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Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 05:25 PM Reply

Time to ask a highly reputable site with years of social experience (who am I kidding, i'm lying out of my ass) for help. There is this girl that I have been texting for say a month now, but I have never called her before. I know that I can't maintain a relationship or a friendship by text alone, so I'm deciding if I should make the drastic move of actually calling her via phone.

Would it make a better impression on her if I called her out of the blue for the first time, after purely texting her for a month and nothing more?

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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 05:26 PM Reply

Call

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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 05:27 PM Reply

At 12/9/12 05:26 PM, Xenomit wrote: Call

I'm still pondering it.

And give yert his account back

He can suck me off.

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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 05:29 PM Reply

At 12/9/12 05:25 PM, Yert wrote: Time to ask a highly reputable site with years of social experience (who am I kidding, i'm lying out of my ass) for help. There is this girl that I have been texting for say a month now, but I have never called her before. I know that I can't maintain a relationship or a friendship by text alone, so I'm deciding if I should make the drastic move of actually calling her via phone.

Would it make a better impression on her if I called her out of the blue for the first time, after purely texting her for a month and nothing more?

Ask her first through text. I've had people that I don't know too well call me without asking and it ALWAYS makes me mad. I'm sure this isn't the case for you, but I think you should play it safe and ask first. It will probably be awkward and weird and she'll never talk to you again, but yea, ask first anyways :)


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 05:31 PM Reply

At 12/9/12 05:29 PM, selena18 wrote:
At 12/9/12 05:25 PM, Yert wrote:
Ask her first through text. I've had people that I don't know too well call me without asking and it ALWAYS makes me mad. I'm sure this isn't the case for you, but I think you should play it safe and ask first. It will probably be awkward and weird and she'll never talk to you again, but yea, ask first anyways :)

The mere thought of texting her just to ask if I can call her sounds weird as hell. Maybe I just don't understand where you're going at.

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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 05:33 PM Reply

At 12/9/12 05:31 PM, Yert wrote:
At 12/9/12 05:29 PM, selena18 wrote:
At 12/9/12 05:25 PM, Yert wrote:
Ask her first through text. I've had people that I don't know too well call me without asking and it ALWAYS makes me mad. I'm sure this isn't the case for you, but I think you should play it safe and ask first. It will probably be awkward and weird and she'll never talk to you again, but yea, ask first anyways :)
The mere thought of texting her just to ask if I can call her sounds weird as hell. Maybe I just don't understand where you're going at.

In my opinion it'd be smarter to say.. hey can I call you? Instead of randomly calling when maybe she doesn't want to talk on the phone


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 05:38 PM Reply

Maybe you should tell her if she wants to talk on the phone? (What would I know, I'm a cynical Neck Bear)


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 05:40 PM Reply

It wouldn't be bad to ask her out through texts. Maybe after the date, you can open up more and mention if she would like to talk on the 'phone with you.

Also, you should post stupid stuff with Yert's account. Abuse it.


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 05:48 PM Reply

At 12/9/12 05:41 PM, hiddeninthecrowd wrote:
At 12/9/12 05:40 PM, jjjkuk wrote: Also, you should post stupid stuff with Yert's account. Abuse it.
this isn't it?

It is the opposite of Yert, yes, but I mean something more aggressive. I dunno.


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 05:49 PM Reply

Just text her and ask if she would like to talk over the phone sometime. it's that simple. asking the bbs is probably the worst thing you can do anyways.

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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 06:18 PM Reply

texting is so god damn slow in comparison to actually calling a person.

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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 07:52 PM Reply

People dont call much anymore it is sad really so i say.

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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 09:41 PM Reply

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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 09:42 PM Reply

At 12/9/12 09:41 PM, notYert wrote: Ã'

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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 09:44 PM Reply

Did you ask if you can call her yet?


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 10:25 PM Reply

I would call her. I used to be nervous to call a girl, in fear of an awkward conversation, but yeah, call her.


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 10:45 PM Reply

I read "little girl" by default. Ten internet doubloons says this girl is really 10 years old


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 9th, 2012 @ 10:53 PM Reply

i hate talking to people over the phone, and you should too


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 10th, 2012 @ 12:15 AM Reply

Ask her out in Person, then call her the next day, but if you text and talk to her too much, you'll just end up in the friend zone, so make sure you make her want you and not appear too clingy or desperate.


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 18th, 2012 @ 12:34 PM Reply

i prefer textin but somtimes call

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Response to Text or call? Dec. 18th, 2012 @ 12:37 PM Reply

call,voices are better than text


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 18th, 2012 @ 12:41 PM Reply

At 12/9/12 05:25 PM, Yert wrote: Time to ask a highly reputable site with years of social experience (who am I kidding, i'm lying out of my ass) for help.

Can't argue with that.

There is this girl that I have been texting for say a month now, but I have never called her before.

Sounds like you'll fit right in!


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Response to Text or call? Dec. 18th, 2012 @ 12:56 PM Reply

Time to ask a highly reputable site with years of social experience (who am I kidding, i'm lying out of my ass) for help.
Can't argue with that.

There is this girl that I have been texting for say a month now, but I have never called her before.
Sounds like you'll fit right in!

Ah, I fucked that up. Whatever, It wasn't funny anyway.


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