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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 16:19:33 Reply

At 11/18/12 04:06 PM, TheTruth34 wrote:

Everyone has got a different idea of what they want.
yeah I like having a relationship its just complicated sometimes

Why would you say it is complicated sometimes? If you don't mind me asking.

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 16:20:53 Reply

At 11/18/12 03:22 PM, TheTruth34 wrote:
At 11/18/12 03:06 PM, Sequenced wrote: I wish I could even start a relationship. I always some how screw it up.
its not hard to start one it is hard to end one

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 16:27:01 Reply

At 11/18/12 04:15 AM, TheTruth34 wrote: how many of you actually enjoy being in a relationship? I mean its ok I guess but women nag to much. That is how I look at it. I mean it is nice having someone but sometimes I wish I was still single. Anyone else feel this way? discuss. Post pics of your gf/bf if you want

I totally get what you mean dude. I gave out my heart to someone, but the whole time I thought she liked me back, I was really being led on a rollercoaster of emotions, it was the only time I really liked someone that much, and it made me realise relationships are just leaving yourself open to emotional harm.


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 16:32:05 Reply

I totally get what you mean dude. I gave out my heart to someone, but the whole time I thought she liked me back, I was really being led on a rollercoaster of emotions, it was the only time I really liked someone that much, and it made me realise relationships are just leaving yourself open to emotional harm.

yeah that happened to me before. It happens you just have to move on

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 16:57:18 Reply

At 11/18/12 04:15 AM, TheTruth34 wrote: how many of you actually enjoy being in a relationship? I mean its ok I guess but women nag to much. That is how I look at it. I mean it is nice having someone but sometimes I wish I was still single. Anyone else feel this way? discuss. Post pics of your gf/bf if you want

I guess it's that old chestnut of you only want what you can't have. When you're in a relationship you forget just how bad and depressing it can be being single.

I'm actually very happy with my girlfriend. And no fucking way am I going to post a pic of her on this site :P hahaha


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 17:02:25 Reply

I guess it's that old chestnut of you only want what you can't have. When you're in a relationship you forget just how bad and depressing it can be being single.

I'm actually very happy with my girlfriend. And no fucking way am I going to post a pic of her on this site :P hahaha

yeah I guess I have forgot what it like to be single..... and hahahahaha good idea bro I wouldn't either

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 17:06:37 Reply

At 11/18/12 05:04 PM, Scary wrote: "tfw no gf" threads now becoming a staple of the bbs

what?

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 17:21:17 Reply

At 11/18/12 05:04 PM, Scary wrote: "tfw no gf" threads now becoming a staple of the bbs

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 17:23:24 Reply

At 11/18/12 05:21 PM, Slint wrote:
At 11/18/12 05:04 PM, Scary wrote: "tfw no gf" threads now becoming a staple of the bbs
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I have a gf so that doesn't make sense

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 17:35:04 Reply

its good when its good


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 17:53:19 Reply

At 11/18/12 05:23 PM, TheTruth34 wrote:
At 11/18/12 05:21 PM, Slint wrote:
At 11/18/12 05:04 PM, Scary wrote: "tfw no gf" threads now becoming a staple of the bbs
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I have a gf so that doesn't make sense

Yeah you made a thread complaining about it shut the fuck up already.


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 17:54:39 Reply

Yeah you made a thread complaining about it shut the fuck up already.

I am not complaining I was just discussing it

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 18:59:19 Reply

I enjoy being in a relationship. Too bad my hand is the only relationship I'm in as of right now.

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 19:05:05 Reply

At 11/18/12 06:59 PM, NerdLiife wrote: I enjoy being in a relationship. Too bad my hand is the only relationship I'm in as of right now.

sad day....

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 19:17:26 Reply

Well, I might have mentioned this in another thread, but I kinda have a slogan for describing my relationship status: "Girlfriend-free since '93." This doesn't mean that I don't care about relationships, it's just that I've never been in one.

I never know how to make those steps from being a good friend with someone of the opposite sex to being in a relationship with them. And most of the people I've thought about dating already have boyfriends, so I really can't do much about that.

Although, the night before I graduated high school earlier this year, I did ask one of my closest friends if she would want to go on a date with me sometime in the future. She agreed, but she was giggling whenever I brought it up. I'm not sure what that means, but I think I'm making progress on overcoming my shyness. Sort of.

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 19:21:00 Reply


Although, the night before I graduated high school earlier this year, I did ask one of my closest friends if she would want to go on a date with me sometime in the future. She agreed, but she was giggling whenever I brought it up. I'm not sure what that means, but I think I'm making progress on overcoming my shyness. Sort of.

