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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 07:11 PM Reply

At 3/31/13 07:04 PM, DevourerJay wrote: Sorry that your mother is so closed minded, however good for you, wish you good luck in your endeavor!

most parents dont want gay children, not even most gay couples do
like it or not, thats the way it is. if you cant understand the other, maybe you are the close minded


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 07:22 PM Reply

p.d:

At 3/31/13 07:05 PM, tox wrote:
IF you are attracted to the feelings of others like aliens, or humanoid creatures like that of a anime character or a furry.. or ... ... other things that are not necessarily something that you can touch.. like an internet relationship with someone half way around the world.. that is a small part of a pansexual...

not according to wikipedia, as it doesnt include underage and lamps. it just defines pansexuality as liking the 2 genres and the weird combinations of those

i was interested because i would fuck anime, furries, underaged, aliens, robots, etc. but not a trannies

interesting fact: "pan" means "bread" in spanish


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 07:49 PM Reply

At 6 minuets ago, The-Great-One wrote:
Congratulations to you for coming completely out of the closet, but you need to sit down with your
mother and talk to her. I guarantee that your day and your mom have already talked about you. To live in
doubt and fear of what if is not a place to be, I've been there for years now.
At 4 minutes ago, tox wrote:
sadly.. she has denied that to me because she will not even talk to me about it, and when i or my sister : or my father try to talk to her about it she states that she is not ready to talk about it...
its been 2 weeks now and all that she has done is not talk to me and treat me like i dont either exist or
that i need to be something that i am not
so, this is me, standing up for me, and saying that if she cant accept me, i will find acceptance
somewhere else
is that wrong?
At 2 minuets ago The-Great-One wrote:
No that is not wrong. Now that the story is given in full I understand more now. I will say that you
should not show anger towards your mother, but pity. That due to her not understanding or having an open mind that she would lose a son.

sadly this all started when my mother cornered my sister unknowenly at a family outing, to a resteraunt...
the conversation went to an idea of Eric, the star child, the one that keeps his shit together, the oldest son... was volunteering at a LGBT group and if she skew anything about it
(at this point i have avoided telling my mother about being pan.. because i was not ready to tell her just yet)
and my sister sumerizes her ideas with the idea that, anyone can love anyone, it is their choice, love is about love, and love can go anywhere...
the conversation continues and she tattles off "all the other kinds of people that can go there from:

Two spirit, transgender, transsexual, intersex, asexual, gender neutral, pansexual, genderqueer, intergender, androgynous, unisex, queer, questioning, lesbian, gay, bisexual, dyke

and she wanted to know again if she knew anything
at this point my sister is quiet and my mom drops the idea that:

you are either straight or gay, there is nothing in between, anything that is in between is either confused or wrong or have yet to chose

its all fucked up i guess


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 07:53 PM Reply

It's very common to react badly at first and be shocked and all that.
She may come around and be really awesome about it after she gets her feelings worked out. Don't despair, it may get better.


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 09:30 PM Reply

That really sucks. I was blessed to have parents that didn't care that I was bi/pansexual what I wouldn't give to slap some sense into that mother of yours.

Let me guess all she can say now is "You don't know what you mean, you're confused. You're not really bi there is no such thing"

That sorta bigoted crap, doing anything to convince herself that her son is not into uys at all and he does not know whats good?


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 09:34 PM Reply

At 3/31/13 09:01 PM, AnonymousOfCali wrote: if i was ur dad i would have beat u up

XD

At 3/31/13 09:30 PM, fuzzum111 wrote:

Let me guess all she can say now is "You don't know what you mean, you're confused. You're not really bi there is no such thing"

wow, you really do get people


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 09:40 PM Reply

Goof for you man, just don't make this thing a soap opera you'll be fine.

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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 09:41 PM Reply

At 3/31/13 09:34 PM, kakalxlax wrote:
At 3/31/13 09:01 PM, AnonymousOfCali wrote: if i was ur dad i would have beat u up
XD

At 3/31/13 09:30 PM, fuzzum111 wrote:

Let me guess all she can say now is "You don't know what you mean, you're confused. You're not really bi there is no such thing"
wow, you really do get people

Are you just like..insulting me to be a cockbag, or are you being sincere? I ca't tell. We've yet to invent a sarcasm text font.


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 09:51 PM Reply

I'm not against gay/bisexual/ or what you call pansexual people. But I will say like a lot of people out there I am against those types of relationships and 'marriages'. In this way I am probably like your mother as finding out someone has an attraction to the same sex is startling and I probably would be treating that person kind of different after finding out, especially if they were my son. But being shown proof they have been in a relationship like bringing your friend over would be enough to get me angry like your mother.
This is a highly controversial issue in society today and it is NOTHING like anything people have fought about before. Because anyone could have or develop different sexual preferences. Its not like minorities or women fighting for rights because in this case these laws effect EVERYONE.
I just wanted to say people like me (and probably your mother) just want to defend what we see as a natural and moral view on relationships. I understand people can have different sexual attractions but anyone can have these temptations and its just something that must be pushed aside (IMO). If you want you can PM me and i will explain why i disagree with same-sex or 'pansexual' marriages and relationships. I wont post it here because it is even more unrelated then the second half of my post.

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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 09:55 PM Reply

Wow, It must be hard to come out to your family. I'm straight, but if I wasn't, my Dad would probably boot my ass out of the house immediately.


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 10:00 PM Reply

pwnd

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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 10:23 PM Reply

At 3/31/13 05:41 PM, tox wrote:
not having a great day :.(

Wanna talk about it, champ?

