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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:12 PM Reply

I'm inclined to agree, as it's the main reason I lost weight when I was 12 or so. I was very very fat beforehand.

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:15 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 02:49 PM, FattyWhale wrote:
At 1/24/13 02:42 PM, jjjkuk wrote:
At 1/24/13 02:38 PM, Travis wrote:
You two, get the fuck out of my thread.

Just wanted to repeat this, since the petty squabbling is killing the thread, and I reckon if it keeps up people will lose face.

(zing! oh wait no)

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:16 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 02:55 PM, Urban-Champion wrote: I know, and i'm doing it intentionally to prove a point. While the issue is different as a whole, the manner people are wanting to address this issue is no different than telling someone they have the wrong sexual disposition, race, or religion. I think a better comparison on my behalf would be to use smokers as an example. People who go out of their way to tell them that it's unhealthy are fucking blind. Clearly these people know their addiction is bad for their health. It's no one's business but theirs what they choose to do to their body, regardless of how "self destructive" the behavior may be. Same goes for fat people.

When I meet a fat person that is happy with their body I'll let you know. Smoking is un-healthy but those people are choosing pleasure over health. What plusher do you get from being fat? Again, You're confusing a lazy lifestyle to being fat. If you want to sit on your ass all day and eat crap that's cool if that's really want you want to do. But it's up to maintain your body weight. Is not doing that the fat lifestyle? Ignoring heath concerns? You can do whatever do want but it's laziness and you're fucking yourself over in the long run with health and social issues.

As much as i'd like to take this as a fact i think it's too much of a generalization to call every fat person hyper sensitive. I agree it's not a choice but it's also not our business to concern ourselves with someone else's lifestyle.

Some people like being lazy. Nobody likes being fat, they accept it. Some take it a lot harder than others. Being fat is as much of a lifestyle choose as being hungry is to not eating. It's an unhealthy bi-product of treating your body without respect. Sure it's a generalisation. I'm willing to admit that only because I have not meet every fat person in the World and sat down to have a conversation with them but every fat person I has complained about being fat.

So does that mean we should go up to her, tell her she's a fat fucking waste of life and she needs to change herself? Sign me up!

Sign yourself up, fatty. Do you really think of yourself as a fat fucking waste of life? Because I don't see my Mum as that. I see her as a nice woman who has suffered relentless her entire life from being overweight and I feel bad for her. Don't tell me she's happy with being overweight you fucking idiot. I can tell you aren't. The thing is she's just like you. No matter how nicely I try to help her to lose weight and feel better about herself she takes it as an insult. Do you know how sad it is to hear your Mother talk about how being over weight has fucked over her life and her confidence then when you try to help her she calls you a evil little asshole? Fuck off hypocrite.

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:17 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 03:10 PM, Travis wrote: I took so long because I was busy with real life you dumb twat. This is so ironic. Maybe it's you who needs to go outside?

Damn you are so fucking stupid.

Wait a minute.

At 1/24/13 02:04 PM, Travis wrote: You realize I'm a part time troll right?

'bye.

And thanks for plastering me all over your sig. I can see my handsome face every time you spew your filth on here.

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:19 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 03:07 PM, Urban-Champion wrote: just one post too late.

My bad, I messed that up.

I am aware that this issue is more comparable to smokers but i strongly feel that this issue is being addressed in a manner similar to shaming someone because their religion isn't the same as their own.

I don't see how? On a global scale, there are wars and death threats being exchanged over incompatible religions. I don't have any personal experience with religion being shamed or looked down upon unless it's shifted to extremism, so I'm not gonna make any claims there.

People still need to keep their noses out of other people's business.

I think if the goal is to help then it's not a bad thing to encourage a healthier lifestyle to others. Again, as with my example above, I'll mention to my friends I wish they wouldn't smoke but I'm not going to pester them day and night about it. I also wouldn't give any random stranger I see smoking a lecture about the risks.


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:20 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 02:04 PM, Travis wrote: You realize I'm a part time troll right?
'bye.

And thanks for plastering me all over your sig. I can see my handsome face every time you spew your filth on here.

I'm going to have to come back and read this at some point.

