18 Year Old Virgin

[vicho95]

I'm 18 years old and whatever girls like, it seems i don't have it. I've never had a girlfriend and i'm starting to get a little worried.
I am not that bad looking, except I am short as fuck (5'3"). What should I do to get a girl, start a relationship and start fucking?

[Insateddii]

You should get a few friends together and hit a few clubs or bars

[Earfetish]

I lost my v-card at the ripe old age of 19. I had kissed a lot of girls and can think of two girls I could easily have had sex with before I was 19, but I just didn't want to. I don't really know why, but I would guess I didn't feel fully at ease with them. But by the age of 18, when I started uni, I was certainly self-conscious about the fact that I was a virgin. I considered myself unappealing to women at the time, but in retrospect I just never found anyone I felt at ease with. Perhaps the former was easier to deal with than the latter.

Then I found someone I felt at ease with (and I wasn't particularly looking at the time) and lost my virginity. We split up after only about four months (on good terms), but that was long enough for me to get the taste for sex and get over any hang-ups. And I spent the next two years desperately trying to get laid again. And now with a lovely girlfriend of over four years, I think a sexual relationship adds a lot to my life.

[JellyTea]

At 12/17/13 05:38 PM, vicho95 wrote: whatever girls like, it seems i don't have it.

It's probably your height, tbh.
Either way, you're still really young and should probably focus on other things instead.
.

[Ron-Geno]

If you're just trying to stick your dick in a human female vagina?
Lower your standards.
Worst case, break out the Benjamins @ a strip club.

If you're actually trying to start a relationship with a woman?
- date more. (ask more girls on dates. Prepare your anus for rejection, for there will be lots of it)
- one woman will see something about you and agree to go out on a date with you; just enjoy the date.
- if it works? Cool, schedule another one. It doesn't? Welp, your back to the first point.

[Sequenced]

It's okay. I'm 20 and still haven't done much with the ladies.

I recommend using this time to really figure out who you are. Also, from what I've seen, if you want a relationship to last, it generally has to happen naturally. Can't force it.

At 18 I couldn't possibly think about dating because I was just about to start college.

You still got time.

[Sekhem]

good luck, dude

[Scarface]

I'm a virgin at 18 as well, though (and I know people will call bullshit on this) it's by choice and not for any religious reasons. I'm no model, but I don't have a particularly hard time attracting people. Honestly, I just haven't met anyone I'm comfortable enough with to be in a serious relationship or have sex.

I wouldn't worry too much about it if I were you. If there's someone you want to be with, don't hesitate or feel to nervous, just go for it. If you're not ready, don't feel pressured to lose your virginity at a certain age, wait until you feel ready.

[Stretchysumo]

Just stop putting ass on a pedestal. Maybe you'll get laid someday, maybe you'll die a virgin, but if you stop caring it won't seem so bad. You could hit up Craigslist, but that's 90% gay dudes and 10% betas looking for gf, so you'd have to learn to love the D.

[Ron-Geno]

You could be like me and lose your virginity to an unforgiving bitch.

Or you could listen to these other guys and take your time.

(right answer: latter option)

[Piper]

Oh, you're taller than me. Ain't that something? Don't stress yourself over it man. I was nineteen when I finally did the horizontal dance.

[AxTekk]

Don't sweat it dude, you'll find someone. I have lots of friends who are my age (19, 20) and haven't had sex. These aren't unattractive guys either, they just haven't found the right moment. They're just as funny and witty and adult as anyone. Plus, sex is kinda over-rated. Good sex is GREAT but standard one night, stick your dick in missionary sex... meh, kinda take it or leave it. I actually prefer a good night jacking off at my own pace.

But yeah, if you really just want to bust a nut, lower your standards. You might regret it though.

[Viper]

At 12/17/13 05:59 PM, Sequenced wrote: It's okay. I'm 20 and still haven't done much with the ladies.

*sighs*
Same here.....I'm going to be 21 in March ._.

[Freaki-boy92]

i was a virgin until i was 20, i could have gone longer to be honest. there's no rush dude.

[ImlunchBoxx]

get a hooker its still fucking

[Slint]

At 12/17/13 06:20 PM, PiperAnn wrote: Oh, you're taller than me. Ain't that something? Don't stress yourself over it man. I was nineteen when I finally did the horizontal dance.

Are you a midget?

[zmatt007]

Wow you must feel like a real sack of shit. Being at the old age of 18 and still a virgin.

