a history of shitty relationships before they find somebody they want to settle with for a good while... I'm aware it doesn't make it less painful, but it makes it less important.

Until you come across a person who'll be worth it and who you will want to be with, just enjoy , man. You're free! Spend time with friends and family, work out, play games, do whatever you like, man. Relationships are but one of many aspects of life. Your life doesn't end because your relationship does (and let's be frank, what are you losing except a relationship that was going to make you miserable?). So when the average period of mourning is over, make sure you enjoy all the other things!
We all get shit and give shit until we find the right persons. So don't worry, be happy, listen to Bob:
http://youtu.be/Oo4OnQpwjkc

It's gonna get better, man. This is about as tough as it gets.

http://match.com
okcupid
plenty of fish

I'm sorry for you dude. :-(

I leave anyone who cheats on me immediately. There are no second chances lol.
And no I'm NOT trying to be noticed. I wasn't when me and her got together.
I don't really want anything serious until mid to late 20s

Dude, she cheated on you. You'll be getting pity sex left and right if you milk this.

You really are better off, my man. Her cheating is actually independent of your worth as a person and/or sexual being and/or whatever your relationship with her was based upon. It's a reflection of her immaturity as a person and a symptom of a relationship that ultimately couldn't fulfill either of you.

There won't be others in the future because they're already here right now. Best of luck in meeting her.

Part of what worries me is the fact that you were with her because you were convinced that it is better than being alone.
I think you should take some time to evaluate yourself, and see what you need in a partner.
It's possible that you aren't ready for a relationship, as I assume you're young due to you wanting to wait until you're older before you 'settle down.'
It's also possible that you aren't going with the right people, or at least not for the right reasons since she had to convince you to go out with her. You should go out with someone because you like them, you want to spend more time with them and become more intimate, and because you feel ready. Also, it should be noted that in my experience, some of the best relationships come from friendships.
Although it hurts right now, take this as a learning experience as to what you're NOT looking for in someone, as now you're a little closer to narrowing it down to what you want, which can really be hard to determine.
It's okay to cry and feel shitty, let your emotions out, accept how you feel, and then try to release them. Don't let someone who was shitty to you make you feel sad for too long. Grieve for the loss of the good times you had, but remember that the relationship has changed and is no longer a positive thing that is going to be worth pursuing. Do your best to distract yourself, listen to Simon and Garfunkel, play some newground games, go out with friends! Try not to isolate yourself, as it's easy to do when you're down.
I'm really sorry that this happened to you. I've been cheated on and it's incredibly hurtful, and hard. No one deserves it.
I hope you start feeling better soon, keep your chin up! You're a cutie, you'll find someone new. A better love is out there for you. :)

At 9/10/14 06:58 AM, Bustyourchop wrote: I need simon and garfunkel T.T

HELLO DARKNESS MY OLD FRIEND