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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 10:42 PM Reply

At 3/31/13 09:41 PM, fuzzum111 wrote:
At 3/31/13 09:34 PM, kakalxlax wrote:
At 3/31/13 09:01 PM, AnonymousOfCali wrote: if i was ur dad i would have beat u up
XD

At 3/31/13 09:30 PM, fuzzum111 wrote:

Let me guess all she can say now is "You don't know what you mean, you're confused. You're not really bi there is no such thing"
wow, you really do get people
Are you just like..insulting me to be a cockbag, or are you being sincere? I ca't tell. We've yet to invent a sarcasm text font.

oh yes, i get the sarcasm font issue very well
no, i wasnt being sarcastic. according to what you said you just see people who disagrees with you as monsters who act without motivations. and your hate (or violence tendencies) towards them are as big as the one you think they have against you.
point being, all "activists" who defend a concept so violently are the same shit.
people who hate those who dont accept gays = those who dont accept gays
and thats what you get when human nature and emotions get in the way, just let logic and science do the talking


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 10:49 PM Reply

Remember to leave a few un pleasant surprises around the house when you move out.

Asshattery is always repayed with more.

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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 10:53 PM Reply

Im sorry, hopefully your housemate is really cool, I want a really cool house mate. I like apartments, I want a studio apartment if I live alone...Mmm studio apartments....Those are my favorite kind of apartment for solo living. Just wish the ones around here weren't so expensive, which I feel is the exact opposite of the intent.
Slightly off topic but still, studio apartments are rad.


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 10:54 PM Reply

At 3/31/13 10:49 PM, Shade wrote: Remember to leave a few un pleasant surprises around the house when you move out.

Asshattery is always repayed with more.

ohhh the irony


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 10:57 PM Reply

At 3/31/13 10:54 PM, kakalxlax wrote:
At 3/31/13 10:49 PM, Shade wrote: Remember to leave a few unpleasant surprises around the house when you move out.

Asshattery is always repayed with more.
ohhh the irony

Sarcasm?

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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 11:39 PM Reply

Before you go, Steal everything of value.


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 11:56 PM Reply

It's hard, but I think it was the right decision. It wasn't going to be a very good place to live with the kind of toxic (no pun intended) atmosphere that your mother seems to be bestowing in the house.

Hopefully sometime down the road, she'll come to her senses and gets over it, and loves you as you are instead of her vision of the "perfect son".


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 11:57 PM Reply

At 3/31/13 09:51 PM, Omegeist wrote: I just wanted to say people like me (and probably your mother) just want to defend what we see as a natural and moral view on relationships. I understand people can have different sexual attractions but anyone can have these temptations and its just something that must be pushed aside

Lmfao guys relationships morality hahahahahaha


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Response to toxie is moving out Mar. 31st, 2013 @ 11:59 PM Reply

At 3/31/13 09:51 PM, Omegeist wrote:
I just wanted to say people like me (and probably your mother) just want to defend what we see as a natural and moral view on relationships. I understand people can have different sexual attractions but anyone can have these temptations and its just something that must be pushed aside (IMO).

Sure, them anti-gay camps work like a charm, eh?


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Response to toxie is moving out Apr. 1st, 2013 @ 01:15 AM Reply

UPDATE!!

the only thing tieing me to this house was the car that i wanted to save up some money to simply pay out for...

well my mom without knowing that the stupid car was the only thing tieing me to this place, told me tonight that the car was reverting to her full control and that if i want to i can drive it periodically.. and then with her consent..

so... next month is not going to happen..
im gone by wednesday

pictures to follow i guess


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Response to toxie is moving out Apr. 1st, 2013 @ 01:30 AM Reply

This is a sad story but I can totally relate, my mother is very similar to yours.

At 4/1/13 01:15 AM, tox wrote: UPDATE!!

the only thing tieing me to this house was the car that i wanted to save up some money to simply pay out for...

well my mom without knowing that the stupid car was the only thing tieing me to this place, told me tonight that the car was reverting to her full control and that if i want to i can drive it periodically.. and then with her consent..

She very well knows it ties you to the place, her actually. It's her only form of control she has left over you and is using it to her advantage. That's your problem to figure out.

so... next month is not going to happen..
im gone by wednesday

I think that's the best idea, and seems you should be fine since you have steady income.

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Response to toxie is moving out Apr. 1st, 2013 @ 02:21 AM Reply

I guess you can only hope she changes her views on these things.

And assuming she isn't a strong Christian its very likely she eventually will.


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Response to toxie is moving out Apr. 1st, 2013 @ 02:27 AM Reply

well ya better get at er buddy

my parents dont like k so i havent spoke to them for a few years

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Response to toxie is moving out Apr. 1st, 2013 @ 02:30 AM Reply

Peach is right on the mark.

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Response to toxie is moving out Apr. 1st, 2013 @ 02:37 AM Reply

At 3/31/13 09:51 PM, Omegeist wrote: NO GAY MARRIAGE! YOU'RE PROBABLY CONFUSED!

Pretty sure this is a troll!


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Response to toxie is moving out Apr. 1st, 2013 @ 02:53 AM Reply

I'm sorry for your problems tox, but this is precisely why I find it much much easier to just not mention it to my parents


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Response to toxie is moving out Apr. 1st, 2013 @ 03:07 AM Reply

At 4/1/13 02:53 AM, Xenomit wrote: I'm sorry for your problems tox, but this is precisely why I find it much much easier to just not mention it to my parents

yeah well....
i tried to allow them to share in my life


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Response to toxie is moving out Apr. 1st, 2013 @ 03:42 AM Reply

Note to reader...

Moving out is stressful
I have to get up in 3 ish hours for work and i cant even stop thinking about all this shit...


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