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:20 PM Reply

Being a lard-ass is not a mental or health condition, it's a lifestyle choice. Some people will accept it and some people won't. That's your problem. Grow up and deal with it. And don't blame it on society. You shoveled those twinkes down your mouth, and you can work them off with good eating and exercise. I just lost 10 pounds in a week and all I did was some exercises and only had a small amount of food a day (mostly fruit). It's not that fucking hard.


You're so retarded, not only do you have down syndrome, you have up, down, left, AND right syndrome.

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:22 PM Reply

I don't see the point in shaming fat or obese people. It's a path in life and with every path in life there are pros and cons. If you're fat and you expect everyone to be nice about it then well you're fucked. If you're anything or anyone you'll get shit for being who you are no matter what. Just because you exist doesn't mean everyone will respect you and your habits, if you're going to be something, fucking own up to it. I know fat people who have no problem getting laid or living normal lives, they are just that great of people because they aren't complete assholes and are good with people. If anything the shit they get for being fat makes them stronger later on.

I was an obese child and I was teased about it but I was also taller and bigger than all the kids my age so not many people ever fucked with me. But nonetheless I was fat out of comfortable habits I learned from my mother and I was obese for most of my life. I didn't know it was a "bad" thing. In my state we have mandatory physical education, I've never complained about because I liked the classes and it was usually twiggy skinny people who hated that classes.

The thing is if you're letting the abuse get to you then it'll continue. When I was teased as a kid or bullied I wouldn't react to it or show weakness to it. Thus the bullies lost interest because they couldn't get the reaction they wanted. Because I didn't give a fuck, I liked pizza and brisk iced tea, especially the raspberry one, because it's fucking delicious.

I've been a lot healthier since my late teens when I truly grew into my adult body and started eating healthier. Personally I wouldn't want to be as fat as I was as a kid ever again but that doesn't mean I'll hold that standard to everyone I meet and judge them based on superficial features. I know plenty of very intelligent fat people who just eat a lot because they've got stressful demanding jobs or stress about school and they choose to eat as a coping mechanism.

Unless the person is your child or something why should you really care if someone is fat?

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:26 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 12:36 PM, orangebomb wrote: Next thing we're going to do, we'll be shunning beer drinkers and masterbaters.

Well, there's a bit of a difference here.

"Discrimination" is not an issue, as they're being excluded based on choices, not something out of their control, like gender or race.

Also, beer drinkers and masturbators do affect others

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:28 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 03:22 PM, BPremo wrote: Unless the person is your child or something why should you really care if someone is fat?

I posted this point once but it got lost in a sea of two 15 year olds having an argument in this thread.

A fatter population means healthcare costs will go up. Think about how many illnesses people have that could have probably been prevented with a health lifestyle. Type 2 diabetes, heart disease, etc. These are largely preventable conditions, yet probably billions are spent in the US alone treating them. It's a waste of time and money for society to have to deal with an overly obese population.

Without obesity doctors and researchers could spend more time finding cures for less-preventable diseases (cancer, HIV, etc.).


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:33 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 03:28 PM, FattyWhale wrote:
At 1/24/13 03:22 PM, BPremo wrote: Unless the person is your child or something why should you really care if someone is fat?
I posted this point once but it got lost in a sea of two 15 year olds having an argument in this thread.

What, like a discussion? Why do I even bother anymore? My posts never get read and nothing ever changes.

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:33 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 03:16 PM, TheColourAwesome2 wrote:
At 1/24/13 02:55 PM, Urban-Champion wrote: I know, and i'm doing it intentionally to prove a point. While the issue is different as a whole, the manner people are wanting to address this issue is no different than telling someone they have the wrong sexual disposition, race, or religion. I think a better comparison on my behalf would be to use smokers as an example. People who go out of their way to tell them that it's unhealthy are fucking blind. Clearly these people know their addiction is bad for their health. It's no one's business but theirs what they choose to do to their body, regardless of how "self destructive" the behavior may be. Same goes for fat people.
When I meet a fat person that is happy with their body I'll let you know. Smoking is un-healthy but those people are choosing pleasure over health. What plusher do you get from being fat?

Gluttony for one... But the others are a bit "taboo" so to speak ;D

Again, You're confusing a lazy lifestyle to being fat.

No i'm not

If you want to sit on your ass all day and eat crap that's cool if that's really want you want to do. But it's up to [you to] maintain your body weight.

