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I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 15:10:37 Reply

At lunch today, a friend of mine was sitting next to me with her phone out. She was bored, doing some homework. So I decided to play around with her and jokingly try to guess the combination to get into her phone. So after the third try, the phone locked out (it unlocks after a minute or so and you can try again).

So she snatched it from me and started to cry and called me an asshole. She wasn't acting strange before, and she never acts like that, I don't know what happened.

My friend said she's on her period, but I don't know anything about that stuff. I'm a sophomore and I've never received any sex education or anything, can someone please fill me in on all this stuff? I'm really confused and kind of scared.


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 15:17:05 Reply

At 4/9/14 03:10 PM, exudaz wrote: At lunch today, a friend of mine was sitting next to me with her phone out. She was bored, doing some homework. So I decided to play around with her and jokingly try to guess the combination to get into her phone. So after the third try, the phone locked out (it unlocks after a minute or so and you can try again).

So she snatched it from me and started to cry and called me an asshole. She wasn't acting strange before, and she never acts like that, I don't know what happened.

My friend said she's on her period, but I don't know anything about that stuff. I'm a sophomore and I've never received any sex education or anything, can someone please fill me in on all this stuff? I'm really confused and kind of scared.

Do that often and you'll just be acting like an asshole, but if it's not often then she might have overreacted with the period claim. It's just a phone lock, remember.

Problems, problems. I've never seen anything that dramatic, but I guess it happens.


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 15:32:36 Reply

Exudaz, how dare you opress your friend and call her behaviour abnormal? She can cry and call you an asshole if she wants, it's what the equality is all about.

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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 15:52:49 Reply

At 4/9/14 03:10 PM, exudaz wrote: At lunch today, a friend of mine was sitting next to me with her phone out. She was bored, doing some homework. So I decided to play around with her and jokingly try to guess the combination to get into her phone. So after the third try, the phone locked out (it unlocks after a minute or so and you can try again).

So she snatched it from me and started to cry and called me an asshole. She wasn't acting strange before, and she never acts like that, I don't know what happened.

My friend said she's on her period, but I don't know anything about that stuff. I'm a sophomore and I've never received any sex education or anything, can someone please fill me in on all this stuff? I'm really confused and kind of scared.

Her hormones are wild around this time, even with no sex ed, you have to know that, don't you have biology? I learned this stuff when i was in the 7th or 8th grade.
Just beware that a lot of women use that excuse for stuff.

Guy: You just killed your mom? What the hell Sarah!
Sarah: I'm on my period, give me a break.

But basically each girl has different reactions, some feel pain because of the cramps and they get moody, some don't feel pain at all and act normal.
It's weird and if this is your first experience with an angry girl on her period, you're in for a ride.

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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 15:53:08 Reply

We all have bad days. Nothing beats a good apology, either. Just sayin'.


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 16:09:05 Reply

At 4/9/14 03:52 PM, Radaketor wrote: Guy: You just killed your mom? What the hell Sarah!
Sarah: I'm on my period, give me a break.

post of the year?


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 16:11:55 Reply

She may not have realized how quickly the phone unlocks and thought you'd made it so she couldn't use it. People can get really touchy about their phones nowadays. Or she could have just been in a bad mood for any number of reasons, which is something that happens to everyone and isn't exclusively caused by periods, for fuck's sake.

Or maybe she just don't like people playin' on her phone.


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 18:42:08 Reply

Three words, first world problems. I have a friend who's phone I've locked for ten minutes before to mess with her and she kind of acted like it was the end of the world. I bet that period excuse had nothing to do with it because I wouldn't be surprised if she's one of those people who are way too attached to their phone.

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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 18:54:18 Reply

At 4/9/14 06:42 PM, DeftonesFan665 wrote: Three words, first world problems. I have a friend who's phone I've locked for ten minutes before to mess with her and she kind of acted like it was the end of the world. I bet that period excuse had nothing to do with it because I wouldn't be surprised if she's one of those people who are way too attached to their phone.