Seriously. What the fuck man. What is there to be ashamed of? Were you expecting to have sex at like 15 or something? Because I'll go ahead and tell ya, your first time is going to be horrible. Unless of course its with a girl you actually care about and are together on an emotional level. Then it will be romantic love making.

The last thing you need to be worried about is sex. It's not a competition man. In my mind, the less girls you fuck the better. Since I myself like to be clean of any diseases. Although other guys who are just sex mongrels wouldn't give two shits, throwing their dicks at whatever spreads its legs at your age.

Get your life nice and straightened out. Because the last thing you want is to be 18, have sex, and have a baby junior coming in 9 months leaving the rest of your life potentially screwed unless your extremely lucky.

[o0-0o]

TINDER!

[Piper]

At 12/17/13 08:00 PM, Slint wrote:

At 12/17/13 06:20 PM, PiperAnn wrote: Oh, you're taller than me. Ain't that something? Don't stress yourself over it man. I was nineteen when I finally did the horizontal dance.

Are you a midget?

Nope. But if I was, I hope you'd love me just the same.

[Viper]

At 12/17/13 08:39 PM, PiperAnn wrote: Nope. But if I was, I hope you'd love me just the same.

No. Who could ever love a midget!

i'm kidding ._. i'd be indifferent.

[mechadude32]

I'll buy you a whore for Christmas, don't worry.
I promise, she's one of them high-class whores too.

[zephyo]

dude, don't worry, you could be a late bloomer. My whole family is pretty attractive but they never got asked out until their early 20s for some reason.

And I would save my v card for college. Girls love virgin guys in college, they're like this extinct species.

[Piper]

At 12/17/13 08:46 PM, Viper50 wrote: No. Who could ever love a midget!

i'm kidding ._. i'd be indifferent.

Heheh. Yeah, man. Halflings are the shit. Especially the Jerren.

[Piggler]

Being a virgin is only a bad thing if you're abomination to the eyeballs.

Virgins are sought after by both genders.

[Viper]

At 12/17/13 10:04 PM, PiperAnn wrote: Heheh. Yeah, man. Halflings are the shit. Especially the Jerren.

I've never played D&D so I had no idea what any of that meant til I looked it up ._.

[GoryBlizzard]

I was a virgin when I was 18 too. That changed the following year. A lot of people in the standard college age group are virgins and you shouldn't feel too weird until you're 30 and still haven't gotten any. Just play your cards right.

[poxpower]

What job will you have later in life?
If you're 5'3 then you are definitely short for a guy and women do care about this. If you plan on having a lucrative career, be sure to hold off on serious long-term relationships or at least not settle.

Nyway the good news is that only you really give a shit about being a virgin. If it bothers you that much, try online dating. It's pretty risk-free, not that time-consuming and you'll probably get a couple dates unless you're hideous. 18 year old girls are stupid. Pretty much everyone under 23-25 is kind of an idiot at life. So more good news for you.

Lastly, get in shape. You will improve your fitness, make your circle of friends larger, look better and have more confidence, all of which help getting women.

[Kwing]

You can have my v-card if you want.

[venturequestlord]

At 12/17/13 05:38 PM, vicho95 wrote: I'm 18 years old and whatever girls like, it seems i don't have it. I've never had a girlfriend and i'm starting to get a little worried.
I am not that bad looking, except I am short as fuck (5'3"). What should I do to get a girl, start a relationship and start fucking?

I am 6.1, 18 y/o, slender bodied (Male), 6 pack abbs (that show little), am a bonified chick magnet and body weight is at 63 ~ 68KG, so what if your short, but that doesn't have to stop you from getting social in life. I'd say go to the BMI index and check your assigned weight and just maintain it at that, do work out, if your really worried and would like to go to extremes, take a height supplement and do chin ups. Had my virginity lost to a succubus..., wasn't fun for me, but she enjoyed it I guess..., sometimes both of us :'( damn she was hot one awesome goddess of beauty and arousal..,*remembers horrible traumatic times, but likes it* (not going to count this as losing virginity). Anyways to the POINT: trust me you wouldn't want all that attention, its like your under surveillance and its a pain having group of girls approaching you and testing you. I'd say is a LOT better to be lucky enough to have a girl that visits once a year for a few months (then it can just get romantic, with little bit of dates, kissing and teasing) that way a relationship stays fresh. And wait to lose your virginity until you get married, it is the right thing to do and is called honesty to your partner. But if you do find a succubus, i'm warning you she will suck you dry and later on leave you, making you wanting more but it might never happen again...

[ZeroAsALimit]

Well, the main thing to do is stop worrying. I'm 26 now and I'm still a virgin too.