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Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 12:52:55 Reply

It only occurred to me today how little I have done this in my life, or at least my life after my infant / young child years. I can't actually recall a time I last hugged my mother before today sincerely, the last time being when I was ungrateful of her affection and didn't return the hug. Looking back at it I can't understand why I seemed to averted to hugging her, to showing any sense of love to her which I felt inside. Today my mother asked for a hug and rather than just surrounding me in her arms I returned it and held her back for a short few seconds, something which awakened such warm feelings inside to the knowledge I finally gave her what she obviously must have wanted from me for years back when I was an ungrateful child and denied all such affection. That simple bond of motherly love with her offspring which she desired from the years of caring, and still caring for me now that I have left the nest.

I question the users of Newgrounds, for when was the last time you hugged your mother? When was the last time you returned the loving affection to her for all the years of looking after you? And why do we let ourselves fall into such sad statuses of refusing to return the love, being so ungrateful to them for all they have done for us in our lives?


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 13:06:39 Reply

It has been over 11 years since last I hugged my mother. She died of kidney and liver cancer when I was 9. Doctors said its been lying dormant in her for years. I remember hugging her on that hospital bed before leaving. 3 days later she was gone.

I grew up without my mother, so please. If you have a mother be sure to return all the love she has shown you, especially on such a joyous time of year. Because you never know how valuable someone is until they're gone.

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 13:07:20 Reply

i haven't seen my mother since i was 15/16 and i don't miss her at all

fuck her


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 13:08:53 Reply

My mother is just as averse to physical contact as I am.

We have an understanding.

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 13:37:18 Reply

At 12/25/12 01:06 PM, GodOfVideoGames wrote: It has been over 11 years since last I hugged my mother. She died of kidney and liver cancer when I was 9. Doctors said its been lying dormant in her for years. I remember hugging her on that hospital bed before leaving. 3 days later she was gone.

That is deeply depressing. But it is good that you did show her the love and well being that you felt towards her like you did. I am sure it made her mind more happy for her final days to know her child would live on and cared for her.

I grew up without my mother, so please. If you have a mother be sure to return all the love she has shown you, especially on such a joyous time of year. Because you never know how valuable someone is until they're gone.

This is completely true, people always overlook something until they lose it.


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 13:48:22 Reply

We're not a hugging family.

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 13:49:30 Reply

At 12/25/12 01:07 PM, Sekhem wrote: i haven't seen my mother since i was 15/16 and i don't miss her at all

fuck her

No wonder you're so bitter.

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 14:06:08 Reply

She lives on the other side of the planet. I usually see her once a year, but it's been 2-3 years since I've seen her. Eh.


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 14:26:47 Reply

I haven't even seen the brain-dead drunk in over a year. And I don't plan on changing that, especially since she moved house and didn't tell me where she'd gone.

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 14:30:08 Reply

At 12/25/12 02:26 PM, Sheizenhammer wrote: I haven't even seen the brain-dead drunk in over a year. And I don't plan on changing that, especially since she moved house and didn't tell me where she'd gone.

With people like that yes it is understandable, my father was similar and I dislike meeting him.


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 14:49:46 Reply

wow... i didn't expect so many mommy issues on a site full of manchildren. maybe it's time to work out whatever disputes you have with your mother and reunite the family, it's the season after all

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 15:37:38 Reply

the other day

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 15:42:49 Reply

At 12/25/12 01:48 PM, Jester wrote: We're not a hugging family.

Pretty much this for me too.


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 15:57:26 Reply

I'm not a hugging kind of guy.

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 15:58:08 Reply

I hope my mom dies in a serious house fire.

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 16:00:12 Reply

yesterday


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 16:22:36 Reply

I've been a mama's boy my whole life...

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 16:24:08 Reply

At 12/25/12 04:12 PM, Cherry wrote: Could someone please tell this person he is painfully unfunny because I have done so many times and it is not getting through

Yeah and hes probably trying to be annoying with the tag and failing miserably

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 16:51:10 Reply

At 12/25/12 12:52 PM, Ragnarokia wrote: When was the last time you returned the loving affection to her for all the years of looking after you?

I honestly can't remember the last time I was hugged by anyone, let alone hug another human being. It eludes me, to be truthful. Especially around the holiday season, where I see more and more people showing more affection toward one another. It's just something that I never really gave any thought, to tell you the truth.


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 17:26:33 Reply

I rarely really hug my mother, but we mess around a lot. I like to throw her on the ground and catch her just before she falls, that kind of thing. You know, the kind of playful fighting that you normally do with your dad, who i never really had.
But we have affectionate hugs too, just not that often. Only when i really she needs it.
I love her to death though. And i have a lot of respect for how she raised 4 kids on her own, with little money.
My mom is the best mom ever.


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 18:32:35 Reply

i keep reading this "hanging your mother" and it disturbs me

i hug my mom every time i see her

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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 18:36:13 Reply

I actually hugged my Mother today, for the first time in a few years. She actually hugged me, but I returned it, It was because she really liked what I got her for Christmas.


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-25 18:36:17 Reply

Go fucking kill yourself you piece of shit. FUCK YOU. I FUCKING HATE YOU. PIECE OF SHIT. I WILL CUT YOU INTO LIKE 50 FUCKING PIECES BEFORE YOU EVER COME NEAR ME YOU WORTHLESS WASTE OF HUMAN GENES. AND THEN I'LL LIGHT YOUR CORPSE ON FIRE AND LEAVE.


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-26 12:54:49 Reply

My mother is awesome. I hugged her yesterday, on Christmas of course!


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Response to Hugging your mother 2012-12-26 13:19:10 Reply

just yesterday really

why would a boy hate his momma yo dat ain't


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