FUCKING EXACTLY. It's up to the INDIVIDUAL and NO ONE ELSE. Glad you agree.

Is not doing that the fat lifestyle? Ignoring heath concerns? You can do whatever do want but it's laziness and you're fucking yourself over in the long run with health and social issues.

But how come it has to be our responsibility to pick up for their misdoings? Hint: It's not


As much as i'd like to take this as a fact i think it's too much of a generalization to call every fat person hyper sensitive. I agree it's not a choice but it's also not our business to concern ourselves with someone else's lifestyle.
Some people like being lazy. Nobody likes being fat, they accept it. Some take it a lot harder than others. Being fat is as much of a lifestyle choose as being hungry is to not eating. It's an unhealthy bi-product of treating your body without respect. Sure it's a generalisation. I'm willing to admit that only because I have not meet every fat person in the World and sat down to have a conversation with them but every fat person I has complained about being fat.

So you're admitting that all evidence you've used in your argument is mostly anecdotal. Go figure.


So does that mean we should go up to her, tell her she's a fat fucking waste of life and she needs to change herself? Sign me up!
Sign yourself up, fatty. Do you really think of yourself as a fat fucking waste of life? Because I don't see my Mum as that. I see her as a nice woman who has suffered relentless her entire life from being overweight and I feel bad for her. Don't tell me she's happy with being overweight you fucking idiot.

Find the part in any of my posts where i said "people are happy with being overweight". I don't want to debate with people who twist words.

I can tell you aren't.

uh-huh that's nice rescue ranger

The thing is she's just like you. No matter how nicely I try to help her to lose weight and feel better about herself she takes it as an insult. Do you know how sad it is to hear your Mother talk about how being over weight has fucked over her life and her confidence then when you try to help her she calls you a evil little asshole? Fuck off hypocrite.

Maybe you haven't found the correct way to truly address this issue you have with your mother. But I'm no psychologist and i never claimed to be. And again, generalizations, anecdotal...


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:46 PM Reply

i cant wait to be able to laugh at the fat ones


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:47 PM Reply

I don't think anyone here has the ability to make me feel more ashamed of myself about my size. All you will reinforce is that I eat more cake with a big 'fuck you'.

Losing weight is something I want to do for me, for my wellbeing, not because I don't want people to be mean anymore. Fuck people.

Want to help a fat person, then actually fucking help them. The most useful thing for me is having people to talk to about my weight and with ideas for living a healthier lifestyle. It really works.

By bullying people, all you will do is either move them closer to fattening foods or to a fucking rope.


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:52 PM Reply

i already shame them with my cold hard steve austin looks


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:56 PM Reply

A perfect example, there was a user on here, who would constantly give me shit about my weight. All that did was make me think he was a jerk best to be ignored. Not uncommon, I have a lot of users who give me shit about being fat. Like I said, I usually just write them off as shitty human beings and not take offense when they take a cheap shot at me.

After I decided to lose weight (only because my nan wanted to go to Weight Watchers so I just said I'd join the made a proper go of it), this user got in touch with me and gave me ideas and support which to this day has continued.

He has become the person I normally get in contact with when I have a question about healthier living or am feeling unmotivated and just need that support.

So yeah, that works. Bullying does not.

And like bees said, no one is telling you to have sex with a fat person or even be friends with them if you shamelessly base all values of a person on their appearance. There is no need to be an asshole though and simply disguise it as "I'm just trying to help". You're not helping anyone.


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 03:59 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 03:56 PM, Gagsy wrote: You're not helping anyone.

Actually you help everyone if you read my post above.


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:02 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 03:59 PM, FattyWhale wrote:
Actually you help everyone if you read my post above.

About healthcare cost?

Oh my bad. Its ok to bully fat people because they MIGHT end up needing treatment that is related to their obesity.


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:04 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 03:47 PM, Gagsy wrote: I don't think anyone here has the ability to make me feel more ashamed of myself about my size. All you will reinforce is that I eat more cake with a big 'fuck you'.

Losing weight is something I want to do for me, for my wellbeing, not because I don't want people to be mean anymore. Fuck people.

Want to help a fat person, then actually fucking help them. The most useful thing for me is having people to talk to about my weight and with ideas for living a healthier lifestyle. It really works.

