Ladyness

[WiiFittoToreinaa]

Just list some things that you see girls do that you find unlady like.

[Xenomit]

My girlfriend dominates me in non-sexual ways

To my knowledge, that's generally unladylike

[koopahermit]

At 4/5/14 01:12 AM, Xenomit wrote: My girlfriend dominates me in non-sexual ways

To my knowledge, that's generally unladylike

Give her a dragon strap-on and have her dominate you in sexual ways too.

[DM692]

Excessively loud belching. Not that I like hearing that out of men, either.

[DM692]

At 4/5/14 01:24 AM, DM692 wrote: Excessively loud belching. Not that I like hearing that out of men, either.

Well, I mean, unless it's after a few beers. Can't hate a guy for that.

[Darthdenim]

When I'm boning a chick and she tells me to fuck her like a whore.

[Canas]

inb4 droves of sexist misinformed drivel

[kazumazkan]

At 4/5/14 01:12 AM, Xenomit wrote: My girlfriend dominates me in non-sexual ways

To my knowledge, that's generally unladylike

what if i fuck you while she watch's or gives you a blow job

[Plymouth58]

Smoking is very unattractive in my opinion.

[Xenomit]

At 4/5/14 02:22 AM, kazumazkan wrote:

At 4/5/14 01:12 AM, Xenomit wrote: My girlfriend dominates me in non-sexual ways

To my knowledge, that's generally unladylike

what if i fuck you while she watch's or gives you a blow job

I'm a loyal type, she is too

[kazumazkan]

At 4/5/14 02:25 AM, Xenomit wrote:

At 4/5/14 02:22 AM, kazumazkan wrote:

At 4/5/14 01:12 AM, Xenomit wrote: My girlfriend dominates me in non-sexual ways

To my knowledge, that's generally unladylike

what if i fuck you while she watch's or gives you a blow job

I'm a loyal type, she is too

good to hear then.

[Piggler]

Gender is not a dichotomy and should not be treated as such.

Attributing specific behaviors to a single gender is inherently sexist because it implies that the opposite gender should repress certain parts of themselves for the sake of satisfying the perceived social norm.

However, I know girls who do things that I find particularly gross regardless of gender such as booger picking and flinging, talking about feces incessantly, sending pictures of feces via picture messenger services, and need I go on?

[WiiFittoToreinaa]

At 4/5/14 01:12 AM, Xenomit wrote: My girlfriend dominates me in non-sexual ways

To my knowledge, that's generally unladylike

As in she being the man in the relationship and does the generic male roles in dates?

[Gremlin]

At 4/5/14 01:10 AM, WiiFittoToreinaa wrote: Just list some things that you see girls do that you find unlady like.

When girls say fuck and don't even want to fuck, what the fuck's up with that?

[Boomstick]

spreading themselves full eagle.

[Piggler]

At 4/5/14 03:04 AM, 3DRealms wrote: It's not sexist, girls and guys are different and act a specific way.

You're oversimplifying the issue. You're essentially saying: "that's just how it is" and avoiding doing any thinking.

Humans are raised in and conditioned to a society of only two genders. Being brought up in a strict male or female model by parents leaves little room for self-determination.

Parents buy children their toys based on their gender rather than allowing them to pick what they happen to like best, which shows that the parents, who follow a rigid socially-defined system of gender identification, are imposing that idea of rigid gender roles upon someone else, which obviously violates certain personal freedoms.

Of course, a larger percentage of people happen to naturally fit into one or another of the two historical dichotomous gender molds, and that's fine, but the fact that the people who stray from their "normal" gender identity-as defined by their genitals- are hazed and ridiculed and are forced by essentially every social institution to allow their gender be defined solely by their genitals, which is explicitly repressive.

The point is that any man/woman is capable of doing anything that any woman/man can do so the idea that certain behaviors are strictly feminine or masculine is a completely bullshit method of social control and repression by a patriarchal system that limits autonomy over one's own person and the ability for self-determination. You can't just categorize something as complex as human behavior into two prepackaged interpretations of identity.

[Phobotech]

Pissing when standing up is pretty unlady like. Punching a man in the mouth and not expecting to get hit back is pretty unlady like too.

Other than that, screw the gender polarity.

[Wriggle]

At 4/5/14 01:10 AM, WiiFittoToreinaa wrote: Just list some things that you see girls do that you find unlady like.

I don't really judge women for being "Lady like" I judge them for their lack of logical action/reaction to life situations.

[SubparTony]

At 4/5/14 01:29 AM, Darthdenim wrote: When I'm boning a chick and she tells me to fuck her like a whore.

Makes sense

[zmatt007]

Its not what I find "unlady like" but more of what I find "lady like"

When a girl giggles with their hand over their mouth, I find it fucking adorable. Good manners and always say 'mam and sir'. A gentle and soothing voice. Not a complete bitch all the time (some of the time is fine). Being sassy...I love it when women are sassy. Treats others with due respect until said person starts doing stupid shit. Generally having a sort of shy and innocent outward appearance. Dresses nicely or a nice casual look that suits her. Not being afraid to eat sweets in fear of gaining to much weight...A little chub is always nice, but just a flat stomach seems boring to me.

This is generally what I find lady like. Will I ever find a woman like this? Fuck no. I did once, and of course shes already taken.

[Makakaov]

Anything a woman does in sole company of other women

[NekoMika]

At 4/5/14 02:38 AM, Piggler wrote: Gender is not a dichotomy and should not be treated as such.

