For a long time, I thought people with huge egos were offensive, so I kind of adopted the exact opposite. Being way too modest. Soft-spoken as to try not to be a loud-mouth. Courteous as to not appear disingenuous.
You know what doing these things has done? Nothing but confuse the shit out of people. Most people are loud and opinionated. If one thing upsets me, it is a person who backs up all his bullshit with anger and screaming. They don't have a clue in the world, and have these really uneducated opinions and preferences. But they actually have people who agree with them based on that illogical anger. When someone stands up and screams about dumb shit, it melts the hearts of gorgeous dumb women, and cements the friendships of other loud mouth people.