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Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 17:47:11 Reply

If you think this is a goodbye thread about me leaving I'm terribly sorry I'm not leaving.
This thread is about saying goodbye to a friend.
My best friend Tony left for basic training this morning.
I've been very sad the last week cause he'll be gone for at least three months.
Now, I know I sound selfish but I miss the Hell out of him already.
I do understand that thing could be much worse as in he could be dead.
So NG have you guys had friends that have left for a long time?
How did you deal with it?

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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 17:49:46 Reply

What are friends?


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 17:52:13 Reply

Nooo

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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 17:52:54 Reply

Wish him the best of luck.

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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 17:53:12 Reply

At 3/5/13 05:49 PM, Grotty wrote: What are friends?

It's a TV show about people who can barely tolerate being around each other yet hang out anyways.
I never saw it but I've heard good things about it.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qFoEFwtaA28


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 17:59:38 Reply

Yeah, as a matter of fact friends just keep disappearing, going to study abroad, getting a job someplace remote, just... moving. But then I've also moved plenty myself, so there's been a lot of goodbyes. Through Internet they are never really that far away though, just a screen away!

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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 18:03:08 Reply

There should be some way for you to keep contact with him. I have a friend who has been in Germany for quite a few months and we still talk regularly.

When he comes home for a break hopefully he will contact you and you guys can get back in touch.


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 18:07:08 Reply

SO NOONE TOLD YOU LIFE WAS GONNA BE THIS WAY


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 18:08:11 Reply

Well, good luck to him in Basic then. My older brother went through the Navy's ROTC training (while in law school), and he said it's tougher than enlisted training...so best of luck to him!


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 18:08:26 Reply

My best friend left for 4 months once, for his job.
Sometimes i thought how he was doing. But life just goes on.
It was pretty awesome when he came back though.


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 18:40:12 Reply

At 3/5/13 06:07 PM, Lemonardo wrote: SO NOONE TOLD YOU LIFE WAS GONNA BE THIS WAY

Actual lyrics from the song:
''So no one told you life was going to be this way.''
Two verses later
''Your mother warned you there'd be days like these''

WHAT?!


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 18:43:20 Reply

At 3/5/13 05:49 PM, Grotty wrote: What are friends?

Something I have few of because of social anxiety and shyness.

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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 19:15:37 Reply

Good luck to your friend.

\At 3/5/13 05:47 PM, Schizo-Sephy wrote:

So NG have you guys had friends that have left for a long time?

I don't have friends that would be leaving for a long time.
Since I have no friends IRL ._.
Just passing acquaintances. And even then they're few and far between.


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 19:26:54 Reply

"I can't say goodbye..."
"Say hola, it can mean hello and goodbye"
- Lila and Stitch


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-05 20:12:29 Reply

At 3/5/13 05:59 PM, Cyberdevil wrote: ...Through Internet they are never really that far away though, just a screen away!

Can't deny that hanging out in the flesh has a charm that can't be matched digitally.

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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-06 01:19:02 Reply

It sucks that you won't see him, but just imagine this- when he gets back, he won't be the same. You two can pretend nothing has changed, but things have. You'll slowly drift out of touch and you'll find yourself two years later drinking shots alone at home in the dark while looking at an old picture of you two hanging out when you were young.

That's life. Sometimes it feels like everyone is slowly moving forward, and I'm just standing right here.

Watching them drift away.

Fuck life.


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-06 03:36:18 Reply

At 3/5/13 08:12 PM, silico wrote: Can't deny that hanging out in the flesh has a charm that can't be matched digitally.

Yeah, nothing can match real life meetings, not even Skype.

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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-06 03:56:35 Reply

Almost all of my friends have gone away to study or work in another town or somewhere abroad, so yeah I know how you feel.


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-06 04:22:29 Reply

i thout u lovered me FFFFF


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-06 04:23:58 Reply

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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-06 05:39:06 Reply

At 3/5/13 05:47 PM, Schizo-Sephy wrote: How did you deal with it?

Tried to do stuff to take him off my mind.


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Response to Saying goodbye 2013-03-06 06:16:05 Reply

I'm here to introduce myself... I'm SlickNorman.


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