By bullying people, all you will do is either move them closer to fattening foods or to a fucking rope.

This is much more realistic and I totally agree. I realise that my example of when I was a big big 12 year old doesn't really work, because sadly bullying is the motivator of most things to a 12 year old. I get that's not functional for grown ups, who really need the most help with weight problems.

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:05 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 03:28 PM, FattyWhale wrote:
At 1/24/13 03:22 PM, BPremo wrote: Unless the person is your child or something why should you really care if someone is fat?
I posted this point once but it got lost in a sea of two 15 year olds having an argument in this thread.

A fatter population means healthcare costs will go up. Think about how many illnesses people have that could have probably been prevented with a health lifestyle. Type 2 diabetes, heart disease, etc. These are largely preventable conditions, yet probably billions are spent in the US alone treating them. It's a waste of time and money for society to have to deal with an overly obese population.

Without obesity doctors and researchers could spend more time finding cures for less-preventable diseases (cancer, HIV, etc.).

I don't know very much about the exact inner workings of healthcare, but what you say is pretty true.

There is an issue with treating obese people, I've heard cases where doctors refuse to have fat patients because they are higher risk and the doctors don't want to get sued.

But there is a gray area between an obese person who is by choice, is only slightly overweight, someone who is overweight but no history of illness, using body mass index as the official judge of being fat, or an obese person who is obese due to genetic vulnerability or other medical reasons and how to very cleanly and exactly define it and label it without people crying discrimination.

Should healthcare or insurance deny me treatment because I was born with a heart condition and it would cost them too much to treat me? At this point I'd like to hear from this topic because you've made a good point and this is the only real rational reason why fat people effect others in any real way.

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:14 PM Reply

If we're going to bully and stop medical treatment for those that are fat then surely we need to do the same for alcoholics. AA meetings which try to help that person? No no. They're a dirty drunk and we should tell them that right, not try to support them.

And fuck if they need a new liver or get one of the very damaging long term effects caused by consuming too much alcohol over a long period. They brought it onto themselves by not choosing to live a healthier life right.


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:26 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 12:48 PM, jjjkuk wrote:
Truth hurts. These twats that managed to become obese have a mental problem and need force to help themselves.

Being overweight is a physical condition, not a mental one. There are some psychological conditions that may contribute to becoming obese however.

If your argument is that they need force to help themselves. Now they wouldn't really be losing weight on their own initiative now would they?

When I teach people how to play golf and swing a club properly, I don't yell or ridicule them if they make a mistake, I don't get frustrated with them, nor do I tell them that their swing is just atrocious. I encourage them, praise their progress and uniqueness, and stay patient and keep a cool head. In my opinion as well as most others, that method of teaching is much more effective than the first, or what psychology labels as "negative reinforcement."

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:27 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 04:05 PM, BPremo wrote: But there is a gray area between an obese person who is by choice, is only slightly overweight, someone who is overweight but no history of illness, using body mass index as the official judge of being fat, or an obese person who is obese due to genetic vulnerability or other medical reasons and how to very cleanly and exactly define it and label it without people crying discrimination.

Genetic problems will be discovered and addressed as time goes on. Current research shows that only about 6% of morbidly obese children and adults have a gene that causes them to poorly regulate their food intake.

Should healthcare or insurance deny me treatment because I was born with a heart condition and it would cost them too much to treat me?

I haven't done much research on the subject, so I'm not the best source here. It is my understanding though, that most patients who are refused medical care for whatever condition they have are refused because of risk involved with treating them, not direct cost. Doctors/Hospitals are concerned that if a high-risk surgery or treatment results in death, they could be held liable. Insurance is another issue, of which I have little knowledge.

At 1/24/13 04:02 PM, Gagsy wrote: About healthcare cost?

Oh my bad. Its ok to bully fat people because they MIGHT end up needing treatment that is related to their obesity.

Before I go and find sources to prove you wrong... is your point that the trend between increasing obesity rates and the increase in preventable diseases is negligible?

At 1/24/13 04:14 PM, Gagsy wrote: If we're going to bully and stop medical treatment for those that are fat then surely we need to do the same for alcoholics. AA meetings which try to help that person? No no. They're a dirty drunk and we should tell them that right, not try to support them.

