At 8/18/14 06:10 PM, Reiska3 wrote:
I just realised something. Hate is the strongest kind of love. If two people are just smoothering up to each other instead of saying thing as it is, then its all fake and an act. However, if two people truly detest each other based on natural instincts. Then that is love. So being angry at one person you just really dont like really is the most realistic kind of love.
I understand your premise, and although the way you stated it isn't exactly concise, I believe the general concept behind it to be true. To hate someone requires you to feel something for them, requires a level of emotion and attention. To despise, loathe, detest, etc. another person means that you must devote a portion of your thoughts and feelings to that person and imbue them with a certain importance. A lot of people think "Anger = Hate" When one is angry with you, it means they cared enough to get angry with you. To be angry with a person, to have that kind of "hatred", I do not believe that to be true hate.
True hate is apathy. True hate is uncaring, unfeeling, not giving two shits about that person. It's making the conscious effort to remove every thought and action by that person. To treat them like they don't exist. That is hate. When you really hate someone, you feel nothing for them, not anger, not disgust, just nothing. They're more like objects than people.
So on that level, I must agree with you, but saying that hate is the strongest love is a bit...misconstrued to say the least. I mean, I suppose in certain situations, maybe it is but certainly not as a rule in general.