Attributing specific behaviors to a single gender is inherently sexist because it implies that the opposite gender should repress certain parts of themselves for the sake of satisfying the perceived social norm.

I really, really like this post.

[Radaketor]

When they start talking about periods and how bad it is i just want to shot myself.
Am i the only one who finds this unladylike?
Sure if i bring the subject up it's my own fault but when i'm eating and they just for no reason at all mention they're on their period i really lose it and try to tune out what she's saying.

[Entice]

Yeah, honestly I can't thing of anything I would only hate if a woman did it.
If I find a behavior gross it applies to everyone even if some men think it's okay for some reason.

[SolXeroEraser]

At 4/5/14 01:10 AM, WiiFittoToreinaa wrote: Just list some things that you see girls do that you find unlady like.

UN lady..like???
What else is an earth girl supposed to do,
NOT be human???

[Viper]

At 4/5/14 02:25 AM, Plymouth58 wrote: Smoking is very unattractive in my opinion.

Yeah I feel the same....same thing goes for drinking.

[Piggler]

At 4/5/14 10:10 AM, 3DRealms wrote: Environment doesn't have everything to do with a person, if anything at all. That's just an excuse.

Tell that to all the oppressed people that live in the projects and see how badly you get your ass kicked. Environment, while not the only factor in personal development, is still a large part. Unless you lived alone in the wilderness without any human interaction for your entire life, you have been influenced by your socioeconomic environment.

Parents buy their children whatever they want to play with, what are you talking about.

You're missing the point. Parents determine what to buy based on their kids gender. Boys automatically get action figures while girls get dolls and stuff. Young children don't decide what they get to play with so their parents purchase toys that fill the correlative gender stereotype. When you're born you either get a blue hat or a pink hat. There are choices kids are too young to make so instead of being neutral, parents just go with whether or not you have a dick.

It's not repressive, it's just common sense to do that.

First of all, I'd like to point out that there is no common sense. Perception is entirely subjective and to think that any sentiments or ideas about anything are shared across the entirety of human consciousness reeks of ignorance. A larger amount of people may perceive and approach things in a similar way, but by no means is it "common".

How are gender-specific institutions NOT oppressive? The most common reminder of institutionalized gender oppression is the existence of public restrooms. People have to deal with it every day and it's a constant source of stress for a lot of people. It's not uncommon for gender-variant people to avoid using restrooms out of a fear of not appropriately fitting the "right" bathroom. Even if they do go into the bathroom there is the reaction of other people in the bathroom who might physically attack, harass, or even call the police to arrest someone that outwardly appears as if they don't belong there. The fact that natural bodily processes are being implicitly discouraged should raise some red flags.

On top of the whole bathroom issue, there is a matter of police strip searches, improper medical practice, employment issues, etc.

But, they are prepackaged into the genetic code, literally.

What does that have to do with identity? We don't make social divisions based on whether or not you're more prone to diabetes or if you have a history of heart disease in your family, so why take genetics so seriously? Your genetics do not define you as a person. People aren't lab mice that you can determine everything about them by their chromosomes. They have complex thoughts and feelings that can't be attributed solely to their DNA.

If anything is social control, it's a gender trying to imitate the opposite sex.

I don't think you understand what social control means. Gender-variants aren't the ones in government enforcing oppressive policies and ideas.

In case you haven't realized, everybody imitates something. People that define themselves as a stereotypical male/female are imitating people that they think of as manly/feminine to at least some extent. It doesn't even stop there. People often decide how they want to be perceived by imitating a stereotypical social identity. For example, when people think about hipsters, they have that general idea of what a stereotypical hipster is and then if they want people to think of them as a hipster, they dress and act in a fashion commonly associated with hipsterism.

The idea is that anyone should be free to take on any form of gender identity they choose and to smash any conventional ideas of social identity and for everyone to just be humans without adjectives.

[Piggler]

At 4/5/14 09:52 PM, 3DRealms wrote: What? I've hung with the people in the projects many times and they don't consider themselves oppressed. We've had some fun times, no ass kicking. Do you even projects bro? There are plenty of successful people who come from nothing and plenty of losers who come from everything.

Not being aware of something doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Indifference is a widespread plague.

I also didn't say that people couldn't overcome their socioeconomic background. It's just that, more often then not, people tend to stay within the class they're born into.

Action figures are dolls. Also, both girls and guys get stuffed animals, and those are pretty feminine.

The point wasn't in the toys themselves. It's the idea that certain toys are marketed to a specific gender and therefore helps coerce parents into reinforcing traditional gender roles.

Parents don't mind if a boy is playing with a barbie really, they don't, if it must be a barbie!

You can't generalize all parenting. Some parents want their kids to be straight as an arrow and definitely mind their sons playing with barbies.

Not sure what I read here.

Maybe you should read it over until you understand it instead of failing to address what was mentioned.

It's a pubic bathroom, if we don't merge the genders we are oppressing?

I never specifically mentioned merging bathrooms, I said it's an oppressive system for those not distinctively male or female.

You're talking crazy now son.

How is it crazy? Did you even try to understand anything I wrote?

No they don't define you but I'm trying to use some logic here and you're complete throwing it out the window.

Instead of replying with weightless one sentence answers, why do you tell me how what I posted is illogical?

Indeed, and who are you trying to imitate? ;)

A lot of people that I respect or admire.

When I mentioned imitation I was referring to it as a sort of base from which to grow into your own unique person.

I don't know what's going on.

Look, if you don't want to debate seriously then don't reply.

[Sensationalism]

oh dear bog you guys.

[Manly-Chicken]

Having a penis.