Surely obese people will need support in losing weight. The problem is that obese people today (most) aren't convinced to lose weight due to their dramatically shortened lifespan, so societal changes need to happen. Sadly, obesity is just accepted, and people make up excuses for why they don't lose weight. Being an alcoholic is frowned upon, but that doesn't mean you can't get support for this problem.

And fuck if they need a new liver or get one of the very damaging long term effects caused by consuming too much alcohol over a long period. They brought it onto themselves by not choosing to live a healthier life right.

In terms of organ transplants, absolutely. Donor organs are in extreme shortage, and someone who has a genetic reason to need a new liver should absolutely get it before an alcoholic with sclerosis.


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:31 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 04:26 PM, Saen wrote:
At 1/24/13 12:48 PM, jjjkuk wrote:
Truth hurts. These twats that managed to become obese have a mental problem and need force to help themselves.
Being overweight is a physical condition, not a mental one. There are some psychological conditions that may contribute to becoming obese however.

Actually being overweight is a physical result of a mental condition i.e. the addiction and constant desire for the short-term relief and happiness that eating brings you. Eating releases endorphins, which is the main part that anyone goes back to anything. Same reasons anyone gets addicted to anything - the ups and the downs and the way the brain is shaped around them after exposure to that pattern.

I mean condition with a lower-case c here.

When I teach people how to play golf and swing a club properly, I don't yell or ridicule them if they make a mistake, I don't get frustrated with them, nor do I tell them that their swing is just atrocious. I encourage them, praise their progress and uniqueness, and stay patient and keep a cool head. In my opinion as well as most others, that method of teaching is much more effective than the first, or what psychology labels as "negative reinforcement."

Have you ever seen A Clockwork Orange?

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:41 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 04:31 PM, Otto wrote:
Actually being overweight is a physical result of a mental condition i.e. the addiction and constant desire for the short-term relief and happiness that eating brings you. Eating releases endorphins, which is the main part that anyone goes back to anything. Same reasons anyone gets addicted to anything - the ups and the downs and the way the brain is shaped around them after exposure to that pattern.

I mean condition with a lower-case c here.

By that argument you should also be able to say that all people who are not addicted to eating food are not overweight. Obviously that is not the case at all. Environment (food), genetics, psychological conditions all contribute to obesity, to tackle all of those issues with just a social change driven by negative reinforcement is not the answer nor a sole solution.

That's why obesity is an issue, which at first glance may be quite similar, but indeed very different than smoking.


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:45 PM Reply

Let me break it down for you then I'm done with this dance.

It had been proven time and time again that the most effective way of helping people to lose weight long term is through support.

Either by them losing weight/getting fitting with a friend, attending weight loss meetings, logging with one of the numerous weight tracking sites, visiting a dietitian. Whatever It has proven to work better than someone going it alone.

All you do by bullying fat people and belittling their very existence and worth is make them feel more isolated, alone and ultimately helpless to change themselves.

So if you REALLY want to help fat people because you're worried about the healthcare industry then actually help them by offering support to them. Be their workout buddy, their motivation helper. I promise you it works so much more than bullying ever ever could.

And if you just want to bully fat people then congratulations you're a dick.


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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:48 PM Reply

if you can't be fat and OWN it, then you should kill yourself or lose weight

i am all for this

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:48 PM Reply

Everyone has their vices; fat people can live how they please.

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Response to Make fat people feel ashamed Jan. 24th, 2013 @ 04:49 PM Reply

At 1/24/13 04:45 PM, Gagsy wrote:
It had been proven time and time again that the most effective way of helping people to lose weight long term is through support.

You're exactly right. As much as I dislike the subject, the field of psychology has already done research and explained the concepts of the effectiveness of positive reinforcement.

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At 1/24/13 04:45 PM, Gagsy wrote: It had been proven time and time again that the most effective way of helping people to lose weight long term is through support.

Either by them losing weight/getting fitting with a friend, attending weight loss meetings, logging with one of the numerous weight tracking sites, visiting a dietitian. Whatever It has proven to work better than someone going it alone.

I don't think we're on the same page here. The physical act of losing weight is certainly easier in a social environment. That has been proven, yes. The impetus to lose weight is just not there currently.


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