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How many of you guys are absolutely certain about your sexuality? If you are how did you come to that conclusion? I'm just curious about this because I want to know more about people and you ngers and stuff. I know I'm bisexual because I've had sex with men and women alike and I enjoyed both pretty well (obviously every gender has it's share of bad eggs.) Dating wise I like guys because I relate more with them but I also like girls because (to me) they're cuter than guys and smell better (kidding.) Girls are nice too because I find them a lot more sensitive and open with their feelings, which I can also relate with. I have a girlfriend atm that I hope will stick with me for awhile, everything seems to be going great so far.

So tell me your deepest darkest secrets guys.

Sincerely,
Cresisis

Ps. @wahyahranger we should still touch bums. No homo

At 5/15/14 10:54 PM, CresIsis wrote:
Ps. @wahyahranger we should still touch bums. No homo

SO FUCKING JEALOUS

At 5/15/14 11:06 PM, Vnzi wrote: Sexuality is hard to pinpoint and label, really. I mean I'm a lesbian, but there were times where I was dumb enough that I dated a few guys, but I still think of myself as a lesbian. So really, the best way to describe gender is:

Fuck what you want, who you want. Just don't try to show us.

Fair enough.

At the moment it'd be impossible for me to be either straight or gay, as I have no preference so I guess I embody that statement pretty well.

I couldn't see myself as a top or a bottom, so I guess that settles the score.

At 5/15/14 11:06 PM, Vnzi wrote: Sexuality is hard to pinpoint and label, really. I mean I'm a lesbian, but there were times where I was dumb enough that I dated a few guys, but I still think of myself as a lesbian. So really, the best way to describe gender is:

Fuck what you want, who you want. Just don't try to show us.

Actually it's pretty easy to pinpoint and label. You fuck guys, you fuck girls, you fuck both, or you fuck neither. There's really four options there.

I mean, you can go (balls)deep, what with gender roles, and creepy fucking subcultures and fetishes, but there's only four options.

At 5/15/14 11:10 PM, protoAuthor wrote: Actually it's pretty easy to pinpoint and label. You fuck guys, you fuck girls, you fuck both, or you fuck neither. There's really four options there.

I mean, you can go (balls)deep, what with gender roles, and creepy fucking subcultures and fetishes, but there's only four options.

Let me tell you about a thing I like to call gender squared.

At 5/15/14 11:11 PM, SansNumbers wrote:

At 5/15/14 11:10 PM, protoAuthor wrote: Actually it's pretty easy to pinpoint and label. You fuck guys, you fuck girls, you fuck both, or you fuck neither. There's really four options there.

I mean, you can go (balls)deep, what with gender roles, and creepy fucking subcultures and fetishes, but there's only four options.

Let me tell you about a thing I like to call gender squared.

>implying sex and gender are the same thing

Gender's a phenomenon of the mind, brother.

At 5/15/14 11:13 PM, protoAuthor wrote: >implying sex and gender are the same thing

Gender's a phenomenon of the mind, brother.

I see you're already familiar with it. Very well.

At 5/15/14 11:09 PM, Vnzi wrote: Do you think you could be pansexual? Bisexual is attraction to only the basic two genders, pansexuality is having no preference of who you are attracted to.

Hm.

I suppose so, I've been sort of gender-blind throughout my life, especially during college. I go more for how much I relate to the other person as a person and how fun they are rather than whether they have a wiener or a potato. But I don't know how I would react to a transgendered person or a shemale or heshe, but I couldn't imagine it making a big difference.

What were you thinking when you were dating guys?

At 5/15/14 11:10 PM, protoAuthor wrote:
I mean, you can go (balls)deep, what with gender roles, and creepy fucking subcultures and fetishes, but there's only four options.

to some of us, there are no options. only Zuul.

i like to say i'm asexual but it's a defense, because the person i'm into the most is the person that's really into me :p

sexual pun? you decide!

penises freak me out.

except for mine :3

I can let a dude suck me off, but that's as far as I'll go.

At 5/15/14 11:19 PM, Vnzi wrote: Unless you're asexual.

True that.

Also I'm not racist but I'm just not attracted to black people.

At 5/15/14 11:22 PM, CresIsis wrote:

At 5/15/14 11:19 PM, Vnzi wrote: Unless you're asexual.

True that.

Also I'm not racist but I'm just not attracted to black people.

Cannot touch bums with you then; black/white mixraced girls are fucking sexy.

At 5/15/14 11:09 PM, Vnzi wrote: Do you think you could be pansexual? Bisexual is attraction to only the basic two genders, pansexuality is having no preference of who you are attracted to.

No. Pansexual is for bisexual hipsters who want to call them something else to feel special.

At 5/15/14 11:23 PM, protoAuthor wrote: Cannot touch bums with you then; black/white mixraced girls are fucking sexy.

I'll take your word for it.

At 5/15/14 11:22 PM, CresIsis wrote: Also I'm not racist but I'm just not attracted to black people.

how can you say that with a black man in office

At 5/16/14 12:14 AM, Drinze wrote: I am genuinely considering suicide because I think I might be bisexual.

Why? Due to you being against it yourself and not wanting to accept it, or because society where you are looks down on it?

At 5/16/14 12:14 AM, Drinze wrote: I am genuinely considering suicide because I think I might be bisexual.

It could be worse, you could get raped and then only can get an erection through rape.

