At 2/3/14 11:51 AM, Jeff-Teh-Great wrote:
I know this is a generalization, but most Asian girls I've known have really traditional parents know who can be downright rude and mean. Most don't even want their daughters to marry someone non-asian, so unless you're Asian your chances are slim.
You're right that they do have traditional parents who are against multi-racial marriage. Honestly, I can't say that they are wrong. Most families don't want someone who isn't of their race to be part of their family. It's not racism, it's just common sense. Now of course, being strict, doesn't mean you can't earn their respect. If I can earn their respect, maybe they will be able to like me, and perhaps they can make me an exception. I mean, the only thing I can do is try.
At 2/3/14 11:25 AM, Entice wrote:
Women are women
I dunno, why don't you try talking to Asian women you fucking racist
You don't have to be an honoorable karate master
I am not racist, I was just asking a question about them, because I really want to know more about them. Now, I know that they have strict families that follow tradition very closely, but that might be able to be overcome. Now, you're right that you don't have to be a "karate master" in order to win them, but if you lack honor, you will never be able to convince the parents to allow their daughter to be with you. Now, as someone who trains in Karate, I follow the code of honor, and I feel it really helps strengthen your inner character and soul. However, an honorable individual would judge a person based on character over anything else, so if the parents had honor in them, they would judge me based on my character, and that is what my best bet would be atm.
At 2/3/14 12:05 PM, NeonSpider wrote:
Do you want advice or do you just want to be told what you've already decided?
Advice would be don't limit yourself to just one race or you might miss that perfect girl for you simply because you weren't looking and she happened not to be Asian.
Asians can be very beautiful and they have cultural value, but the same is true of others as well.
If you're just dead-set on it then learn Japanese and move to Japan already. Then good luck competing with all the other guys who did the same.
My whole life, I dealt with competition. The reason I trained in martial arts, isn't only to improve my physical prowess (though it definitely does help), but also, to strengthen my inner self and soul. The only woman who would accept an honorless and weak character man, is a woman who shares the same traits. A woman who has honor and discipline, would look for a man who shares both of those characteristics in them. Obviously, competition is everywhere, so no doubt, I will have to work hard to convince her that I am the better man than all the others who I am competing against. It doesn't necessarily mean I have to be the strongest or most skilled martial artist, because truth be told, I do it just as a hobby. I just need to prove, that I have confidence, that my soul is stronger than all other guys that is going after her, and that I am willing to push my limits higher than anyone else.
Beyond this, I don't know what else to do. I am not good with relationship stuff, so I lack the fundamentals. Now, I truly believe that winning the heart of a magnificent and traditional Asian woman, is much different than say, getting laid with a blonde in your typical high school, as they are both fundamentally different. However, I am still interested in hearing the fundamental advice, for this relationship stuff, because all of this never occurred to me before, and I never did it in my life. I guess that is what I meant, when I was asking for advice. Sorry for the confusion.