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 19:54:13 Reply

im in love atm but im not sure if i actually want to pursue a relationship with her because she happens to be one of my closest friends ever what should i do newgrounds please give me your wisdom


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 19:55:25 Reply

At 11/18/12 07:54 PM, notYert wrote: im in love atm but im not sure if i actually want to pursue a relationship with her because she happens to be one of my closest friends ever what should i do newgrounds please give me your wisdom

haave sex with her

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 19:57:16 Reply

At 11/18/12 07:55 PM, TheTruth34 wrote:
At 11/18/12 07:54 PM, notYert wrote: im in love atm but im not sure if i actually want to pursue a relationship with her because she happens to be one of my closest friends ever what should i do newgrounds please give me your wisdom
haave sex with her

kk thanks for helping me through this difficult situation newgrounds


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-18 20:00:22 Reply


haave sex with her
kk thanks for helping me through this difficult situation newgrounds

your welcome if that doesn't work buy her flowers or a dildo

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-19 01:52:09 Reply

I somehow always end up in long relationships. I've had 3 pretty serious ones, two of them being over two years long.

Idk why, I guess I just enjoy relationships. Maybe it's the companionship or something.


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-19 02:14:11 Reply

My huge issue with typical relationships is that rush couples have to "fall in love". Kids fall into a relationship in highschool and before you know it they're planning for the future and marriage for God's sake! The cycle starts all over again in college, it's absurd, couples claiming love and talking marriage in a month of dating.

Through all of my experience, I prefer my relationship status now. I have a fling outside of town, I can satisfy my craving of rough passionate sex, thoughtful conversations, and basically enjoying myself while she's accompying me. I don't worry about texting, love, or "our future". I just don't see any benefit of rushing into a relationship.

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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-19 02:16:25 Reply

Had a long term relationship. Moved into an apartment with her, and we quickly got annoyed with one another. I was the only one working, and her insecurities were compromising everything it seemed. After her and I broke up (for the fourth or fifth time or something) and I abandoned the apartment, I've learned the advantages of being single. I keep my eye out for a woman who's not carrying so much baggage it'll bog me down, but at the moment I'm just focusing on myself. It's not only easier, cheaper, but actually a helluva lot less stressful. "The man who wants nothing is invincible."

Granted, that shit's going to expire as I get older...at the moment I'm content.


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-19 02:28:56 Reply

Society has a very unhealthy perspective of relationships. To me, sex and romance are merely an extension of an existing friendship. The idea that asking for something intimate with someone is awkward is just as stupid as it being awkward to invite someone with you to go skydiving when they haven't before. It's just a new activity. Seriously.

I think the biggest factor that makes relationships so dramatic is this dumb idea we have of monogamy. Putting some dumb rule on a relationship to make it 'special' doesn't do anything other than give you an extra reason to break up, and an extra rule to abide by.

Right now I'm technically single. I do enjoy spending time with people in what someone might call an 'intimate relationship' but I seem to have the absolute worst luck when it comes to that kind of stuff. Either people are never available, they're completely incompatible, or some ridiculously unlikely scenario makes building a relationship extremely difficult and stressful (right now is one of those times, although I don't care how difficult it is, it's worth it a million times over).


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-19 10:42:14 Reply

At 11/18/12 04:15 AM, TheTruth34 wrote: how many of you actually enjoy being in a relationship?

I actually enjoyed being in a relationship so much that I convinced her to get a Newgrounds account and join me in London for a meet.

Shame that she didn't share the same ideals as me, as we're no longer together...


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-19 10:44:31 Reply

At 11/18/12 08:00 PM, TheTruth34 wrote:

haave sex with her
kk thanks for helping me through this difficult situation newgrounds
your welcome if that doesn't work buy her flowers or a dildo

And a penicorn


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-19 12:13:07 Reply

At 11/19/12 10:42 AM, Coop wrote:
At 11/18/12 04:15 AM, TheTruth34 wrote: how many of you actually enjoy being in a relationship?
I actually enjoyed being in a relationship so much that I convinced her to get a Newgrounds account and join me in London for a meet.

Shame that she didn't share the same ideals as me, as we're no longer together...

And one would've think Newgrounds could corrupt any one's mind to make us think as one, serving our overlord Wadolf...


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-19 14:21:17 Reply

At 11/19/12 12:13 PM, Slint wrote:
At 11/19/12 10:42 AM, Coop wrote: Shame that she didn't share the same ideals as me, as we're no longer together...
And one would've think Newgrounds could corrupt any one's mind to make us think as one, serving our overlord Wadolf...

I wonder if I could get someone female in the NG community, who is willing to serve Wadolf?


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-19 14:31:22 Reply

At 11/19/12 02:21 PM, Coop wrote:
I wonder if I could get someone female in the NG community, who is willing to serve Wadolf?

I don't know about serve Wadolf but I'm sure there are some.. accommodating females amongst the NG ranks. So you wouldn't scare them off with your addiction to this place which was probably too extreme for normal ladies.


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Response to Girlfriend/Boyfri end discussion 2012-11-19 14:37:47 Reply

At 11/19/12 02:31 PM, Gagsy wrote:
I don't know about serve Wadolf but I'm sure there are some.. accommodating females amongst the NG ranks. So you wouldn't scare them off with your addiction to this place which was probably too extreme for normal ladies.

Normal is boring anyways.