At 5/15/14 11:06 PM, Vnzi wrote: Sexuality is hard to pinpoint and label, really. I mean I'm a lesbian, but there were times where I was dumb enough that I dated a few guys, but I still think of myself as a lesbian.

If you feel something for men and can find them sexually attractive, then you're not lesbian. You can think you're a horse, but that won't make you a horse, just like thinking you're lesbian won't make you a lesbian.

If you get attracted by both sexes then you're probably bisexual, but I assume it would be just easier for you to say everyone else you're lesbian in order to get the chicks and push away the guys you apparently despise of. Perhaps because you lacked a male role model while you were on early stage of growth. Perhaps your dad died, run away, or was just total dick to you and your mom. I know your type, and I can even imagine how you would look, and I just wanted you to know that today you're going nowhere. You need to change your life a little in order to be really happy in life. Of course I don't expect you to take that seriously since you think I'm some kind of racist clown, which I surely am, but it's not all I am.

At 5/16/14 12:24 AM, Drinze wrote:

At 5/16/14 12:16 AM, CresIsis wrote:

At 5/16/14 12:14 AM, Drinze wrote: I am genuinely considering suicide because I think I might be bisexual.

Why? Due to you being against it yourself and not wanting to accept it, or because society where you are looks down on it?

I'm not really against it. I just don't want to accept it.

At 5/16/14 12:21 AM, Boomstick wrote: It could be worse, you could get raped and then only can get an erection through rape.

wicked meme

oh of course, i feel the exact same way. both part that society "looks down" on it (they don't - it's just in our heads and part of the caste of sexualities) and that it feels like it's a personal shame to enjoy what you want to enjoy and can't really have it

trust me bro, always on the fence but just not curious enough to see what it's like without the looking glass.

or something, fuck

At 5/16/14 12:56 AM, Vnzi wrote:

At 5/16/14 12:46 AM, Makakaov wrote: If you feel something for men and can find them sexually attractive, then you're not lesbian.

What if I don't find them attractive anymore? And the reason why I dated a few guys was basically experimenting and/or stupidity, just to see how it felt and everything. I can safely say I am not attracted to them anymore, but I did have that phase.

Then it's still somewhere in you. You just don't nurse it.

Perhaps because you lacked a male role model while you were on early stage of growth.

I beg of you not to go this route, usually anyone who takes the Freud route either don't know what Freud was talking about in the first place or only focus on Freud's very sexist ways of thinking. He was very progressive for his views on homosexuality, but he isn't the best.

1. This route is good, talking from experience.

2. I know what Freud was talking about and I mostly disagree with him

3. I was imposing the father scenario because you're independent wannabe type, not because you say you're lesbian.

I still think you are a sexist person, but I don't turn down intelligent discussion. Unless it goes to nowhere or the other side decides to be a complete asshole. So far you've been doing good here.

Yes, I am sexist.

At 5/16/14 12:56 AM, Vnzi wrote:

At 5/16/14 12:46 AM, Makakaov wrote: Perhaps because you lacked a male role model while you were on early stage of growth.

... anyone who takes the Freud route

Careful Vnzi, he's throwing "Freud" out... I smell a...

Oh. nevermind.

What about people who are sexually attracted only to inanimate objects? What about hermaphrodites? I mean there are tons of sexualities that are ignored by those who would box everything in to some gay/straight binary.

To those pushing the gay/straight binary, what would you call someone who was attracted to, say, trains and only trains? They're not gay because trains have no gender. They're not straight because trains have no gender. They're not asexual because they have sexual attraction. Checkmate.

At 5/16/14 02:41 AM, NeonSpider wrote: What about people who are sexually attracted only to inanimate objects? What about hermaphrodites? I mean there are tons of sexualities that are ignored by those who would box everything in to some gay/straight binary.

To those pushing the gay/straight binary, what would you call someone who was attracted to, say, trains and only trains? They're not gay because trains have no gender. They're not straight because trains have no gender. They're not asexual because they have sexual attraction. Checkmate.

Lol what checkmate? This is a discussion thread about sexuality, I never put up any boundaries, I just didn't name every single possible scenario. I wouldn't care if a person wanted to fuck shit and only shit.

At 5/16/14 02:48 AM, CresIsis wrote:

At 5/16/14 02:41 AM, NeonSpider wrote: What about people who are sexually attracted only to inanimate objects? What about hermaphrodites? I mean there are tons of sexualities that are ignored by those who would box everything in to some gay/straight binary.

To those pushing the gay/straight binary, what would you call someone who was attracted to, say, trains and only trains? They're not gay because trains have no gender. They're not straight because trains have no gender. They're not asexual because they have sexual attraction. Checkmate.

Lol what checkmate? This is a discussion thread about sexuality, I never put up any boundaries, I just didn't name every single possible scenario. I wouldn't care if a person wanted to fuck shit and only shit.

My apologies if you thought that post was directed to you. It wasn't. There were a few posters pushing the gay/straight binary and it was directed to those.

Sexuality discussion is fine and I didn't say that you put up any boundaries.

At 5/16/14 03:38 AM, NeonSpider wrote: My apologies if you thought that post was directed to you. It wasn't. There were a few posters pushing the gay/straight binary and it was directed to those.

Sexuality discussion is fine and I didn't say that you put up any boundaries.

Cheers mate.