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Response to Explain Insecurity to Me 2012-11-13 19:58:42 Reply

At 11/13/12 07:50 PM, Insanctuary wrote: I'm going to put this bluntly: Everyone has insecurities.

At this point, I'm just going to disagree, and leave it at that. You and I clearly see the insecurities of humanity on different levels and, as llssm put it, we'll never be able to change each other's points of view.


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Response to Explain Insecurity to Me 2012-11-13 20:00:45 Reply

At 11/13/12 07:58 PM, Scarface wrote: At this point, I'm just going to disagree, and leave it at that. You and I clearly see the insecurities of humanity on different levels and, as llssm put it, we'll never be able to change each other's points of view.

Regardless, I always become shortly more experienced with every discussion I get myself in, so thank you for the attendance.


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Response to Explain Insecurity to Me 2012-11-13 20:01:57 Reply

At 11/13/12 08:00 PM, Insanctuary wrote: Regardless, I always become shortly more experienced with every discussion I get myself in, so thank you for the attendance.

I always enjoy a good civilized disagreement.


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Response to Explain Insecurity to Me 2012-11-13 20:08:54 Reply

My insecurity stems from how greatly my high school and grade school lives differed. I was an honor student in grade school and did shitty in high school. I was asocial and lonely in grade school and, as high school came to a close, I developed a good social life. This being the case, I feel tremendous pressure to get good grades and am always a bit suspicious of what people think of me.

In the case of psychology, old habits die very hard, especially in relation to childhood insecurities.


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Response to Explain Insecurity to Me 2012-11-13 21:27:42 Reply

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Response to Explain Insecurity to Me 2012-11-13 21:59:04 Reply

I think this thread may have gotten a little sidetracked. I made this thread because I'm already able to perceive the insecurities of others. I understand what insecurity does to people because I can see how it affects peoples' behavior. What I fail to understand is where that insecurity comes from, and especially what makes a person more or less susceptible.

At 11/13/12 06:34 AM, Insanctuary wrote: Your insecurity is buried in a false security. This false security is known as 'Pride'. Your confidence and your avoidance involved with vulnerability is the key to your hidden insecurity.

I don't really have a sense of-

Oh, it's you. Nevermind.


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Response to Explain Insecurity to Me 2012-11-14 00:42:56 Reply

Insecurity is the blind spot in self awareness. It comes from memories of pain and a failure of the frontal lobe to resolve. A relivable event coiled in ambiguous tangent ideas/emotions known only to the self. Played over and over in successions as the basic binary software from the most earliest moments. Overwriting is impossible as the brain is intelligently design to search for any algorithm capable to handle the unknown world. Basically, you can't destroy the algorithm and replace the algorithm at the same time. It's logically impossible. Working with the bad experience and incorporating fixes can help, but in reality any mind can be broken somehow.

In summery, no one can escape their past.

My insecurities made me quiet strange person. It gave me the motivations to drive further and in other respects punished the good behavior.


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