Are you sure? She was crying as if a relative died or something, for a good twenty or so seconds.


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 18:55:56 Reply

"Three words, first world problems."

Screw off with that pseudo intellectual garbage persona.


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 18:57:09 Reply

At 4/9/14 06:55 PM, GrizzlyOne wrote: "Three words, first world problems."

Screw off with that pseudo intellectual garbage persona.

Wait, are you telling me to screw off with it, or her/


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 18:59:42 Reply

Probably had nudes on there or something. No big deal.

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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 20:03:37 Reply

At 4/9/14 06:54 PM, exudaz wrote:
At 4/9/14 06:42 PM, DeftonesFan665 wrote: I bet that period excuse had nothing to do with it because I wouldn't be surprised if she's one of those people who are way too attached to their phone.
Are you sure? She was crying as if a relative died or something, for a good twenty or so seconds.

Yeah sounds like someone thats too attached to their phone.


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 20:21:38 Reply

At 4/9/14 03:10 PM, exudaz wrote: My friend said she's on her period, but I don't know anything about that stuff. I'm a sophomore and I've never received any sex education or anything, can someone please fill me in on all this stuff? I'm really confused and kind of scared.

That's when you bleed eggs like a pig for a little bit every month. The more you know?


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 20:32:02 Reply

At 4/9/14 06:42 PM, DeftonesFan665 wrote: Three words, first world problems. I have a friend who's phone I've locked for ten minutes before to mess with her and she kind of acted like it was the end of the world. I bet that period excuse had nothing to do with it because I wouldn't be surprised if she's one of those people who are way too attached to their phone.

Or maybe people do not like other people touching their stuff? That seems a lot more likely. It is weird to go around locking other people's phones, and immature.


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 20:47:52 Reply

At 4/9/14 08:32 PM, Zachary wrote:
At 4/9/14 06:42 PM, DeftonesFan665 wrote: Three words, first world problems. I have a friend who's phone I've locked for ten minutes before to mess with her and she kind of acted like it was the end of the world. I bet that period excuse had nothing to do with it because I wouldn't be surprised if she's one of those people who are way too attached to their phone.
Or maybe people do not like other people touching their stuff? That seems a lot more likely. It is weird to go around locking other people's phones, and immature.

Who gets THAT upset about it though if that's really why she started crying? Also, just because people like messing with their friends once in a while doesn't make them immature. Everybody does it, it's a fact of life, man.

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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 20:49:35 Reply

At 4/9/14 08:46 PM, Decimating wrote: What made you think it was a good idea to take her phone and fuck with it in the first place? If you did that to my phone, I'd call you an asshole as well.

I never knew waiting one minute to use your phone was such a huge deal these days. The more you know, I guess.

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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 20:50:17 Reply

At 4/9/14 08:47 PM, DeftonesFan665 wrote: Also, just because people like messing with their friends once in a while doesn't make them immature. Everybody does it, it's a fact of life, man.

Everyone has their own lines that you can cross though. If someone locked up my phone I'd be pretty pissed that they fucked with my stuff.

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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 22:27:58 Reply

Shit, don't worry, man. This kind of shit happens all of the time.

Girls can't handle themselves when dumb shit happens to them. Not all girls, of course, but some. Just try not to do it again and don't feel like an asshole. Her reaction was her choice, not yours. You're not responsible for her actions. I went through my entire life thinking the way people reacted to things I did was my fault. Let me tell you, when you realize that somebody's actions are not your fault, life becomes so much better.


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Response to I need some help, I'm so confused 2014-04-09 22:36:18 Reply

Let's see, if you mess with someone's phone, and cause it to be locked because you were messing around with it, she has every right to be pissed. I would think that it would be pretty obvious considering that people would be upset if someone was trying to skulk around their personal belongings.


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