At 2/17/13 01:58 AM, Entice wrote:
At 2/17/13 01:42 AM, tox wrote:
Right, but there's nothing about the definition of bi that says that they can't be more personality focused in the first place, so pan is just redundant.
I guess I don't care about gender identity so if you that makes me pan then okay, I just think it's a redundant label and bi is easier. Some people already have a hard time understanding when I say that I'm bi (yes they're that stupid) so I don't know how the fuck I'd be able to carry that label around anyways.
well if you dont care about gender identity then you simply are who you wish to be either labeled as, or not labeled as, and that in a lot of situations makes the difusal of stupid hit home really fast.. they ask you, hey what are you, straight, homo, or trans, and you simply reply that you prefer not to have a label... and then you have all the power because they will either be stuck on that and you can lead them along like a sheep, or they are smart enough to understand sexuality and that they just passed your test...
pans, yeah they are redundant.. its sort of the hipster idea of bi's, but in the meaning of it, i prefer online relationships to real ones.. so sex is kind of truly side stepped..
in reality, they are both the same thing that sinks in the water... ;p
HOWEVER! you have my respect bro, and thats not something i give out lightly around here